Try using firefox or google chrome AND use one of their free adblocker adons and see if those pesky messages go away.
I dont get them at all. I use firefox and ad block plus. there is your clue for the day.
What he said ^^^^
Firefox with Ad Blocker Plus plug-in works great! I never see any ad's anymore. I highly recommend you download and instal it right now. It'll make your experience on POF a tad bit better :)
It also prevents those really annoying pop-up ads you frequently see on streaming movie sites and the like for example...