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 the_big_bad_wolf
Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 1
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how do you controll your feelings when it comes to someone"s mate? and is it totaly wrong?
 the_big_bad_wolf
Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 2
is it wrong to like someone who taken?
Posted: 11/12/2004 2:37:29 PM
well my que.. was is it wrong.. not how to go about it!
 the_big_bad_wolf
Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 3
is it wrong to like someone who taken?
Posted: 11/12/2004 2:52:34 PM
well sweetheart thats what i wanted to hear more people think like me!
 Danien
Joined: 8/8/2004
Msg: 4
is it wrong to like someone who taken?
Posted: 11/12/2004 2:54:24 PM
Ill have to agree with everyone too. Except blue pony :P lol. Just your feelings in and maybe you'll get your chance. Its the waiting the sucks though.
 the_big_bad_wolf
Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 5
is it wrong to like someone who taken?
Posted: 11/12/2004 3:16:28 PM
who sounds like a great person? me? if so thanks
 dodge-and-burn
Joined: 11/7/2004
Msg: 6
is it wrong to like someone who taken?
Posted: 11/12/2004 6:34:32 PM
It depends on who you are and how you act.

There are a couple of girls I work with that I'm interested in. They're both taken and they both know I like them I'm sure.

I haven't come out and said that I was interested, but I flirt with them enough and they enjoy it. At the same time they both seem to be in good relationships. I know how to push their buttons. I can even make one of them blush on command and she's not the shy type.

So now my foot's in the door in case one of them becomes available. But at the same time I'm not holding my breath.

The rule I go by is, be friendly and get friendly.

Now, of course, if you just can't think straight and your heart starts pounding everytime that person walks by, then you have a problem. Your best bet if to go for a walk and think of a way to convince yourself that he's not your's to have.

Last thing I would want to do is ruin a perfectly good rerlationship. I would love to pry one of those girls away from their boyfriend, but in the end, if we don't work out I would never forgive myself.
 dodge-and-burn
Joined: 11/7/2004
Msg: 7
is it wrong to like someone who taken?
Posted: 11/12/2004 6:38:10 PM
Now, of course, if you just can't think straight and your heart starts pounding everytime that person walks by, then you have a problem. Your best bet if to go for a walk and think of a way to convince yourself that he's not your's to have.


BTW, made a little mistake here. I totally forgot that the The Big Bad Wolf wrote the message. So don't think I was infering anything by how I wrote the above paragraph.


One thing I realized a long time ago, is that everything a person does or can do is human.

No matter how you feel, how you act, what you decide to do next has been done before. All by normal people (gay, lesbians, straight) in the same predicament. Even though you may feel ashamed to be in love with someone you are not allowed to be in love with because that person is your friend's partner doesn't make it wrong.
 the_big_bad_wolf
Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 8
is it wrong to like someone who taken?
Posted: 11/13/2004 8:36:24 AM
well i think its cruel to flirt or signal anything.. if its there it will happen no need for anyone to be a homrecker.
 the_big_bad_wolf
Joined: 11/11/2004
Msg: 9
is it wrong to like someone who taken?
Posted: 11/14/2004 10:17:17 AM
well thaks sweet girl too bad you didnt live in ottawa!! just kidding
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