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 BuzWeaver
Joined: 6/25/2005
Msg: 5
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 HedonistDrifter
Joined: 7/23/2005
Msg: 6
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 7/29/2005 11:17:19 PM
Well I'm doing the friend's with extra's thing right now, and the lady I am seeing is awesome (and a POFer). I think it work's because neither of us are jealous/overly possessive types, even though we care for each other deeply...At the moment she is the only one I am seeing, and that is just groovy to me...A while back I was seeing several women as fuck buddies and there is a difference between FB and FWB...It just got to be too much work...lol...between the phone calls, text messages online chat and meeting you dont have a moment's peace...It's like a job or something
 Mzzzy
Joined: 7/10/2005
Msg: 8
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 7/29/2005 11:33:20 PM
Where do you get these friends with benefits???
 SixStringWerewulf
Joined: 6/19/2005
Msg: 13
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 7/30/2005 6:38:32 AM
I've had 3 at one time...but that was years ago. Now all my friends are taken. Need to get more friends. Any takers?
 passionfly
Joined: 6/19/2005
Msg: 14
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 7/30/2005 6:56:55 AM
I'll never tell ;)
 Frrosty
Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 16
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 7/30/2005 8:36:23 AM
I would say.....well..

two?
 Frrosty
Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 20
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 8/3/2005 11:54:15 AM
AGREED!! ^ (um....*scratches head*....I think)

ggrr;

I hate this stuff.

*n sulks*

 Frrosty
Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 25
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 8/3/2005 12:45:33 PM
quality over quantity..

;)

That works best for me.


Whatever floats your boat.
Have fun!

 Frrosty
Joined: 3/21/2004
Msg: 27
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 8/3/2005 2:05:50 PM

so women need it just as much as men do


I've gotta ask you...what is "it"?

Sex? Why not have a committed bf then? (or is "it" not only sex..)
 anthony10306ny
Joined: 4/16/2004
Msg: 29
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 8/3/2005 5:33:12 PM
I only met, and had want a be friends
 who_the_fox
Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 32
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 8/3/2005 7:31:18 PM

Sex? Why not have a committed bf then?

Because it is a whole lot easier to find a man who is willing to screw you than to find one who would be a bf...committed or not.
 Stillalicious
Joined: 2/9/2005
Msg: 38
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 8/4/2005 2:58:29 PM
Personally, I think one FWB at a time is what you should stick to. The point of an FWB is to have sex when you want with no strings attached but also so you don't have to seek new people to have sex with. Isn't the point of having an FWB defeated when you start sleeping around? I am not talking about a relationship, just simply getting some while you look for a significant other or just having your cake and eating it too, so to speak.
 stoneside
Joined: 9/3/2004
Msg: 39
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 8/4/2005 3:06:15 PM
More than one or two is too much work. FWB or FB, they still take time and they still have feeling and needs. I've gotten more than one call at 3am from a FB cus she needed someone to talk too, and that is not supposed to happen
 blueOrchid
Joined: 6/30/2005
Msg: 41
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 8/4/2005 3:21:34 PM
It is all individual. Personally, I don't think fwb is a healthy route and on top of that to have multiple fwb is just rediculous to me.
 mogrl
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 53
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 8/21/2005 8:24:57 PM
i bet Mzhunyhole knows where to find them....
 Lil Red Riding Hood
Joined: 4/21/2006
Msg: 58
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 5/11/2006 7:28:57 PM
It all depends on YOU hon.....what you think. Not what others think.

I currently have 4 FB's.

Reason ?

One is only in town 4 days a month.

One is only available on Saturday nights.

One lives 4 hours away.

One I can see whenever I want but I dont want to see him too much in case more then a FB situation develops...... which neither of us wants.
 Othmn1
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 63
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 5/18/2006 9:36:10 AM

More than one friend means you just want sex with anyone that will give it to you.

NO - that's not necessarily true.
 Othmn1
Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 67
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 5/18/2006 11:03:01 AM
WOMEN certainly have more FWB opportunities than men - agree?

Let's suppose . . . I have just ONE very hot FWB, but she has 2 or 3.

Some of you guys would have a problem with this. Me? NO PROBLEMO!

In fact, I'd ask her to graphically narrate to me her experiences with her other boyfriends. Or maybe even watch her in action. That is, if she and her other partners were into it as well. STROKE MATERIAL! Win-win!

Jealousy sucks.

Now, what if she were my "soul mate" and not just my FWB? Very good question . . .
 sexyviper
Joined: 10/12/2005
Msg: 68
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Posted: 5/18/2006 11:24:04 AM
you can never have too many ...
 Sexci Summer
Joined: 5/4/2006
Msg: 73
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 5/26/2006 6:09:44 PM
For sure!
If you can leave in the morning and be on the same terms from when u got there...just happier all the power to you..
Just be honest with eachother...if thats the agreement (agreements do work out well) then all should be good...
Just have fun ;)
 Bigger Guy
Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 77
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Posted: 5/27/2006 12:29:54 AM
I have 2 friends that occassionally require benefits. Both lovely ladies...both well educated career ladies who don't want a relationship with anyone. They also know each other and are very good friends.
I highly respect both of them and completely adore them as friends.
 prof48
Joined: 3/17/2005
Msg: 80
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 10/21/2006 8:13:20 AM
Maybe its only terminology but but as a general rule more than one fwb at a time is just fb.
 Ravager
Joined: 2/1/2004
Msg: 83
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 10/21/2006 12:44:34 PM
Me personally, I think the whole FWB is distasteful. Thats just me of course.
 cabanaboy68
Joined: 2/18/2006
Msg: 84
Friends with benefits...how many at one time is too many?
Posted: 10/21/2006 1:38:21 PM
If I could find the right person one would be plenty
 redheadlady4
Joined: 11/19/2005
Msg: 88
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Posted: 10/22/2006 11:25:00 PM
GEEZ....Passionfly..with a face like yours i'd take anything..lol lol...just kidding...(cute pic)
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