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 psytle
Joined: 3/7/2011
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so if I get married


Would you worry about ordering an entree you didn't like at a restaurant you couldn't afford to eat at?

OP, worry about finding the woman first.
 AnAustralianWoman
Joined: 4/26/2012
Msg: 5
How to appropriately touch wife's chest
Posted: 10/12/2012 10:08:40 AM

Thanks, I have Aspergers Syndrome so sometimes I don't always pick up on social cues.
.....So does my son.
Even though you are new to this type of thing ...it will come naturally.I'm sure you would have 'touched' a woman's chest way before you get married.
If the woman cares about you and know's about your aprehension then SHE will guide you to where she want's you to go. Trust me .....I'm a woman!
 Bebedeleau
Joined: 6/8/2011
Msg: 6
How to appropriately touch wife's chest
Posted: 10/12/2012 10:25:54 AM
I like the response to watch the videos.

I understand the aspergers aspect of your question. In your case, because you aren't likely to be as sensitive to her body clues (but make an effort to watch her face and body for reactions), you are best to just start off by being easy. As you get to know her, you can gradually use more pressure and ask if it's hurting her, and she'll tell you if it's a bit much or not.
 RPFLYERS
Joined: 12/2/2011
Msg: 7
How to appropriately touch wife's chest
Posted: 10/22/2012 8:15:31 AM
I'm not sure why you are concerned about getting married right now lol. You are 20. You need to be with a lot of women ( or the right amount) before you settle down. Just google this and look for tutorials. Its really pretty easy and the woman will let you know. Like others have said, some prefer different things. I still get women telling me I'm being too rough and I'm like shocked at how sensitive their area is.
How to appropriately touch wife's chest
Posted: 10/22/2012 1:34:18 PM

Just remember, those things on the ends are not radio knobs. - Abelian

Now THAT^ is good advice! Another would be to take good care of your skin. Being touched anywhere is more enjoyable, if your skin doesn't feel like sandpaper.
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