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 venusenvy777
Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 2
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Sounds creepy stalkery to me...I would cut off all contact Doll and forget him
 beachluvr78
Joined: 8/28/2012
Msg: 4
What is going on with guys sometimes?
Posted: 1/12/2013 1:47:10 PM
"Stoking" is actually spelled "stalking."

BLOCK is your friend. So is Thread Search.

Also, go to the bottom of whatever his latest profile is and click on "Report User."
 venusenvy777
Joined: 11/19/2008
Msg: 6
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Posted: 1/12/2013 1:50:30 PM
Theres only so much blocking you can do surely? lol
Iv blocked him 5 times all different types of accounts :/

I would report this looser right now
 Fatuglybaldcreeper84
Joined: 1/5/2013
Msg: 7
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Posted: 1/12/2013 3:03:38 PM
Basically he has the mindset that if a woman says no she really means yes
 Fizzle58
Joined: 6/7/2012
Msg: 8
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Posted: 1/12/2013 3:07:56 PM
Sounds like a rapist.
 ARCH_Guy
Joined: 1/5/2013
Msg: 9
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Posted: 1/12/2013 3:44:02 PM
This might be an annoying task, but you could always create a new account for yourself if you can't get his IP blocked by the site administrator. Then leave out certain details in your profile so that he can't find you through a search. If push comes to shove, that might be what you have to do. Good luck!
 Hamilton12345
Joined: 3/29/2012
Msg: 10
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Posted: 1/12/2013 4:20:07 PM
Happens to women on dating websites all the time. And from what I understand also happens to men.

Unless you have given this man enough personal details that he can find IRL, just keep blocking him. Report him if want, but from my eperience it is useless, they just block that email address from making another account so the guy creates a new email to go with the new account.

Just block him and move on.
 ispiratore
Joined: 11/28/2012
Msg: 11
What is going on with guys sometimes?
Posted: 1/12/2013 8:08:23 PM
go with your intuition. How can any spark exist without some substance. It is worthwild to exchage messages and words. Our ability to express our thoughts is all we have in the beginning.
 ixtlan09
Joined: 9/9/2012
Msg: 12
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Posted: 1/12/2013 8:16:38 PM
You really should try to broaden your horizons.
 SHUDNTBEONHERE
Joined: 11/3/2012
Msg: 13
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Posted: 1/12/2013 9:17:50 PM
Well if you have only communicated with him through this site chances are he has no idea who you are. The next time he contacts you give in to him. Start being the most anoying whining girl you could possibly be. Eventually he will concider you a pain in his ass and he'll go away.
 BrokeMyLine
Joined: 12/28/2012
Msg: 14
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Posted: 1/13/2013 1:54:25 AM
You and everyone else under the sun has the right to draw thier own boundries in every facet of life. And everyone else should respect them. If you know you don't want to eat doggy doo are you wrong in not doing so because someone wants you too ?? HECK NO!!!! He is disrespectful, controling and selfish by only thinking about what he wants and cares less about how you feel. I say "ALWAYS" stand your ground girl, be yourself and be proud of who you are. Just remember NO STILL MEANS NO !!!!!!! Send him this forum and report him they should be able to block him from his ip or computer number.
 BrokeMyLine
Joined: 12/28/2012
Msg: 15
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Posted: 1/13/2013 2:07:47 AM
Posted By: venusenvy777 on 1/12/2013 346 PM
Subject: What is going on with guys sometimes?
Message: Sounds creepy stalkery to me...I would cut off all contact Doll and forget him
Wish I could be so lucky to have my very own stalker. How does one aquire one of those thingys ??? Hmmm...
 SHUDNTBEONHERE
Joined: 11/3/2012
Msg: 16
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Posted: 1/13/2013 3:09:38 AM
Either a stalker or someone that has no life.
 Hearton64
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 17
What is going on with guys sometimes?
Posted: 1/13/2013 4:53:48 AM

Wish I could be so lucky to have my very own stalker.
How does one aquire one of those thingys ??? Hmmm...


Would you also enjoy being raped in a dark alley?
Stalkers can be very dangerous ya' know!Male or female!
 Daglan2
Joined: 9/12/2012
Msg: 18
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Posted: 1/13/2013 7:26:44 AM
report him to pof that is harassment seems like he cant take no for a answer stay away from him for your own security
 windchymes
Joined: 11/29/2008
Msg: 21
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Posted: 1/13/2013 10:21:22 AM
Send him one that clearly and only says "I'm not interested. Stop messaging me." And nothing else, no drama, no embellishments, no apologies. Save the message as well as his messages. If he replies to that message, report him to admin as harassment.

Complaints and reports should always be factual and drama-free. They will be responded to much more quickly than emotional rants. (Not saying you have been ranting, just saying in general.)

And just keep ignoring him. Blocking implies an emotional response to him which gets him more fired up. Just let the messages sit unread. He'll get bored eventually and stop. It may take awhile, but unread message get to be boring.

I'm assuming he has no contact information for you so that he could find you in real life.
 Hamilton12345
Joined: 3/29/2012
Msg: 22
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Posted: 1/13/2013 11:08:58 AM

Iv had ten messages from him today and i havent replied to any of them he just doesnt get the hint!!!


Delete them unread, eventually he will give up.
 angellight2091
Joined: 7/21/2009
Msg: 23
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Posted: 1/13/2013 11:09:36 AM
Tell him you've decided to stop running and to just go with it.. It's useless anyway since he keeps finding you..Let him know your planning on moving in with him immediately so you'll be needing his address NOW..... Tell him your quiting your job because you would like to start on having children immediately.. Four boys to start and then three little sisters that they can protect..All within a year of the previous... and what kind of job does he have anyway since he will need to make a lot of money to support you and the children..He will also need to buy you a new minivan to transport all these children around in..Let him know he may have to get a 2nd job... And does he own a house??? How many bedrooms?? Would he be willing to put it up for sale so you can have a bigger one.. Make sure he doesnt forget the huge diamond ring ... In fact message him immediately to make plans to get together and pick out the ring.. If he still insists on talking.. Then follow thru...make him actually meet you at the most expensive jewelers and go in to pick out a huge ring... Make him put a deposit on it ...Make him contact a realtor and start looking at houses..BIG EXPENSIVE ONES...That ought to send him running....You just have to fight fire with fire...
 onceinalifetimemaybetwice
Joined: 12/27/2012
Msg: 27
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Posted: 1/13/2013 4:57:08 PM
Shit happens leave the site if you are that upset !!!
 SHUDNTBEONHERE
Joined: 11/3/2012
Msg: 28
What is going on with guys sometimes?
Posted: 1/13/2013 8:28:01 PM
Ive had a couple stalkers before. They are fun and once I know they are stalking me I mess with them as much as possible.
 ladysuccubus
Joined: 12/13/2012
Msg: 29
What is going on with guys sometimes?
Posted: 1/13/2013 10:46:44 PM
I blocked one person that kept messaging me, and then he made a new profile and messaged me so I blocked him again. Even the creepiest of men on this site know when to give up. Just keep blocking. You shouldnt have responded if you werent interested.
 RussArtLover
Joined: 5/13/2010
Msg: 30
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Posted: 1/14/2013 12:19:33 AM
Sounds like a clever lonely homosapien to me. Just ignore him or call a cop. Up to you.
 natgoat227
Joined: 6/10/2012
Msg: 31
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Posted: 1/15/2013 1:43:03 PM
_THAT_....
Is why many women don't include Photos on their Profile...!!!
Women...in general...attract ~Whack-O's~...
_Attractive_ women . . . attract the ones that need to be Cattle-Prodded!!! . . Several Times!!

Sorry, hon....but you ARE Cute!!
 sexypunkgirl
Joined: 1/16/2011
Msg: 32
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Posted: 1/15/2013 1:56:35 PM
Just tell him you give up. You are going to meet him. then give him an address thats several hours away from where he lives (and obviously not your own address). let him drive 2 hours just to meet you. When he spends 4 hours round trip driving and who knows how long trying to figure out what happened. He will contact you again on here. Just say oops. Wrong address . And give him another. he will give up and move on
 winnipeg342012ca
Joined: 6/25/2012
Msg: 33
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Posted: 1/15/2013 9:19:31 PM
Why not just leave the site or make a completely diffrent profile? Not that complicated
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