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 whosthatgirl77
Joined: 8/31/2011
Msg: 1
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I have been dating someone off and on for a few months trying to see where things go. I am at a loss...He expects me to touch him and suck him...which i dont mind doing at all...trust me...but he has only ever touched my nipples with his mouth and fingers. He has never touched me with either lets just say lower. I dont get this. I like to be touched...i have asked him and his response was that he isnt comfortable....like huh??? Any suggestions or thoughts?
 moon_breeze
Joined: 10/10/2012
Msg: 2
When he doesnt want to touch anything but your nipples
Posted: 1/20/2013 2:55:56 PM
I think this screams ISSUES all over the place and I wouldn't personally want to find out how deep they go.
 _PassionFlower
Joined: 11/27/2011
Msg: 3
When he doesnt want to touch anything but your nipples
Posted: 1/20/2013 2:56:14 PM
Are u saying he wont give u oral sex? Hell, if u cant verbalize it here, Im sure u aren't able to tell him, and therefore u are not being pleased.... How about u tell him he literally needs to kiss ur ass......LITERALLY...KISS....UR....ASS...
 carolann0308
Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 4
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When he doesnt want to touch anything but your nipples
Posted: 1/20/2013 3:36:45 PM
He does not want to have sex with you but is quite happy allowing you to satisfy him........walk away.
 aussieblues
Joined: 11/22/2011
Msg: 5
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When he doesnt want to touch anything but your nipples
Posted: 1/20/2013 3:40:04 PM
Buy some burlesque "pasties's" and his mouth will fill with glitter...giggles
 Mikare
Joined: 11/6/2012
Msg: 6
When he doesnt want to touch anything but your nipples
Posted: 1/20/2013 3:40:38 PM
I would love to hook you up with my last date.... He was equally as sick but I refused to engage. lol....
 TraveliciousGuy
Joined: 9/17/2011
Msg: 7
When he doesnt want to touch anything but your nipples
Posted: 1/20/2013 3:45:31 PM

Any suggestions or thoughts?


Find someone else?
 Lady4Love73
Joined: 1/28/2009
Msg: 8
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When he doesnt want to touch anything but your nipples
Posted: 1/20/2013 4:04:11 PM
Just ask him why. Maybe he needs some liquid courage (booze) to loosen up a bit.
 onehappyfellow
Joined: 9/21/2008
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When he doesnt want to touch anything but your nipples
Posted: 1/20/2013 4:06:45 PM
How about I come down and show him how?
 Mikare
Joined: 11/6/2012
Msg: 10
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Posted: 1/20/2013 4:44:59 PM
Google sex addicts
 domainfullduplex100
Joined: 12/21/2012
Msg: 11
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Posted: 1/20/2013 4:56:45 PM
hopefully it is not an indirect way of him saying he is not comfortable with your body scent?
 curviest
Joined: 5/28/2010
Msg: 12
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Posted: 1/20/2013 5:02:53 PM
Could be that. Suggest you both have a nice hot shower. Then lay down on the bed and tell him to get down there and deal with his issues.

And do NOT under any circumstances bring him off in any way!
 LivvyH.
Joined: 6/14/2012
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Posted: 1/20/2013 5:10:23 PM
Yikes, that is an ISSUE if I ever seen one!
 ladysuccubus
Joined: 12/13/2012
Msg: 14
When he doesnt want to touch anything but your nipples
Posted: 1/20/2013 5:20:09 PM
ummm..yeah, dump him!!!
 takemetoasgard
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 15
When he doesnt want to touch anything but your nipples
Posted: 1/20/2013 5:27:12 PM
Sounds like he may just have a nipple/breast fetish to me. If that's the case, he probably mostly only enjoys titty-fvcking (ugh, I hate saying that. It's so crude lol). Also, from my experience, men with fetishes (breast/nipple, foot, noses, butt *not anal*, etc.) who's fetishes aren't the same as yours are beyond selfish when it comes to sex.
 takemetoasgard
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 16
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Posted: 1/20/2013 5:38:12 PM

There nothing wrong with fetishes but your right he sounds bit selfsh


Oh no! I'm not saying there is anything wrong with fetishes. I have my own kinks that some guys have found odd. But certain fetishes won't work in a relationship if the individual with the fetish isn't willing to break away from the fetish to please his/her significant other, and if the significant other is totally freaked out by/not okay with the fetish, the relationship just won't work out.
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 1/20/2013 5:38:30 PM
Sexually incompatible, walk away before you think you can live with it. It will build resentments and you will be sexually frustrated. It's a basic incompatibility, don't try to analyze it.
 Mikare
Joined: 11/6/2012
Msg: 18
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Posted: 1/20/2013 6:16:20 PM
His interest isn't nipples it's oral and only focused on his needs.... as I said Google sex addiction.
 gentleplus
Joined: 9/8/2008
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When he doesnt want to touch anything but your nipples
Posted: 1/20/2013 6:20:07 PM
RUN FORREST>>>RUN
 AfterDusk30
Joined: 11/24/2012
Msg: 20
When he doesnt want to touch anything but your nipples
Posted: 1/20/2013 6:23:39 PM
Some people just have weird fetishes and it could be as simple as that. Regardless, you should be getting what you want as well so you need to tell him that and if he still wont do it, end the relationship if it's a big enough issue.
 ndependentlady
Joined: 12/22/2012
Msg: 21
When he doesnt want to touch anything but your nipples
Posted: 1/20/2013 6:34:02 PM
That's to bad
He thinks he's to good
Stop that car
And slam the hood !
Tell'em to walk
And go get gas
And if he wants to come back
He needs to kiss yo' A$$.
 whosthatgirl77
Joined: 8/31/2011
Msg: 22
When he doesnt want to touch anything but your nipples
Posted: 1/20/2013 6:34:59 PM
I am pretty sure it isnt a scent issue...but thanks for the thought on that. oh and i can talk about oral....he loves when i suck him....he has never even touched me with a finger...well with clothes on he has...i have just never experienced this before. talk about being made to feel like you are not good enough or there is something wrong with you....maybe he doesnt like how wet i get....well he does when his****is inside me. anyways ....i guess ill move along like most of you have said...just would like a good **** sometime soon...lol...but it doesnt seem to be going to cum from him lol
 ndependentlady
Joined: 12/22/2012
Msg: 23
When he doesnt want to touch anything but your nipples
Posted: 1/20/2013 6:43:49 PM
Sometimes we just have to fin for ourselves.
 Ochema
Joined: 1/12/2013
Msg: 24
When he doesnt want to touch anything but your nipples
Posted: 1/21/2013 1:58:10 AM
Oral sex used to be illegal you know... "But, she made me do it your honor!"
 whosthatgirl77
Joined: 8/31/2011
Msg: 25
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Posted: 1/21/2013 3:24:55 AM
Lol I am not even just talking about oral sex...love it, but fingers can do wonders too haha
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