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 ibakecakes
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Having read through the 7 or more pages of discussions about black women not dating black men, I saw a comment that basically asked a poster if being black was what defined him. When filling in forms these days, it is quite common to be asked if you have a disability and also what 'race' you are. So with the government and stastistics obviously using the colour of a person's skin or disability to formulate who we all are, what do you think defines you? If you were asked to describe yourself in 5 words, what would they be? Would define ourselves by our sex, age, skin colour and perhaps whether we are a parent or maybe even marital status - is this REALLy what we are all about?
 Strider886
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Posted: 3/23/2012 7:22:41 AM
"It's what you do that defines you"
 Wafta
Joined: 9/9/2008
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Posted: 3/23/2012 7:54:01 AM
I can only think of one word.

Me
 *rem*
Joined: 11/5/2008
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Posted: 3/23/2012 8:07:00 AM

Single....white....happy.....independant.....mother


Is it me or..?

Meticulous (things im passionate about anyway)
Patient
Confident
Talented
Humble
 sprite1950
Joined: 9/17/2011
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Posted: 3/23/2012 10:29:38 AM
Every time I try to write something I end up deleting it because reading it back makes me cringe. I dont like describing myself
 ControlledFolly
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Posted: 3/23/2012 11:19:59 AM
My intent through action.

Others define me as an enigma - Thats ok i dont understand myself most of the time.
 flaneur001
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Posted: 3/23/2012 1:50:57 PM
How I would describe myself:
compassionate
authentic
calm socially poised introvert
sensitive
thoughtful

How others would describe me:
creative
fearless
dynamic
compassionate
direct
 *rem*
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Posted: 3/26/2012 6:22:41 PM

I wonder, does having the collective power to make things one finds unpleasant (virtually) disappear count as some kind of privilege?

No it doesn't count but it happens. What i love is racists being able to say what they like but polite responses restricted to exclude the implication of the obvious.
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