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 TiCat
Joined: 11/9/2004
Msg: 1
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Why are ladies so against men in "conservative" Speedos? Are ladies shy and afraid of being "caught" with a wandering eye? I'm personally against over weight men wearing them, but as for the average and buff, why can't we confidently wear them without negative comments? Are ladies afraid of fantasizing while gazing at the "forbidden fruit?"
 abyssdc1
Joined: 8/8/2004
Msg: 2
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Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 11/9/2004 10:25:55 PM
Being a man, I think it is morally wrong.
 SenileGranny
Joined: 7/3/2004
Msg: 4
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Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 11/10/2004 6:42:35 AM
Men in speedos...hmmmm....EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEK!!

Well, ok, I've seen one or two who looked good in them...but then they looked good in anything.

Disclaimer: No glass was shattered during the typing of this message.
 sexxykitty
Joined: 10/17/2004
Msg: 5
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 11/10/2004 8:35:34 PM
speedos are gross. for one thing they make men walk funny, a little like mr. banana here
and for another, though i like 'em in the bedroom they aren't my favorite thing to look at...
and fat men should be fined heavily for wearing them.
and for that matter, how come a guy with tits as big as mine can go around without a shirt and i can't?
yeah boobies
 TiCat
Joined: 11/9/2004
Msg: 6
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 11/12/2004 7:19:29 AM
Hey SEXXYKITTY, how can you have double standards? Now can you like Speedos in the bedroom, but have a moral problem at the pool or beach? If you like them at home, you can like them just as much (or even more) out in public!
 the_big_bad_wolf
Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 7
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 11/12/2004 7:23:26 AM
i think anything that shows the shape of a mans balls or its discusting but thats just me!!
 the_big_bad_wolf
Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 8
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 11/12/2004 7:24:26 AM
i think anything that shows the shape of a mans balls or private parts its discusting but thats just me!!
 TiCat
Joined: 11/9/2004
Msg: 9
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 11/12/2004 8:12:03 AM
Yeah, but that's from the perspective of a lesbian (or a heterosexual male). This would be normal given your circumstance. From the perspective of a heterosexual female, the sight of an attractive male in a form hugging Speedo can do wonders for the libido!
 the_big_bad_wolf
Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 10
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 11/12/2004 2:54:53 PM
well i dont quite get what your trying to say? i think it gross and a turn off not because i dont like men!!!!
 GoatSmell
Joined: 5/27/2004
Msg: 11
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 11/12/2004 8:44:23 PM
Is there such a thing as a "conservative" speedo? Isn't that like saying there are thongs that don't wander up your buttcrack?

Well, providing you don't wear them backwards.

Then again, there is a certain strange satisfaction to wearing thongs backwards....
 sexxykitty
Joined: 10/17/2004
Msg: 12
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 11/12/2004 10:54:43 PM
TiCat
Hey SEXXYKITTY, how can you have double standards? Now can you like Speedos in the bedroom, but have a moral problem at the pool or beach? If you like them at home, you can like them just as much (or even more) out in public!

Sorry for the confusion, I was reffering to the penis and not the speedo as something that is fun in the bedroom but that I don't particularly want to have pointed at me in public.
What about the people who said it was OK for people with a swimmer's build, but not OK for fat people? Is that not a double standard too? Besides this is a fun topic why call people out at all.
no banana hamock
 the_big_bad_wolf
Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 13
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 11/13/2004 8:08:09 AM
ha ha twitchy your funny! i like how you put it!
 TiCat
Joined: 11/9/2004
Msg: 14
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 11/15/2004 10:33:27 AM
bluepony & william4you, you've made my day! I love to see girls giggle and blush when they're "pointed at" and will certainly enjoy my banana hamock until I move into an old age home that has a no Speedo policy! And I might add, that's a many more decades to come!
 TiCat
Joined: 11/9/2004
Msg: 15
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 11/17/2004 12:38:59 PM
Hey, one of my students came up with this as part of the final term thesis: "Girls/Ladies don't like them because Speedos present them with their fate, their wellspring and their nemesis: ie the Cock! Male sexuality. The thing that ends in the labour room!

Also Speedos resemble the gear THEY like to wear themselves (bikini bottoms) to the pool/beach to attract men, so it's rivalry like 'get off my patch' and also they are feminised for them. It's fashion but also primal."
 sammysalt
Joined: 9/7/2005
Msg: 16
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 9/25/2005 9:12:13 PM
Can't say people really wear them in the country. So never see them much here, but don't like them.
 simasimic
Joined: 3/1/2005
Msg: 17
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 9/28/2005 12:06:57 AM
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 radar_33852
Joined: 11/20/2005
Msg: 18
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 11/20/2005 6:56:56 AM
I don't care what anyone says or thinks about speedos. I love my man wearing a speedo, or mens bikini brief to the beach. I hate those ugly tan lines you get from wearing ugly baggy nasty shorts. I agree that fat, old wrinkly, and extremely hairy men should not wear them. But as for my man, he looks great to me in one and that's all that matters. It's his job to please me, and not worry about what the rest of y'all think about it. Any man who is into pleasing his wife is a great man. Even if it means wearing a speedo in public!
 iowaniceguy1
Joined: 9/8/2005
Msg: 19
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 11/20/2005 8:29:33 AM
I don't think if a guy wants to wear speedos is sickness. Why does some people think that is sick or gross?
 radar_33852
Joined: 11/20/2005
Msg: 20
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 11/20/2005 5:42:00 PM
I told my husband I don't care if any other women out there have a problem with men in speedos. He does it to please me. As for all of you who have such a big problem with it, you will have to just look the other way. Otherwise, please try to do your vomiting discretely.
 radar_33852
Joined: 11/20/2005
Msg: 21
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 11/20/2005 5:43:14 PM
I told my husband I don't care if any other women out there have a problem with men in speedos. He does it to please me. As for all of you who have such a big problem with it, you will have to just look the other way. Otherwise, please try to do your vomiting discretely.
 Pichucat
Joined: 7/5/2006
Msg: 22
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 7/5/2006 11:40:24 PM
Just so you know, 95% of the women I see in a bikini look so ugly and have so much they should be hiding. When i think that most women see themselves as attractive....
Ladies, you should look at yourself carefully inthe mirror before saying anything about guys wearing speedos.
 junipermoon
Joined: 3/1/2006
Msg: 25
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Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 9/11/2006 7:12:15 AM
wear what you please, but don't hate me for not looking.
 femalegirlwoman
Joined: 7/16/2006
Msg: 26
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 9/11/2006 1:40:40 PM
It doesnt matter how hot a guy is, speedos are just plain wrong.
They were probably originally intended for professional water sports only.
I dont want to see a guy's bulge unless we are dating and getting busy or he's taking a shower or getting dressed or whatever. My ex wore shorts that were too tight and too short and it looked sooooo dorky. even a hot guy should wear normal shorts, not too big and not too small.
 femalegirlwoman
Joined: 7/16/2006
Msg: 27
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 9/12/2006 2:09:21 PM
women dont have balls and penises, and women cant hide their breasts....theres women who show a lot of cleavage and those that dont....theres women who wear thongs and those that have their butts covered.........I also dont think women should wear thong swimsuits
 Huggablehottie
Joined: 8/3/2006
Msg: 28
Ladies, your thought on men in Speedos
Posted: 9/12/2006 4:10:57 PM
Well, I have always thought that speedos are very revealing,
especially if the guy has a nice package. So do some guys want
the attention?
You are entitled to wear whatever you want, some women
wear some of the sleaziest attire, so why complain?
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