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 Waterl
Joined: 10/15/2012
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Do you like these men or do they turn you off? I dated one once and found out he had one. My time with him was not enjoyable and then when talking to someone new who I could tell had one, I decided not to speak to him again. It's just a turn off for me.
 NOCLOWNING
Joined: 7/21/2010
Msg: 2
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Posted: 11/11/2012 3:28:32 PM
I was with a man for 7 yrs, that had a foot fetish. I didnt really care for it, but I loved him, and knowing
it turned him on, I learned to just go with the flow.
I always was with a man that had a hair fetish, I loved it!!!
 HappySingleSpirit
Joined: 9/10/2011
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Posted: 11/11/2012 3:35:44 PM
I don’t like them more than others because of their fetish and they don’t turn me off either. As long as it doesn’t get in the way with his deep feelings for me because of who I am he can have his fetish, I don’t care.
 Waterl
Joined: 10/15/2012
Msg: 4
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Posted: 11/11/2012 7:17:03 PM
I felt like when they guy was down on my feet all the time I wanted to say "hey, I'm up here". Now I can deal with a hair fetish a lot more.
 VolcanoKing
Joined: 8/6/2012
Msg: 5
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Posted: 11/11/2012 7:34:13 PM
It's no big deal. Been there, done that. Kinda fun as long as we can mix it up with other stuff.
 ABritInBurnaby
Joined: 8/31/2012
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Posted: 11/11/2012 7:38:10 PM
This is intriguing. I never thought it could be something that would affect a relationship a great deal.
 MV6000
Joined: 7/17/2011
Msg: 7
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Posted: 11/12/2012 12:08:42 AM
I don't see why people make such a big deal about it.
 bootsy700
Joined: 12/19/2011
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Posted: 11/12/2012 3:17:55 AM
i will like to give you feet rub ilove suck toes
 spark_in_the_dark
Joined: 12/9/2009
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Posted: 11/12/2012 10:53:35 AM
MV6000, why people make a big deal about it is because most (not all) of these guys forget there's a person attached to the feet. It's the equivalent of guys who only want to use your holes. The one's who have messaged me start their messages talking about their love of feet and asking if they can use mine. There's no talk of compatibility, personalities, hobbies, lifestyles, goals, chemistry, etc.
It would be like if a guy was only interested in me for my boobs, so he was always staring at them, talking to them, playing with them, while disregardig me as a person. If my feet/boobs/holes/whatever turn you on, that's great, but that can't be the basis for a relationship, like any fetish it should be given equal importance with the other factors that go into compatibility.

Of course there's also the fact that he might get off on playing with my feet and be fully satisfied, but I won't be. I need more than a foot rub (or some boob grabbing, or having my throat used, etc) to get off and be satisfied, and not all guys with foot fetishes care about that, the one's I've enountered have only been interested in themselves and their desires. That's when it beomes an issue.
 Bebedeleau
Joined: 6/8/2011
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Posted: 11/12/2012 11:27:56 AM
Those angles work some muscles in your inner thighs that aren't used to being worked :)
 MV6000
Joined: 7/17/2011
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Posted: 11/12/2012 10:45:14 PM

MV6000, why people make a big deal about it is because most (not all) of these guys forget there's a person attached to the feet. It's the equivalent of guys who only want to use your holes. The one's who have messaged me start their messages talking about their love of feet and asking if they can use mine. There's no talk of compatibility, personalities, hobbies, lifestyles, goals, chemistry, etc.
It would be like if a guy was only interested in me for my boobs, so he was always staring at them, talking to them, playing with them, while disregardig me as a person. If my feet/boobs/holes/whatever turn you on, that's great, but that can't be the basis for a relationship, like any fetish it should be given equal importance with the other factors that go into compatibility.

Of course there's also the fact that he might get off on playing with my feet and be fully satisfied, but I won't be. I need more than a foot rub (or some boob grabbing, or having my throat used, etc) to get off and be satisfied, and not all guys with foot fetishes care about that, the one's I've enountered have only been interested in themselves and their desires. That's when it beomes an issue.



Your right but surely not every guy who has a foot fetish is that way. What you just wrote sounds more like a stereotype more than anything. Like you said there will be people who like a certain body part more than others and forget that, that body part is part of a person. Why is that stigma more associated to people who have a foot fetish more than others. For example I know people who always checks out girls butt's but it seems okay but my other friend who is always looking at girls feet is now a weirdo. That's a double standard I don't understand. It seems our society thinks staring at boobs and butt's are ok but if you stare at feet you are now a weirdo or a creep.
 sunneedaze
Joined: 10/17/2008
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Posted: 11/14/2012 9:40:29 PM
I like these men very much. I enjoy having my feet rubbed and paid attention to. I am getting pedicures for my feet to look nice so why shouldnt someone enjoy them.......
 seven15
Joined: 2/13/2006
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Posted: 11/15/2012 7:33:55 AM
Maybe I'm double jointed but foot fetishes can be combined with lovemaking very easily.
 untilever
Joined: 10/6/2012
Msg: 14
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Posted: 11/17/2012 12:51:38 AM
I think I would enjoy a guy with a foot fetish. Haven't encountered one yet.
 Kings_Knight
Joined: 1/20/2009
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Posted: 11/17/2012 10:16:45 AM
Ooops. My bad. I thought it said 'FOOD Fetish' ...
 lovelivelife02112
Joined: 3/28/2007
Msg: 16
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Posted: 11/17/2012 9:54:50 PM
Now I can't speak for other Foot Fetishists, but I have an intense appreciation for the Female Foot. This merely serves as the spark plug that ignites my passion for a COMPLETE sexual experience. A woman with a pair of sexy feet who knows how to dress them, tease with them and provide access to them can arouse me to want ALL of her' For a FootMan, Sexy Feet on a woman just ENHANCES her overall beauty and attractiveness. Footplay MUST be a part of the overall experience in order to have meaning to me. It's like 24 hour foreplay that can occur anywhere and anytime and builds up over time and explodes into unbridled PASSION.

It sounds like many women here have had either unpleasant or indifferent experiences with us "FootMen". There are many women who will convey that some of the BEST sex of their lives were with men who appreciated their feet. Turn us on, Wind us up, and WHOA! Look Out! Now who wants to put on a pair of their sexiest slides and come play? Huh? LMAO!
 scottey63
Joined: 3/8/2008
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Posted: 11/17/2012 10:46:23 PM
If he was down on your feet already, surely you could have made a more constructive suggestion than "Hey, I'm up here".
 friendshipcomesfirst
Joined: 5/19/2011
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Posted: 11/17/2012 11:16:26 PM
It's a personal preference thing... I am super grossed out by feet (I can't explain it, it just is what it is) so a foot fetish guy would never work for me... but for some it's no big deal ;)
 Waterl
Joined: 10/15/2012
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Posted: 11/20/2012 6:48:42 PM
As one poster stated, a foot fetish guy can and one did only care about my feet and always forgot I was there. This is why it's a turn off for me.
 leoo1970
Joined: 5/4/2008
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Posted: 11/24/2012 7:10:46 AM
Idk, some fetishists are more socially adept than others. But I would think than non open minded women would suck in bed anyways. Interesting thread regardless
 CynthiaSM
Joined: 2/24/2012
Msg: 21
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Posted: 11/24/2012 7:47:59 AM
Your right but surely not every guy who has a foot fetish is that way. What you just wrote sounds more like a stereotype more than anything.

Because OP used the word fetish. Not "preference", or 'likes all parts of the woman but feet more than others'. per merriam-webster


B: an object of irrational reverence or obsessive devotion
c: an object or bodily part whose real or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with complete sexual expression

Fetish goes beyond just liking, or liking in addition to other parts. Fetish goes beyond normal.

So it is not a contradiction for me to say I LOVE a man who LIKES feet (like my last SO), but not a man who has a foot FETISH.
In fact, 'likes feet' is probably a deal-breaker for me.

edit: P.S. OP - FYI more threads about foot fetishes in the sex forum.
 CynthiaSM
Joined: 2/24/2012
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Posted: 11/24/2012 8:00:20 AM

It's like 24 hour foreplay that can occur anywhere and anytime and builds up over time and explodes into unbridled PASSION

Yah, I used to have a lot of fun with a man who "liked" feet. Would send the occasional text or email about my day (ex: went hiking along the lake, saw a great .... blah blah) but instead of attaching a pic of the great thing I saw, I'd attach a pic of my feet dipped in the lake. We called it foot porn. Corny, I know. But fun anyway and a bit more creative than a cleavage shot.
 BLONDE_ANGEL845
Joined: 6/30/2012
Msg: 23
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Posted: 11/25/2012 6:53:52 PM
I love a really good foot massage...
 0ldhag
Joined: 1/8/2012
Msg: 24
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Posted: 11/26/2012 10:17:01 AM
One guy who I was seeing very breifly had a foot fetish; he LOVED feet, but he hated bare feet, he was only interested in feet with socks or stalkings on. He wouldn't even get into bed with me if I had bare feet.

He'd always ask me to send him pictures of my feet (we only got to see each other once every few weeks), and because he was kinda my boyfriend at the time, I sent him a few but ones with my face in the picture as well, because I thought he'd want to see my face too being we dont see each other often...but no..lol..he wasnt remotely interested in any other part of my body except my feet with socks or stalkings..

To me, thats just plain wierd...but who knows, maybe its normal..I dont know anymore.

The relation didn't last long though..I just couldnt get past the fact that the only attractive thing on my body was my feet in pretty lace!
 ohenryx
Joined: 3/12/2010
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Posted: 11/26/2012 1:33:41 PM

BLonde__AngeL
I love a really good foot massage...


It so happens that I give a really good foot massage, along with a great back rub. But I don't get off from that, it's just one more step towards the ultimate target. (grin!)

But wait, we're not in the sex forum, are we?
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