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 HedonistDrifter
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 2
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Sound's like he wants some blackmail material...maybe pressure you into something more than "ex" status....If you give them to him, and he get's pissed for some reason, they might find their way onto the internet....food for thought...
 BuzWeaver
Joined: 6/25/2005
Msg: 10
Nude/Suggestive Photos, what is your opinion on taking them? Help
Posted: 7/28/2005 8:41:13 PM
Actions have consequences. Be prepared. The thing about nudity is, once as person or people see you nude there is no going back.
 Frrosty
Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 13
Nude/Suggestive Photos, what is your opinion on taking them? Help
Posted: 8/23/2005 9:19:58 AM
I'll take as many nudes from females are sent to me. You have my mailbox addy right?





P.S. Your ex opnly wants to remeber you nude? (the sexual stuff?) AND he has a new GF and STILL wants to think of you!!??

*shrugs*

I think the guy's a dirtbag..so...
 shadowgirl58
Joined: 7/24/2005
Msg: 14
Nude/Suggestive Photos, what is your opinion on taking them? Help
Posted: 8/23/2005 10:12:07 AM
Some love teh art form of the human body-yet down the road a spiteful person may reveal them to others..so I would have to reconsider whose hands those photos might end up in??
I knew a woman once who was filmed by her lover and she ended up xxxxrated in a movie gallery!!!!!
For personal collections in a marraige would be best!!
 fashionable33
Joined: 8/15/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 8/23/2005 11:56:12 AM
I have one word for you, well three maybe.

www.rudysrxs.com (note: it's an adult nature site)

Living proof that pictures can come back to haunt you.
 marathonman11x7
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 8/23/2005 12:41:19 PM
My question to you is,if he is "romantically seeing someone" WHY would YOU consider taking pictures of yourself for HIM to remember "details"? Regardless of what he will do with them,it seems to me that it is simply a power/control move to see if he still has you where he wants. To do it for him would be to let him know he still does have your interest and some "control" over you.Either way,it would NOT be a wise move at all for you to entertain his request. If you wish to take pictures for YOURSELF and ONLY you...THAT is another thing altogether.
 hootersman
Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 17
Nude/Suggestive Photos, what is your opinion on taking them? Help
Posted: 2/4/2007 12:26:35 AM
Let's **** girl
 WakeDan
Joined: 8/16/2006
Msg: 18
Nude/Suggestive Photos, what is your opinion on taking them? Help
Posted: 2/4/2007 3:42:24 AM
hes probably been bragging about you to his buddies, and now wants to show them 'what he used to ****'.
 chocolaterose
Joined: 2/27/2007
Msg: 24
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Posted: 3/3/2007 6:54:20 AM
personally i think every girl should have some good nudie photos but NOT for your ex for YOU

do you have best friend who could take them for you i did it for my best friend when she wanted to do some fo her bf

then the easiest way is to go digital and put them on your computer and print them out yourself

hope that helps but remember whatever you do dont do anything that you would regret or makes you feel bad about yourself
 INTOMIKE
Joined: 2/15/2007
Msg: 34
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Posted: 3/4/2007 2:34:58 PM
Here is a better question......

Why is it you need to know other peoples opinions on this? I think it is people like you that take these pics, then send them to people you are NOT EVEN WITH and then complain about how your sweet assss and your spread eagle morning glory pics are all over the net!!!

Really, it takes what is called "common sense" to know that you don't send nude pics to someone your not with......

then again, if you do, we would probably end up seeing them!!!! We can let you know!!!
 Tim61
Joined: 3/2/2007
Msg: 36
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Posted: 3/6/2007 4:11:43 AM
Hi S/T/ Girl

Well i know of a site, that many ordinary housewives, put their Nude Pictures on to this site, & you can vote for them. & leave them a message, and if they are lucky enough to get plenty of Awesome votes, they are rewarded with Money.

Does this class me as a perve ?

Tim
 bodyartist
Joined: 8/12/2007
Msg: 40
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Posted: 8/16/2007 7:34:36 AM


I have an ex, who for some reason, is really pressuring me to take pics for him. He lives several miles away, states actually, and we broke up b/c of the long distance thing, not on bad terms. Somehow, it still kinda gets to me that hes an ex, asking for this, not like i am currently dating him. As well as the fact that he's kinda seeing someone now romantically. He says he would just like something to remember me by, that hes starting to forget the small little details and it would mean a lot cause we had an important strong intimate and meaningful relationship once. I dont know though.

Is this a load of crap hes feeding me? Is this wierd or unusual, guys and girls opinions? Would you consider doing it if you were in my place?

I have considered tasteful pics, maybe just suggestive not all nude, not necessarily for him, but im still a bit hisitant, dont want it to jump back at me and bite me hard.

If i were to decide to do this, how would i do it, and take them myself, without having someone else develop, i understand digital, but id want someone to take it, and whats a good way to aproach someone about that. "hey wanna take some nudie pics of me?"

Advise please, this isnt my type of thing, and would be a big step, what do we think?


If you aren't comfortable with everyone in the world seeing the photos, now, in 20 years, or whenever, don't do it. That "everyone" means your parents, your kids, your eventual husband/so/whatever, etc.

It's not myth, or paranoia.

Even in the special edition of Caddyshack, the actress who bared a little never imagined there'd be home video (stop action/pause/slowmo), screen captures, or the Internet. She figured it would be a flash on the screen, and gone. Times change. *EVERYTHING* is always out there.

I'm a photographer of nudes (Nude photographer always seemed wrong) and I've been doing it for a long time. On-line, longer than almost anyone else -- anyone else would have been doing it as long as me. I ran BBS's and on-line systems, and have websites. Unlike other sites, we work mostly with people we know, and friends of friends, etc. So we never try to hurt people. But, over the years, we've seen models who got too "open" get really, really hurt posing for other groups, going for the money, etc.

Those images they posed for for that BBS 20 years ago, are now floating around the Internet, forever. Granted, the quality is not good (unless the photographer rescanned them) but they are still there. They *never* imagined that those images would show up on a webpage, anywhere.....

So, it might be nice to use your webcam, or cell phone... but don't.

It's for real people, in *real* relationships -- eg not temporary passing fads -- and for porn. Because, even if you are a sweet girl, you photos *will* most likely end up on a porn site if you are not a good, close friend of the person you sent them too -- and may end up there anyway if the get pissed at you, or their computer/phone is hacked.

It's a brave new world.

Scott
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 Naturally 2
Joined: 7/19/2007
Msg: 42
Nude/Suggestive Photos, what is your opinion on taking them? Help
Posted: 8/16/2007 9:54:47 AM
I have to agree w/most of the other posters.No!

This is your ex,he is with another girl,if he wanted something to remember you by,a normal pic.would do!

And yes these things can end up on the internet-trust me.
My SO and I have taken these type of pictures, as I know him to be a man of character-I am not worried about him having them or where they will end up,but by the same token,I have someone who has been stalking me,broke into my house and stole these pictures and put me on several escort sites...because I wouldnt date him.
All actions have their concequences -think very hard before doing something of the sort-there are alot of sick puppies out there!
P.
 Sweetlilmeee
Joined: 6/24/2007
Msg: 43
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Posted: 8/16/2007 1:34:47 PM
Don't Do it!

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 firefly416
Joined: 1/27/2009
Msg: 44
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Posted: 7/18/2012 11:01:01 AM
No! Don't do it, it will be all over the Internet at some point.
 lovefun99
Joined: 6/14/2010
Msg: 45
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Posted: 7/18/2012 11:25:51 AM
I'm sure she made the right choice way back in 2005 when she posted.......

Why dredge up an ancient post just to provide an answer that is irelevant all these years later? SMH
 _Full_of_Awesome_
Joined: 6/26/2012
Msg: 46
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Posted: 7/18/2012 1:55:08 PM

I have considered tasteful pics, maybe just suggestive not all nude, not necessarily for him, but im still a bit hisitant, dont want it to jump back at me and bite me hard.


Send the pictures to me, and I will let you know what I think you should do. :-)
 MDIYM59
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 47
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Posted: 7/18/2012 6:25:13 PM
Don't ever do something that you are uncomfortable with, it won't end well.
 shy2anne
Joined: 2/27/2009
Msg: 48
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Posted: 7/18/2012 6:30:31 PM
just say no.
ask yourself WHY would you do it?
for someone you used to date?
a big step towards what?
i have no idea why he is asking you to do this. a control thing. maybe he thinks he's clever to manipulate you like that. maybe he's going to get off on your pic. or share them with his gf or mock you or put them out on the internet somewhere..
i would save my sexuality for someone who has MY best interest at heart and is with me. not miles away with another woman.
p.s. yes, he is feeding you a load of crap.
 Tgav4367
Joined: 4/28/2012
Msg: 49
Nude/Suggestive Photos, what is your opinion on taking them? Help
Posted: 7/18/2012 8:08:24 PM
Didn't bother to read any responses and quite frankly didn't read the entire post by the OP but I just gotta say...

Are you f'ing kidding? Sweetheart that kind of crap comes back and haunts you, DON'T DO IT.
 Dolphina
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 50
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Posted: 7/18/2012 8:18:21 PM
Don't do it. Don't take suggestive pictures of yourself for your ex. He is, afterall, seeing somebody else. If he can't remember you without pictures, then there's something wrong with him. You don't need the extra complication. Stay clear of complying with this bizarre idea.
 iluvriverrats
Joined: 5/26/2012
Msg: 51
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Posted: 7/18/2012 9:24:34 PM
Ummm...yes!!!! Sooner or later!!,
 meowkatt2012
Joined: 4/6/2012
Msg: 53
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Posted: 7/19/2012 1:49:50 AM
I have quite a collection. I do have some up on the internet. I think im old enough not to have it interfere with my life. I also don't have any angry exes.
 coolgc
Joined: 9/17/2008
Msg: 54
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Posted: 7/20/2012 9:07:52 AM
Yes!...More so if your an ex. Your not his gf he won't care. That's heartless but true.
 Jaymish2012
Joined: 6/7/2012
Msg: 55
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Posted: 7/20/2012 9:22:17 AM
Yes we do. I took some nudes of one of my Ex's while we were together... got them developed on my way to work and showed them to my buddies at work. So do not be fooled. I did it... most likely he will too.
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