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 laskoboo
Joined: 2/12/2010
Msg: 4
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That you dated only a month is cause for concern.

If it had been years I could understand he might be frustrated and wanting to discuss
or angry...
but a month?......... in your situation a complaint to the police dept may be the thing to do.
 prettyflowers
Joined: 7/16/2012
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Posted: 10/3/2012 7:30:25 AM
I know you don't want to change your number..But depending on your carrier they will do it for free. This happened to me and I ended up changing mine. It was a relief and gave me peace of mind.
You don't need the hassle..Sorry this is happening to you. Good luck!
 OutMind
Joined: 2/13/2007
Msg: 7
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Posted: 10/3/2012 9:21:22 AM
Most phone systems allow you to block a number. Also, you can have your local police department issue a restraining order. So call them up and ask them what do they may include, phoning, texting, coming close to your address or work. Ask them.
 Peppermint_Petunias
Joined: 3/30/2012
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Posted: 10/4/2012 4:40:00 AM

He is stalking you.



^^^^^^^^^^^^ He is harassing her with the phone.

When he starts following her, beating up her friends, slashing her tires, showing up at her work or sons school and banging on the door at 3 am,telling her "If I can't have you then no one will." THEN thats stalking.



Change your number and don't give it out so freely when you do not know someones character.
Get the police involved if that doesn't work.
 Peppermint_Petunias
Joined: 3/30/2012
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Posted: 10/4/2012 1:09:14 PM

JUST LOOK AT ALL THOSE FUKS YOU DON'T GIVE.

^^^^^^^^^^^^

OK....... OK, I hacked another fur ball mo.
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