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 lilsicilian411
Joined: 5/6/2012
Msg: 1
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This is the most unreal question I have asked myself for the last few weeks. Met a guy on POF, we hit it off, and decided to have sex. I'm 44 hes 43, now I'm all for multi times as the next girl, but 5 plus times!? And he claims he is not taking any medication, that he naturally can go up to 7 ejaculations in a short period of time and even more in less than 3 hours. I personally after our 4 round and he wanted to go for the 5th , I just told him your sucking the fun out of it I mean at this point, its work not fun. Now, is this possible that a man over the age of 40 can have that type of libido with out chemical help from medication? Most men I have dated, after 1-2 are done for the night, and sleeping!!
I honestly am not seeing him anymore because he stated he liked alot of action and if I couldn't do it by myself I need to bring in others. I, first of all got my feelings hurt, secondly, if your idea of a relationship is spending every day have sex for hours on end and nothing else, that's not a relationship, that's a social problem.
 _TALL_IQ2_
Joined: 2/10/2010
Msg: 2
is it possible for a man to go multi times?
Posted: 5/26/2012 7:33:38 AM
And he claims he is not taking any medication, that he naturally can go up to 7 ejaculations in a short period of time and even more in less than 3 hours. I personally after our 4 round and he wanted to go for the 5th , I just told him your sucking the fun out of it I mean at this point, its work not fun. Now, is this possible that a man over the age of 40 can have that type of libido with out chemical help from medication?

Unlikely. Some few might, but most likely that man was either high on meth, coke, or at least caffeine from much coffee or sodas..

After the first two or three, some men who may have been *neglected* for many months in that department may make further energetic attempts with a seemingly enthusiastic partner,
but may actually have to "fake the O" to get a mutual rest break somewhere in there..
 Pinky127
Joined: 1/7/2012
Msg: 3
is it possible for a man to go multi times?
Posted: 5/26/2012 7:48:57 AM
Op,he sounds like an egotistical jerk.

If and when it ceases being fun for you,then there's a problem and it sounds like its his attitude more than anything.
 pescando75
Joined: 3/23/2012
Msg: 4
is it possible for a man to go multi times?
Posted: 5/26/2012 8:49:17 AM
What was the last unreal question from a few weeks ago?
 BountyHunterMike
Joined: 10/5/2011
Msg: 5
is it possible for a man to go multi times?
Posted: 5/26/2012 8:59:59 AM
Sure, men can have a high sex drive, just like women. Why is this a problem. I know some women who would love to have a man with a high sex drive....and cum multi times....sorry he is not a match for you...he will be someones match. As for adding people to the sex, some are into it, some are not. Ok your not a match....
this post sound more like a pitty party for you....move on with a smile
 SirDorksAlot
Joined: 12/8/2011
Msg: 6
is it possible for a man to go multi times?
Posted: 5/26/2012 9:24:48 AM

This is the most unreal question I have asked myself for the last few weeks. Met a guy on POF, we hit it off, and decided to have sex. I'm 44 hes 43, now I'm all for multi times as the next girl, but 5 plus times!? And he claims he is not taking any medication, that he naturally can go up to 7 ejaculations in a short period of time and even more in less than 3 hours.


Yes most men can only go once and maybe twice if you're lucky.
I can do the same thing too but I don't NEED to unless my significant other wanted me to i would, she just has to ask :P


I honestly am not seeing him anymore because he stated he liked alot of action and if I couldn't do it by myself I need to bring in others. I, first of all got my feelings hurt, secondly, if your idea of a relationship is spending every day have sex for hours on end and nothing else, that's not a relationship, that's a social problem.


Yes that would be a big red flag. if he has an absolute need for more people at once then yeah.... that's a problem. He has a serious addiction just like tiger woods had hahaha. he's trouble. good thing you left.
 neck romancer
Joined: 9/7/2006
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Posted: 5/26/2012 10:38:17 AM
Im not sure about the 40 year old guy part.. but the rest could be true. I cant say if he could but it is possible for some dudes.
I think what you are missing is he is fast in bed. He makes up for that by going multiple times.
A dude that goes for 45 minutes is less likely to go 7+ times than a dude he cums in 2 minutes.
2 minute man times 7 is still only 14 minutes... so still less impressive than 45 minute man going once.
 RockabillyPaGirl
Joined: 10/19/2011
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Posted: 5/26/2012 10:42:27 AM
Sure, men can have a high sex drive, just like women. Why is this a problem. I know some women who would love to have a man with a high sex drive....and cum multi times....sorry he is not a match for you...he will be someones match. As for adding people to the sex, some are into it, some are not. Ok your not a match....
this post sound more like a pitty party for you....move on with a smile


I agree with BFM.

I have no idea what you are complaining about OP. I have FINALLY met a man with a sex drive to match mine. I am happy to have found a man who can keep up and make me happy.
 neck romancer
Joined: 9/7/2006
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Posted: 5/26/2012 10:44:18 AM
@RockabillyPaGirl

shes slut shaming is all
 RockabillyPaGirl
Joined: 10/19/2011
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Posted: 5/26/2012 11:45:19 AM
LOL...

I am comfortable enough with who I am to own it....
 bwena
Joined: 2/5/2012
Msg: 11
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Posted: 5/26/2012 12:05:14 PM
Actually it is possible. I met one man who could go multiple times with maybe 5 min rest inbetween. I'm guessing its a rare occurance though. He was in his 30s.
 saveta
Joined: 4/23/2012
Msg: 12
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Posted: 5/26/2012 12:26:14 PM
My guy and I have had sex 4 times in a row in one evening (small rests in between), and 3 times on a few occasions; mostly, though, it's twice in one sitting (or should that be "one lying"). Amazing stuff. He doesn't take medication, nor recreational drugs. He's 54 and I'm 59. It's wow stuff. I've never had sex like this before, ever.

One thing though, we only get together every 10 days or so, but talk on the phone between times.
 InspiredUsername
Joined: 3/4/2012
Msg: 13
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Posted: 5/26/2012 12:28:30 PM
The refractory period for guys varies. You seem to have encountered someone on an extreme end of the spectrum, but it's totally possible.
 BoonDockSaint73
Joined: 3/29/2010
Msg: 14
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Posted: 5/26/2012 1:20:55 PM
you just saw it was possible....


some drugs out there can give a guy more energy or keep him hard longer...

but I'm not sure they've made a drug yet that make a guy actually climax more times, much less one time...



so basically you two are not a match...the guy has a high sex drive and it does not match yours...



go find someone who is a bit slower and not still full of cum...
 The_Kapn
Joined: 2/12/2009
Msg: 15
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Posted: 5/26/2012 1:43:34 PM
This is something, of which I am capable.. If I keep at it. That is, without the usual courtesy cool-down time of 5-10 min.: At that point, without continued arousal, I'd let the glow set in... and like a superhero having just saved a bus full of orphans, I'll proudly exclaim, My work here is done!," and fly off to dreamland.

However, 7 times? lol I'm in my 20's, and that seems a little far-fetched. If not slightly irresponsible. o_O lol

My god... the leg cramps...
I mean, maybe if I hit the gym...

I suspect that this is more an attribute for those of us who don't run a marathon, every time we feel like jogging. ;)

Call it compensation if you will.

Pretty darn good compensation, if I do say so myself.
 bucsgirl
Joined: 5/13/2006
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Posted: 5/26/2012 1:44:58 PM
Im wondering why you car enough to start a thread. You've made it clear you're not interested in being his pounding toy. Are you that bored? At the very least you didn't say anything about him considering your needs or wants so that makes him an unsuitable potential partner.
 helpmeahhh
Joined: 10/25/2011
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Posted: 5/26/2012 2:09:34 PM
I can do 3-4 times in a couple hours but after that the equipment needs a break.

7 in 3 hours is possible I guess. Maybe he's on Viagra or taking Testosterone?
 unclezeus
Joined: 5/12/2011
Msg: 18
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Posted: 5/26/2012 2:22:12 PM
Yes , some men can do that.


I mean at this point, its work not fun.


Yes, I feel the same way if she wants foreplay, but it takes more than 10 minutes.
 Arata_na_Yoake
Joined: 1/25/2012
Msg: 19
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Posted: 5/26/2012 2:42:26 PM
He might have drank a lot of Red Bulll beforehand.
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