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 mcwr
Joined: 3/24/2009
Msg: 4
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Just ask her out. Worst case scenario she says "no". You could probably still be friends with her, as long as you don't act funny about it.
 neck romancer
Joined: 9/7/2006
Msg: 11
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Posted: 6/22/2012 9:46:25 AM
ask her out.. but realize you may lose her in the process.
 neck romancer
Joined: 9/7/2006
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Posted: 6/22/2012 9:46:51 AM
ask her out.. but realize you may lose her in the process. Best of luck! :)
 UkSammie
Joined: 11/6/2008
Msg: 13
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Posted: 6/22/2012 9:54:21 AM
I wsnt to fiddle with ur mustach
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 15
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Posted: 6/22/2012 11:12:50 AM
You've been in the friends zone for a long time. What makes you think you are going to get out of that zone? Interestingly enough, many people end on the Friend Zone because of fear of rejection and they did not pursue or escalated sexual tension when they had the opportunity.

It has been my experience (from people I know and so many situations like this in the forums) that the only way to get out of the friend's zone is when THE woman is the one that wants more.
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 17
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Posted: 6/22/2012 1:51:32 PM
We have all been known to get rejected LOL that's life. If you want to date her, ask her out, if she doesn't, no harm done. unless you start making it creepy.
 sddude
Joined: 12/9/2007
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Posted: 6/22/2012 2:40:12 PM
I am an expert as being friendzoned by literally almostr 100 women, not anymore.

You have to tell her how you feel, if she rejects you by saying it is weird or you are like a brother to her etc...and you know you may have greater feelings with time and get all weird, turn around and never talk to her again, it will save you from becoming her weird groveling slave and save her from rejecting you over and over.

Once she is lonely and fugly she may look for you and ask you to marry her, been thier done that.

When I meet a woman and know I got friendzoned and I have feelings for her , I never talk to her again and move on, makes it easier and less of a pain.
 wanderer1999
Joined: 2/10/2007
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Posted: 6/22/2012 3:53:23 PM
Nothing worthwhile comes without risk.

If you believe she's worth risking your friendship, then do so.
If you can walk away from your feelings and live with yourself never having tried, then say nothing.

Either way, live without regret as we only get one spin at the wheel of life.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 21
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Posted: 2/28/2017 9:12:16 AM
Risk the friendship , be honest


It's no fun have feelings for someone and have them treat you like just a friend.
 IReallyShouldnt
Joined: 9/6/2016
Msg: 22
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Posted: 2/28/2017 9:16:00 AM
BCC- are you bored at work today?
 Cynderella
Joined: 3/8/2007
Msg: 23
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Posted: 2/28/2017 10:23:04 AM
Butter must be 2012 post and op long gone...
But I will play.
Don't do it...everything will change.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 24
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Posted: 2/28/2017 10:29:58 AM
It's funny people asking ME if I'm bored at work today because I'm imitating Scorpvenus by drudging up dead threads and yet....nobody asks HER if SHE'S bored at work today ?

Wtf ?
 IReallyShouldnt
Joined: 9/6/2016
Msg: 25
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Posted: 2/28/2017 10:34:15 AM
Ok, you have a point Mr BCC.

Just having some harmless fun.
 FullMoonGuy
Joined: 3/7/2014
Msg: 26
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Posted: 2/28/2017 10:48:33 AM

I have been known to get rejected,


You and 7 billion other people on the planet.
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