When she messaged me (on another dating site), I noticed in her profile that she mentioned she was shy. Also, a personality rating said she was "introverted." I don't read too much into these things, but yeah its nice to get an idea before the first date
most of that stuff is b/s. If she's interested..she'll make a move in one form or another.
On both of our dates, we ended up just sitting in the bar for six hours straight. Once I invited her to a my classmates party; she showed up with a friend, and when the friend left she decided to stay behind (even though she wasnt talking with other people there except me).
Aye..another fella's on his way to biting the dust. 1) A frat party isn't a date - in fact, that's a very DUMB thing to do. Taking a girl to a frat party to see your frat brothers act like idiots. You always keep it to one-on-one dates until 3-6 months
2) Six hours on a first meet? You cap that sh*t at an hour TOPS. Leave her wanting more. Not yawning and running out of topics.
....But, it all feels very platonic. It's gotten to the point where I'm wondering if we're actually dating. I won't go into all the details, but there's just something about her body language, and the things she says, that makes me feel this is just friendly. But, considering how bashful she is around people (I saw that at the party), I'm wondering if it's just because she's so shy all the time. And I can understand: I suffer from social anxiety occasionally, and there have been plenty of times when someone was put-off because of something Id said wrong, or some facial expression I didn't even know I was making.
You being available all the time and your six hour dates may have a lot to do with it. don't ya think? You probably text her twice a day and what not too..
Being available all the time, kills challenge, and lowers interest. Pull back ..wait a week...CALL HER and ask her out for dinner. Keep it to 2 hours tops.