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 Wise_Monk
Joined: 7/21/2005
Msg: 6
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I had a situation like this before. It didn't go quite THIS far, but far enough.

I had a young lady play a similar game. I was doing really well financially during this time, but I never discussed it with her or anyone in public. One of her friends tipped her off about how I was doing. Suddenly I was getting messages and calls from her almost daily talking about how much she missed me, and how she wanted to hang out, etc.

Smh, lol. What this amounts to is a woman who is opportunistic. You only hear from her when she's in need, be it emotional or financial, but she has no real intent to form a lasting relationship. Back then, I was the type who would play the game back; set up fake dates and not show up, promise things and never do it, offer to help with something important and never do it, disappear from contact. I was a real cut-up, but it's not like those women didn't deserve it. Indirectly, I was teaching them a lesson; you deserve to get what you give.
 mysteriosa
Joined: 5/19/2006
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Should I talk to her again?
Posted: 3/30/2012 11:11:50 AM
She's messed you around once already. Why wouldn't she do it again? You'd be better off with someone who cares about your feelings, not just her own, and who is reliable.
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