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Joined: 10/5/2012
Msg: 3
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Women with short hair are disgusting.... LOL Just kidding. My preference is like 4 inches below the shoulder, but if you are attractive any hair length will be fine. There are some haircuts that do look very butch on women and I would assume they are lesbians. Mullets come to mind along with butch cuts and high tops. I would still like to be friends, but they would automatically be moved to the "not interested in/friend zone" file.
Joined: 6/29/2009
Msg: 8
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short haired woman
Posted: 10/14/2012 5:43:59 PM
I suspect the guys who are telling you that, are trying to game you into "proving" to them that you are straight.
Joined: 2/10/2010
Msg: 9
short haired woman
Posted: 10/14/2012 5:52:58 PM

it is kind of weird that i am asked that quite a lot of times, isn't it possible to think its fin to be short haired:D so....sorry always wanted to discuss that with some guys:D

Hej maybe ask your mother when she comes home and finds her computer has been used and logged onto POF.

Most of us here are adults that are capable of searching the Forums for redundant questions lik ths one,

where the answer is obvious that many guys DO like longer hair, just a few movie-star type ladies with those carved unique features can get away with that "mod" look without being suspect of the usual inclination...
Joined: 1/8/2006
Msg: 10
short haired woman
Posted: 10/14/2012 6:03:01 PM
Um, which hair are we talking about? Grooming habits seem to change over time, and personal style can override. Whatever you choose to do, whether you think you look better that way, whether you think upkeep is easier, whether you think you're conforming - just own it and let your personality come through. The real you is not superficial and that's what you should work on getting across.
Joined: 10/5/2012
Msg: 11
short haired woman
Posted: 10/14/2012 7:11:44 PM
tgrlily3 I don't consider your hair that short. It looks like a girls haircut. I think what most of us are talking about is very butch or short hair cuts. Hair cuts you would normally only see on men. If the OP is talking about that sort of hair cut I don't think most guys could care less. The thing that most guys like about women is they are girly. There are all kinds though. Some guys like drag queens, women with huge muscles, obese women, anorexic women and the list goes on but the vast majority of men like women with average bodies and girly looks and girly manorisms.

I would personally make my hair the way I think is most likely to attract the kind of woman I want. I would just as soon shave my head as have any haircut. For the right woman I would do just about anything short of tatoos. That's the kind of guy I am. I work out, watch what I eat and groom myself even though I don't particularly enjoy these activities. It's all about how much effort you want to put into looking like a winner instead of ____. Great many words can be placed there. I'll let you choose lol. If I choose any word, I am sure to get a lot of flaming here. Of course everyone here is going to say do what You want to do. If I wanted to tatoo a swastica "lol however that's spelled how bout 666 instead" on my forehead I could. But then I most likely would be severely limiting my dating possibilities exponentially.
Joined: 8/14/2011
Msg: 15
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Posted: 10/14/2012 8:03:21 PM
It depends on how short it is. At a certain point, men will presume you're a lesbian.

I do prefer long hair on a woman.
Joined: 3/15/2009
Msg: 16
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Posted: 10/14/2012 8:17:11 PM
In order to wear really short hair, a woman needs to have really attractive facial features, and especially not have a double chin or chubby cheeks...if they do, it often makes their face look even fuller.

In my early 20s, I once cut my hair to chin length...and regretted it once I looked in the mirror. Looking back at the few photos that I allowed people to take of me back then, I easily looked several years older! :(

Ever since then, the only time I will cut my hair is for a trim...I will not even get my hair cut for bangs!

While healthy, long hair is often appealing to men, a few guy friends have told me if an attractive woman has shorter hair, it can be sexy because it shows can't hide behind short hair!

Some women look better with shorter hair. Female celebrities for example: Halle Berry, and Michelle Williams (Heath Ledger's ex). Anne Hathaway cut her hair really short for a role...not that flattering.

Joined: 10/8/2012
Msg: 17
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Posted: 10/14/2012 10:21:44 PM
Total turn off! I prefer long hair. Look at Demi More in “Ghost” she looked like an effeminate teenage boy.
Joined: 4/14/2011
Msg: 18
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Posted: 10/15/2012 4:12:33 AM
Guess I am a bit partial. I have short hair that is a current and a fun look. IMHO, as woman age, short hair is more attractive. Without some sort of style, long hair on an older woman just hangs there and drags down their features along with gravity!! Just my opinion!
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