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 catdatty
Joined: 6/28/2009
Msg: 6
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go for it. unless your waiting on marriage.
if your just scared then do everything else first. self pleasure is always good. get some toys. round the bases. do oral on each other. rent some porn. have an orgasm before you have actual sex!
 raxarsr
Joined: 7/10/2008
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Virgin at 24
Posted: 7/16/2012 7:59:07 PM
its nobodys buisness but yours op.....when the time and partner are right..........it will happen

been that way since the beginning of time
 Friendly widow
Joined: 11/24/2009
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Virgin at 24
Posted: 7/16/2012 9:50:18 PM
OP-do you want to make love--or do you simply want to lose the virgin tag?
 IgorFrankensteen
Joined: 6/29/2009
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Posted: 7/17/2012 4:27:09 AM
There are two common reasons why someone fears to cross the line from V to Not V: fear of loss of status (religious concerns, fear that they will be a victim in some way, fear of looking foolish at the time); and fear of the physical act (will there be pain? Blood?).

Figure out which one of those is your problem, and address it directly.

If it is the physical one, fear of bloody mess or pain, then you might consider "deflowering" yourself with a mechanical device made for the act (dildo).

If it is the fear of status change, then reading others experiences will likely calm you, as you discover the truth that no such change is permanent (unless you have religious beliefs to deal with). For most of us, the worst that we suffer, is the recognition after the event, that the person we thought was "the one" was actually "just some jerk." And that's not all that bad, really.
 notsostarvinartist
Joined: 11/29/2009
Msg: 25
Virgin at 24
Posted: 7/26/2012 2:05:09 PM
Eh there was an 80yr old virgin a couple months back. She was an "entertainer" so don't worry you got nothing to worry about just be you.
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