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 edougie
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How do you last longer then like five minutes.. does it have anything to do with stamina or health...

any advice??
 Boaterfloater
Joined: 3/1/2012
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Posted: 7/4/2012 1:29:13 PM
Ok I'll bite, this is going to be deleted sorry dude!
 edougie
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Posted: 7/4/2012 1:39:29 PM
what are kegels??
 neck romancer
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Posted: 7/4/2012 2:24:04 PM
Its a brand of bagel.. 2 a day and you will be a sex god!

J/k its an exercise. google it for a how to.
 no_1_bby
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Posted: 7/4/2012 2:27:18 PM
While you're Google searching for kegels.. look up edging too.
 smilingrock
Joined: 11/9/2008
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Posted: 7/4/2012 2:30:03 PM
Think the kegel guy just called you a **** but anyway wrap it in duct tape if that dont work hit it with a rubber mallet twice...
 IgorFrankensteen
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Posted: 7/4/2012 2:34:08 PM

How do you last longer in bed???


Don't get up and leave right away. Stay there longer.

Seriously.

Practice. Keep going "after."

Even more important, alter your goal: instead of aiming for an orgasm, aim to please the woman a little at time, whilst enjoying that process.
 edougie
Joined: 1/23/2012
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Posted: 7/4/2012 2:53:06 PM

hit it with a rubber mallet twice...


THATS EXACTLY WHAT I SAID.. but that****that commented on this first.. thought I was trolling and he said he was going to delete me.... what a douchebag.

but anyways... thanks people
 MutedEnthusiasm
Joined: 7/8/2011
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Posted: 7/4/2012 3:20:38 PM

does it have anything to do with stamina or health...

Probably has more to do with self-control. Slow down your strokes well before you reach the point of no return. Breathe deeply and slowly – from your diaphragm. Engage mula bandha (google it) and have her press firmly on your perineum with her fingers.

Practice edging when you masturbate. Or masturbate an hour before intercourse.

Concentrate on her pleasure. Use circular motions instead of in-out motions. Or have her do the same while in cow-girl position.

Empty your bladder before intercourse.
 nubeginnings64
Joined: 4/8/2012
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Posted: 7/4/2012 5:38:56 PM
Men aren't supposed to last long during actual intercourse. The average is 2 to 5 minutes. It's a myth otherwise unless taking meds, which will keep him erect, but inhibits his ability to achieve orgasm. Buy her a vibrator & record how much stamina she has in her wrist thrusting herself before she tires. She's free to do porn movies & 20 guys in a day if she's not content with a normal mixed bag of foreplay & intercourse, which averages from 15 minutes to half an hour.
 nubeginnings64
Joined: 4/8/2012
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Posted: 7/4/2012 6:52:41 PM

I guess I missed that memo. I was under the impression that guys were supposed to hang in there and finish when it was time to finish. It doesn't require meds for guys to do that.


Believing normal is abnormal, as modern day society characterizes it when it pertains to a man's stamina during intercourse, is as far out of left field as safe sex without a condom. People may as well believe in the Tooth Fairy if they think marathon intercourse sessions are the norm.
 michele6259
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Posted: 7/4/2012 7:06:26 PM
whaaat? 2 to 5 minutes...that would be seriously disappointing.
 ShelbySask4friend1
Joined: 2/10/2005
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Posted: 7/4/2012 7:42:31 PM
I am a GOD in bed, as all the women have told me...I can sleep for hours...
 no_1_bby
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Posted: 7/4/2012 7:47:34 PM

Men aren't supposed to last long during actual intercourse. The average is 2 to 5 minutes. It's a myth otherwise unless taking meds, which will keep him erect, but inhibits his ability to achieve orgasm.

BWAHAHAHAAAAA!! I've only had ONE partner who lasted 2 to 5 minutes. The rest have been over that, some significantly over that. The ex was a virgin when we met. First time we had sex it was 45 minutes.. and he didn't orgasm. He was 23 yo. No medications of any variety.


Buy her a vibrator & record how much stamina she has in her wrist thrusting herself before she tires.

Don't waste your money on me like that. Vibes aren't something I enjoy.


She's free to do porn movies & 20 guys in a day if she's not content with a normal mixed bag of foreplay & intercourse, which averages from 15 minutes to half an hour.

Dear me... I'm so thankful I don't have your sex life then. Foreplay shouldn't stop, and if it does, it starts several hours and up to a few days prior to sex. Hell... I can orgasm for 30-40 minutes straight. Think I'm going to be content with 15 minutes to half and hour that includes foreplay AND intercourse??? I don't think so.


Believing normal is abnormal, as modern day society characterizes it when it pertains to a man's stamina during intercourse, is as far out of left field as safe sex without a condom. People may as well believe in the Tooth Fairy if they think marathon intercourse sessions are the norm.

It is the norm for me, which is to say that this has been my experiences over many years of having sex. The Tooth Fairy is my best friend. My sex life is normal for me. Including the marathon sex sessions. I won't settle for less.
 lqmustang
Joined: 2/12/2012
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Posted: 7/4/2012 8:29:08 PM

I think that is what I've read before from a study that said most men can only last 2-5 minutes after penetration. I wish I was that quick.


Wow, that would be disappointing. I feel sorry for most men then. To the OP, practice makes perfect. I can go for a couple hours, or a couple minutes if a quickie is all there is time for. I can control when I come. Changing positions and/or rhythm both help for me to keep it going.
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
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Posted: 7/5/2012 6:34:35 AM

Its a brand of bagel.. 2 a day and you will be a sex god!


Yes. TAke each bagel and stick you johnson there, move back and forth until bagel disintegrates or you reach orgasm. Repeat again with the second one. Within two weeks you will be a sex machine.
 MsMicki
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Posted: 7/5/2012 8:27:01 AM

The average is 2 to 5 minutes


maybe for a 17 year old!!
I haven't known a grown man that lasted under 30 minutes in a very long time........thank god!!

OP.....yes, edging and keegals are the answer to your question.
 CharminC
Joined: 2/19/2011
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Posted: 7/5/2012 10:08:42 AM

..... when my 8(expletive) finds its way into a moist (|) my brain is racing with lashings of the ultrasexy. no way in hell i want to remove my mind from the act of sex, it's our most powerful sexual organ.

and to answer the OP, try the other stuff people have suggested. but my best suggestion is just ensure she is already really humming along before you even try to mount. if you don't do good amounts of foreplay and really getting into the moment, then of course she is going to be bummed when you get it in and pop off after five minutes. but if she already came thrice and is bouncing off the walls, and then you get in and bang it like crazy for as long as it takes you to thrust your way to orgasm, you can both collapse in a heap of flesh and fluids, completely satisfied.



*fans herself

OP.... It takes two people to have great sex, not one. You need a partner that makes you feel as stated in above post.
 AllAboutSports
Joined: 8/10/2010
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Posted: 7/5/2012 12:50:43 PM
OK...your getting jokes and advice,although the yardwork oen was good....look your a young kid these things happen....OK they say its mental,but I DONT buy it....so here is what you do,wear condoms,its makes the penis less sensitive so u can last bit longer.......if that doesnt work there is a desensitizing spray that you can buy,you may just be overly sensative in your ahem area...but here is the trick,only spray it on your frenulum...look that up its common for circumsized guys to have this problem...just spray that and not your whole member,because if you do you will lose sensitivity and lose your erection and thats a whole other issue you dont want to think about.but spray it only on that and go to town,you should last....third thing to try,is to masturbate before you even have sex...if you know there is a chance that you will have sex tht night,masturbate to climax before you go ut,getting off \that first time will for you to get to that point the second time around,and remeber that it take at a MINIMUM 18 minutes before you can have a full erection again...so it gives you ample time to recharge if you will...and last thing,simply masturbate until you are on the verge of climax and stop/////nd then do it over and over again,this will train your mind and your body to work together to last longer,and if it helps,think of betty white naked,or yard work,as your trying to stop.it will take time but can be achieved....an practice....the more sex u have the more repetitive it becomes,and you will get better we all do.and if you have a good gfexplain to her your delimma,and im sure she will help with whaever as you learn.hope this helps and good luck!!!!
 MsMicki
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Posted: 7/5/2012 2:53:54 PM

but here is the trick,only spray it on your frenulum

and wear a condom......because that stuff will also "desensitize" the woman and she won't give a damn how long you last cause she won't feel a thing!!


and remeber that it take at a MINIMUM 18 minutes before you can have a full erection again.

LMAO.....you obviously haven't read the thread where all the men are saying they can get it up again in less than 10!!


,simply masturbate until you are on the verge of climax and stop/////nd then do it over and over again

this would be the "edging" we have all been advising him to do.
 SirDorksAlot
Joined: 12/8/2011
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Posted: 7/5/2012 3:01:22 PM

How do you last longer then like five minutes.. does it have anything to do with stamina or health...

any advice??


It doesn't matter how long you last the first time.... take a short break and go at it again and again.
each time will take longer, the women will love it. why should you stop the first time? c'mon man pull an all nighter lol
 Pingshooter
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Posted: 7/5/2012 3:04:02 PM

THATS EXACTLY WHAT I SAID.. but that****that commented on this first.. thought I was trolling and he said he was going to delete me.... what a douchebag.

but anyways... thanks people


The responder can't delete you, he was referring to your thread here..being deleted as redundant. I have no idea if he thought you were a troll or not..didn't say that in his post. I think you are jumping to conclusion that isn't there.

Keegle exercises..
 CharminC
Joined: 2/19/2011
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Posted: 7/5/2012 3:42:06 PM

c'mon man pull an all nighter lol



Or full weekenders. They are the best!
Ahhh.... memories
 HappyRocker
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Posted: 7/6/2012 3:05:17 AM
Huh??? Last longer in bed!

I don't know what all these kegel stegels are ... I just hit the alarm clock with a baseball bat.
 nubeginnings64
Joined: 4/8/2012
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Posted: 7/6/2012 7:39:55 AM
Much more truth & credibility in an anonymous scientific study that verifies men pop their cork within 5 minutes of straight intercourse than the bogus opinions here. I assume man-boys to be inexperienced at changing things up to put off the eventuality of an orgasm & are looking for guidance, but not to be bashed for what we all know to be typical though. Men's vanity I can understand... pounds chest, Me Tarzan You Jane, tear others down to build themselves up or me big dog you little dog, but women coined the phrase "minuteman" for a reason & know better from experience though.
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