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Joined: 10/9/2013
Msg: 2
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Too many group shots with other attractive, smiling men. You need solo pictures where you are smiling. It will make you look friendly and approachable. Also, add captions to your pictures, especially if they were taken while you traveled.

Your About Me is slightly less generic than most, but still not quite interesting enough to make me want to initiate a conversation. If I had a drink for every guy's profile that said he enjoys staying in and watching movies, I would be suffering from alcohol poisoning. It is a highly overused sentence that says nothing about who you are. Be specific. Where would you like to travel? Where have you traveled before?

Add something about the kind of woman you want to meet. Avoid generic concepts like "nice" and "fun".
 Irish Eyez
Joined: 12/30/2008
Msg: 3
In need of profile help!
Posted: 12/29/2013 3:44:21 PM
No need to reiterate you're 31. We can see that in your stats.

Add captions to your pics. It could lead into a topic of discussion! BONUS for you!

Agree RE: the pics. You don't want to pose with other handsome looking fellas. I mean, what if a woman wrote to ask you the name of the OTHER guy you're standing next to!?

A good, primary pic would be; a head and shoulder shot WITH a big, toothy smile, sans ALL friends, hats, caps, sunglasses, kiddies, booze, hoodies etc., as women want to see YOUR eyes and smile!

Make sure your profile includes; who you are, what you're about and whom you seek.
Joined: 6/30/2010
Msg: 5
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In need of profile help!
Posted: 12/29/2013 4:43:47 PM

Finding pics of myself smiling is an issue. It's not that I'm not happy but as soon as a camera is brought out I have no idea what to do with my face.

Oh well then that's easy. Just take the photos yourself instead of having other people take them. People become overly self-conscious when other people start snapping photos. It's understandable.
 You go first
Joined: 5/1/2008
Msg: 6
In need of profile help!
Posted: 12/29/2013 11:18:13 PM

I genuinely have very little idea of my attractiveness to the other sex.

You will be attractive to someone, don't get all freaked out about it.

Your first three Interests are Sport, Football, Rugby. Do you see the trend? Why not lose 'sport' and let the other two stand? Instead of "Music", why not put Bruce Springsteen? You want to try and give your viewer specific images when she scans your Interests field and the generic words don't help.

Good luck!
Joined: 12/9/2012
Msg: 8
In need of profile help!
Posted: 12/30/2013 12:33:34 PM
Get rid of the ones that feature others. And the blurred faces.. nonono
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