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 neck romancer
Joined: 9/7/2006
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why are you asking us instead of him?
 jeep1127girl
Joined: 12/31/2009
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My boyfriend introduces me as his wife??
Posted: 3/29/2012 9:47:13 PM
Say...remember we are not married? Its girlfriend...???
 IgorFrankensteen
Joined: 6/29/2009
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Posted: 3/30/2012 3:12:52 AM
I would say that the fact that it bothers you so much, suggests that you have something even more significant to discuss with him than jocular introductory titling. Perhaps you have marriage in mind as an ultimate goal so firmly, that it is mere background pastiche to you, while he has no serious attitude about marriage at all.

If you've been together long enough to be that serious, then more communication is in order, and by all means (as has been wisely suggested above) make certain you make it calm, but very direct communication.
 SunshineAngel99
Joined: 10/13/2010
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My boyfriend introduces me as his wife??
Posted: 3/30/2012 4:36:33 AM
Honesty isn't easy and it is tough to communicate what you are feeling without stepping on toes. But this is something you need to discuss. It is as simple as that.
 _TALL_IQ2_
Joined: 2/10/2010
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My boyfriend introduces me as his wife??
Posted: 3/30/2012 5:58:25 AM

We live together, and we've talked about marriage, and that is something in the future, maybe a year that we would love to do


You appear to be over 18, and living together in Kansas. IF you both have agreed that you are presenting yourselves as husband and wife to others, that may already constitute a common-law marriage, which IS valid in Kansas.
Check the state laws there for confirmation of all the requirements.

Dorothy, until you're not in Kansas anymore, you may already BE considered married to that guy..
Your ring may be Somewhere Over the Rainbow..
 PAJD
Joined: 3/2/2012
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Posted: 3/30/2012 6:37:37 AM
I would just tell him what you really feel next time he calls you his wife...tell him if he likes calling you that so much.....prove it. I have to laugh....I just thought of that Beyonce song about this subject...lol
 Wise_Monk
Joined: 7/21/2005
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Posted: 3/30/2012 6:53:27 AM
@ TALL-IQ2

LOL!

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