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 woobytoodsday
Joined: 12/13/2006
Msg: 2
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Two whole hours? A trip to the nearest shopping mall is a three hour round trip for me, lol! Go for it!
 LiliMarleen
Joined: 5/24/2009
Msg: 7
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How far away is too far away?
Posted: 3/30/2013 6:24:53 AM
My boyfriend, who lives four hours away, sent me a first message saying that if I thought we were close enough, he'd be interested in getting to know me.

Your approach was passive and put it all on her. That's unappealing.
 RB_64
Joined: 7/22/2009
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How far away is too far away?
Posted: 3/30/2013 5:47:08 PM
Two hours? No big deal. Unless neither of you have a car and Greyhound doesn't come through your town.

Write her. Get to know her. Call her if she will let you. Find out if she is all that in real life as well as in her profile.

Flight time alone to see the one who interests me is over four hours........ Where there is a will, there is a way.
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