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 Sniper308
Joined: 10/21/2004
Msg: 2
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OP: The only problem you have, here, is if you keep her in your life. She's toxic. Move on. You don't need this kind of person in your life. Find someone without the soap-opera drama. Endex, endex, endex.
 U make it entertaining
Joined: 7/17/2009
Msg: 3
E wants to be friends...
Posted: 7/3/2012 7:23:26 PM

Am I crazy, or is she?


Aren't you happy that you didn't get married or have a child with this woman?
It would be a major disaster by now.

You are not crazy you are normal.
 ShelbySask4friend1
Joined: 2/10/2005
Msg: 4
E wants to be friends...
Posted: 7/3/2012 7:49:25 PM
I do not think any of you are crazy...Life be crazy...Long distance is hard physically for some people I would think...Mentally you were always there for her...now it is what it is...I would stay her parents,lol
 Dili_gent
Joined: 1/8/2011
Msg: 5
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Posted: 7/3/2012 7:51:20 PM
Talk is cheap.

Actions speak louder than words.

What do her actions say?
 verygreeneyez
Joined: 3/15/2006
Msg: 6
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Posted: 7/3/2012 8:12:07 PM
~OP~ No one is actually crazy. She's just an idiot playing with other people's emotions. You might be crazy if you continue to communicate with her, but at this point? It's just "the games people play." Not the least bit appropriate, but happens nonetheless. Cut off ALL communication with her and move along to someone who will treat you properly. JMO
 LinuxD
Joined: 12/6/2008
Msg: 8
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Posted: 7/3/2012 11:18:06 PM
Cut and run brother. You are a back up plan and safety net for her. All that will happen is you are going to hear about how every guy she is banging and then gets tired of is a jerk and blah blah blah..You stroke her ego and make her feel all good and comfy,yet she has to invest NOTHING. You have got a free ticket on the midnight express to friend zone and the brakes have given out.

As for her parents... You can politely refuse the offer given the circumstances and meet them for dinner someplace neutral if you enjoy their company and wish to remain in contact with them.

Thank you for your service.
 cr4zycupcake
Joined: 5/24/2012
Msg: 9
E wants to be friends...
Posted: 7/4/2012 12:44:58 PM
Shes being a sly dog and leading you on, get rid of it. You know it. Dont get blind sighted by bullshit.
 packagedealx3
Joined: 2/4/2006
Msg: 11
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Posted: 7/5/2012 9:13:38 AM
Crazy or not she's manipulating your emotions, something which you personally can ill-afford because it could get you or someone else killed, period.
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