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 laskoboo
Joined: 2/12/2010
Msg: 2
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My gosh what a bunch of drama.

You need to learn to date and select better.

I don't even understand your questions as they are so drama filled.
 lovefun99
Joined: 6/14/2010
Msg: 4
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Posted: 9/14/2012 9:09:14 AM
Good lord man, just move on, break all contact with the ex and block him wherever possible. Stay away from drama queens and don't let yourself be one either.
 LiliMarleen
Joined: 5/24/2009
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Posted: 9/14/2012 9:13:02 AM
I'm sorry, but you both sound seriously unstable. Nice job leaving out all the really relevant stuff in all this verbiage, too.

Please don't date for at least ten years or so. I would say the same thing to him, but he's not here asking for advice.
 prettyflowers
Joined: 7/16/2012
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Posted: 9/16/2012 8:25:56 AM
This is really to much...Run Run Run!!!!!! Just get out of this entirely...Why would you waste your time on this? Sorry, but I think you both need to grow up and instead of the drama, look for some happiness
 ravenhair4u
Joined: 8/13/2011
Msg: 13
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Posted: 9/16/2012 5:50:24 PM
So what do I do

You need to make a clean break from this guy, pronto! He is very controlling, is lying to you about being on a dating site, & he's preventing you from moving on.
He broke up with you, but wants to continue to control you to serve his own selfish needs. He is moving on & if he's not now, will be dating another, but he is preventing you from doing the same. Stop having your spy report to you. Stop all of that. Stop all communication,texts, calls, messages thru 3rd parties, everything. You both are sufering from separation anxiety.
The relationship is broken & unfixable, but you go back to what's comfortable & don't want to completely let go. Letting go completely is what's going to free you.
Move on, stop wasting time, get out there & meet someone new!
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