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 Stray__Cat
Joined: 7/12/2006
Msg: 2
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No. They hit on all the ladies.
Just ignore em and keep at it.

And you know...most guys are more respectful.
You just haven't been emailing em.
 _TALL_IQ2_
Joined: 2/10/2010
Msg: 3
Men Wanting sex right away??
Posted: 5/16/2012 8:22:16 PM
My question is, do men discount single moms as relationship material and go after the sex instead?

Ok let's discuss world events, go for a run, ride our bikes, play some tennis, and then play doctor...

IF you want an email buddy or a penpal, there are some guys who will pretend that's all they want, for a reverse psychology challenge to you, or just for a short while..
Plenty of gamers out there waiting to capture your ephemeral attention..

Then there actually ARE some men open to dating/relating with an attractive single mom, who has enough time for them when her kids are busy or with their father..

 coyotefeller
Joined: 11/12/2011
Msg: 4
Men Wanting sex right away??
Posted: 5/16/2012 9:09:39 PM

My question is, do men discount single moms as
relationship material and go after the sex instead?

I think a lot of men want a relationship with lots of sex too !
 justlookingvt
Joined: 5/8/2010
Msg: 8
Men Wanting sex right away??
Posted: 5/16/2012 9:54:51 PM
canam_miles reply is pretty good. If I were you, I'd be a little more devious and careful simultaneously and reply with something like "we wouldn't have enough time in one night for 3 dates because I like it slow".

You turn him down on his offer, you don't give him the chance to mention he can easily pay for the 3 meals and 2 of the meals could be had in bed. Instead, you may be suggesting that you like sex slow or may be suggesting that you like to take it slow. He'll have to figure that out.

I am betraying my gender!! :-))
 christ on a crutch
Joined: 2/1/2009
Msg: 12
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Men Wanting sex right away??
Posted: 5/16/2012 11:33:15 PM
What would happen if all unmarried women stopped having sex. What would single men do???

continue banging the wives who cheat.
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