Shouldn't worry about it too much OP, I'm getting precisely nowhere in recent weeks,not even getting looked at, which has also affected my willingness to message anybody.
I put it down to two factors, age and tint in my case. But hey, who knows, someone may log in today and think "oooooo Happy, you'll do". With luck, I'll think "Right back atcha!" :)
Bottom line, nothing worthwhile ever comes easy, so grit your teeth for the long haul :)
It's your own fault for looking young for your age! I don't get the 'tint' thing. I can only imagine how frustrating that must be. I am now wondering what my settings are for age. I may have to change them, but most 45+ don't look after themselves. I've noted that you have set 45 as your top end too.