one statement that really stuck out to me. The author claimed that men have women tend to differ on their one basic need from each other. Men want to be needed; women want to be cherished.
Learn from that. Being needed for fixing something or buying something is very superficial and ephemeral,
but many men will opt for that and think it demonstrates that they care.
Being cherished does not happen in the short-term. Women may long for that feeling, but most men that may try to instantly givem that feeling of being cherished, are lying to try to get something back...