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Joined: 4/27/2013
Msg: 1
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Have had this profile for a while, and would like to re-structure it. I know I need more photos. As well as more things in my about me section. I will say I'm not the best at describing myself. Any help would be appreciated as to what to add or take out.
Joined: 3/15/2011
Msg: 2
Would like some input.
Posted: 9/12/2014 4:43:43 AM
Main pic is bad, it's too backlit so your face is dark. The background colour and lighting is similar to mine but how much better can you see my face? 2nd pic you look like a serial killer. You need more, high quality, well lit, pics including a full body pic.

A joke in the profession box usually means you're unemployed and trying to hide it. If this isn't the case then change it.

Headline... spoilers! I think everyone who gets the reference doesn't need it spelled out so clearly, and anyone who doesn't, well, it's lost anyway.

"Wants to date but nothing serious" is what guys looking for FWB put. If that's not you, change it.

Intent for "friends"... really? Most women here have friends already, they are looking for dates.

Not a fan of the INTP thing, why pigeon hole yourself like this? Isn't everyone an individual?
Saying you're not really doing anything is going to be an immediate turn off. Who wants to get involved with someone so apathetic?

You need to write more, interesting and exciting things about yourself. You can't just stick this up and wait for the hot chick fairy to grace your mailbox. Why would anyone write to you rather than the 10 other guys who messaged her this morning? Sorry but you need to put in a lot more effort than this else you're in for a lonely time here.

Get rid of all the mail filters. How do you think they will get you more messages?
Joined: 12/1/2013
Msg: 3
Would like some input.
Posted: 9/12/2014 7:56:31 AM
Here are the reasons you're being passed over:
As you already noted - photos
You want to date but nothing serious. Many women are on here with the hope of eventually finding a serious relationship. There are some women who are looking for casual dating/casual sex and it just takes a little longer to find them or have them find you.
Your occupation is dragon slayer.
Your mail restrictions. Must be in the USA and must live within 75 miles. How many foreign countries are within 75 miles of Garner, North Carolina? You sound paranoid that all these foreign women who live in all these foreign countries within 75 miles of your location will be clogging up your Inbox because they too are looking for casual dating/casual sex.
Joined: 7/20/2014
Msg: 4
Would like some input.
Posted: 9/12/2014 8:15:08 AM

There are a lot of things that are not helping, but only you can work on the presentation. You've had some great suggestions already.

How are you supporting yourself if you're not working/studying and apparently playing video games all day? At 26, this is a major concern.

Please post back to this same thread when you've had another run at it.
Joined: 9/7/2011
Msg: 5
Would like some input.
Posted: 9/12/2014 10:28:23 AM

I know I need more photos

Has anyone mentioned "photos" yet?

Actually two photos could work well....
Provided they are great ones!

Your second photo is so lame
that you caption it with an excuse,
exactly why you think it's so bad!

I can't tell what is on your face?
"Eye Black" (for a sporting event.)
Your preparing for a Rain dance.
War paint.
Or, indeed crazy shadows
cast by your very fashionable eye wear.

The good news....
There is an easily solvable solution to your photographical dilemma.
Take a few new pictures,
post them up,
rotate the "Main"
every so often.
Joined: 8/12/2014
Msg: 6
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Posted: 9/12/2014 1:40:57 PM
Get rid of age restrictions 23-30. What if there is a 31 year old supermodel that wants to date you.
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