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 amberose21
Joined: 11/27/2013
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I was having sex with this guy who penis size was 7 or 8 inches. the whole time we were having sex, it felt like he was hitting a wall which hurt like hell but I wanted him to finish. now I know it was my cervix but after we were done I asked him what did it feel like when you went deep and he said it felt like the tip of his penis was being flicked which he said it felt good. so my question is for the guys. does every guy who goes deep and hit the cervix feel this flicking feel?
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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hitting the cervix during sex
Posted: 10/20/2014 6:12:22 AM
I have no clue, I am only an average 6" over here.

I can tell you that any stimulation of the head of the penis, especially the back of the head were there is alot of nerves can drive a man wild when he is really getting into it. So yes, it will feel good to a man, if he hits that spot over and over and feels a soft "flick" on the head.

Another question is, does any women actually like it when a man continually strikes the cervix?

I imagine not, but I keep seeing it pop up (no pun intended) in porn alot. Granted, it was made by men, and men are usually not the greatest in knowing the female reproductive system unless it's their proffession.
 Spifflog
Joined: 3/25/2007
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Posted: 10/20/2014 6:55:30 AM
It's happened to me on occasion.
Sometimes it does feel good, and sometimes not. I depends on the angle and how hard I'm hitting the cervix. (Poor answer to your question I know.)
But it mentally bothers me now because the last woman I dated said it felt uncomfortable and I'm generally plugged into the women I'm with. So knowing I'm causing her pain is enough to take me out of the moment.
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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Posted: 10/20/2014 7:13:04 AM
"...I'm generally plugged into the women I'm with..."
Roflmao, the funniest unintentional comment to thread title.
 Spifflog
Joined: 3/25/2007
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hitting the cervix during sex
Posted: 10/20/2014 7:16:29 AM
I'll be here all week ;)
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
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Posted: 10/20/2014 8:45:28 AM
It's an awesome sensation for the guy as well. But it can be a problem.

The average vagina is about 4 to 5" long. During sex, it expands or contracts to accommodate the penis. To some women hitting the cervix is painful and they avoided. To some other women, they like it a lot. With one of my gfs, she always needed clitoral stimulation to come. Then one time I reached her cervix and pressed there and did not move. She had the most intense orgasm from that, and was able from then on to on occasion orgasm vaginally.

I've tried the same thing on my now girlfriend. Parking there did not produce an orgasm for her, but she liked that flickering feeling that you were talking about and likes it when I go deep, deep, deep.

There's one side effect. You can be sore for a few days. So you may want to figure out if it gives you enough pleasure to make it worth it.
 Dee4166
Joined: 6/16/2007
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Posted: 10/20/2014 9:37:02 AM
No man has hit my cervix ...yet!! lol

Even my gyno has been looking for it SO long sometimes I feel like he's "digging for gold"...LMAO
I suspect the man would have to be hung like a HORSE for that particular experience ...and haven't found one of THOSE yet either....

There are several "spots" within the vagina that a man can "hit" that will produce a vaginal orgasm...and it can be so MUCH fun discovering them with a willing partner....

I say, if at first you don't succeed....well, you know the rest....*smiles*
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 8
feels flicking good?
Posted: 10/20/2014 2:41:47 PM
an ex tried one of those ring-net birth control things (can't remember the name at this particular second) and it felt like I was knocking on its door when I entered from behind. Didn't turn me on, and the rational part of my brain said, "if it doesn't feel normal, it may result in a problem, stop."

so i'm one vote no, I suppose. but if it works for you and your lucky fellow...
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 10/20/2014 4:42:08 PM
As far as I know, I've never hit the cervix during sex...

Guess I'm coming up a bit short...
 calguy14
Joined: 8/17/2014
Msg: 10
feels flicking good?
Posted: 10/20/2014 6:36:03 PM
It can be uncomfortable for both with a small woman.
 amberose21
Joined: 11/27/2013
Msg: 11
hitting the cervix during sex
Posted: 10/20/2014 7:55:28 PM
@ basilisk123, that's the first time it happen and I was oh crap lol but I spoke with my doctor and she said try different position, etc.
 amberose21
Joined: 11/27/2013
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Posted: 10/20/2014 7:58:03 PM
@ spifflog, for me it was doggy style and very interesting lol
 Onyxbutterflies90
Joined: 10/14/2014
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Posted: 10/22/2014 8:15:22 AM
Bruised cervix sucks. My exes that were big said they liked "hitting bottom", but I didn't enjoy the results. It was tolerable during sex, but hurt like crazy for days afterwards. I have an aunt that ended up in the hospital because her husband was too big and enthusiastic. You need to speak up if it hurts, but some women like it. Listen to your body. My current boyfriend is smaller which is a nice change.
 Hearton64
Joined: 12/18/2012
Msg: 14
hitting the cervix during sex
Posted: 10/22/2014 11:17:07 AM

the whole time we were having sex, it felt like he was hitting a wall which hurt like hell but I wanted him to finish.
now I know it was my cervix



When anything hurts it's your bodies way
Of warning you to stop or at least change position
Or angle.

IMO who cares if it feels great to him
If it's painful and damaging for you!

Doggie leaves your cervix more vulnerable
Than other positions that are less painful
And more within your control.

Being balls deep may work for some
But for me I'm rather have a man with
Girth rather than length as I'm not into pain
And sex.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 15
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Posted: 10/23/2014 11:07:53 AM
OK, not being a woman, I'm gonna ask the silly question: what if the fellow has a slow stroke rather than a jackhammer thrust, would that reduce the odds of pain?

you're gonna make some of us nice guys get real afraid of hurting our ladies :)
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 16
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Posted: 10/23/2014 11:20:43 AM

OK, not being a woman, I'm gonna ask the silly question: what if the fellow has a slow stroke rather than a jackhammer thrust, would that reduce the odds of pain?


Dude, dude, you had to go there. It has been my experience that doing the slow stroke, particularly doggy style allows for deep deep penetration and stimulation of the cervix, but also the G-spot. This causes some women to get so incredibly wet that they practically drip, and have orgasms that seem to come from nowhere and are quite intense.

The only problem is that men, being the dogs we are, have the temptation to then go super hard, which can leave a woman sore for several days.
 Hearton64
Joined: 12/18/2012
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Posted: 10/23/2014 11:25:14 AM
I can only speak for myself.

My cervix is 50% closer to my opening than most thanks to a tilted uterus so I can't handle deep thrusting. but I also don't come via penetration at all,ever so the entire act is for my guy anyways.

I know in order for a man to get off he needs to get both speed and depth and that's why I'm a lot happier with a man who's about 4-6 inches.

If you are with a woman who's in pain due to your method of penetration,I'd say it's her own fault for not speaking up.

Communication is key in bed!

Ohhhh...is different than Owwwww!




Dude, dude, you had to go there. It has been my experience that doing the slow stroke, particularly doggy style allows for deep deep penetration and stimulation of the cervix, but also the G-spot.


Umm...our g-spots are about 2 inches in and up on the top wall of our vaginas so not sure how deep penetration is gonna work.And there is NOTHING stimulating about my cervix!
being flicked,banged,rammed,or slow stroked.It's nerveless until it get's bruised then you had BETTER stop if I ask you to or else! (that's another thread)




This causes some women to get so incredibly wet that they practically drip, and have orgasms that seem to come from nowhere and are quite intense


You must be talking about the A-spot?
 arwen52
Joined: 3/13/2008
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Posted: 10/23/2014 11:37:57 AM
I have a tipped uterus and mine gets hit a lot. It hurts. I'll ask a guy if he'll put his hand at the base to act as a spacer.

Now and then a guy manages to find an angle where it will slide under or over it and that works.
 jukebox_cowboy
Joined: 8/12/2014
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Posted: 10/23/2014 7:57:47 PM
If you're already dating someone, then why are you here pretending to be single?
 Ladyinred4755
Joined: 1/30/2012
Msg: 20
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Posted: 10/24/2014 2:34:09 AM

you're gonna make some of us nice guys get real afraid of hurting our ladies :)


gtomustang, Somehow I have the impression that you ARE a nice guy and therefore you would not do anything so foolish as to hurt a lady. In other words, you would choose a partner who would speak up, if and when, sexual activity became painful, AND, if and when, you became aware that such activity was causing pain you would seek an alternate approach?

I would like to think the OP, has learned to be more mindful of her own body. To speak up. PAIN is the body's way of telling us, something is wrong, cease, move away from.
Sexual satisfaction is great! Enduring pain and/or possible permanent injury, for several days is not.
 HornetRider
Joined: 9/26/2014
Msg: 21
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Posted: 10/24/2014 6:37:21 AM
Hearton64 has it exactly right, IMO.

But, before tossing the guy for someone less well endowed, you might try experimenting with pillows and positions. For example, a pillow under your tush in missionary could change the "angle" just enough so that he misses your cervix and instead slides against your A-spot, which many women enjoy immensely. Feels really good for the guy, too, I might add. More of a landing in a catcher's mitt feeling than a "flicking".

As Hearton64 said, communication is key. And, he might learn a thing or two in the process, because lord knows, if he's bonking on your cervix, he could use a little instruction. So, do yourself and him (and any future partner he might have) a favor and communicate what feels good and what hurts. If his ego won't handle it, THEN toss him as he only has that one positive attribute, but no idea how to use it properly. *grin*
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 10/27/2014 11:17:46 AM

OK, not being a woman, I'm gonna ask the silly question: what if the fellow has a slow stroke rather than a jackhammer thrust, would that reduce the odds of pain?

Lol...for me, slow is better.


you're gonna make some of us nice guys get real afraid of hurting our ladies :)

Awww...no need to worry. Just talk to the lady in question and ask her directly what she likes and wants. It's a sure-fire way of guaranteeing everyone gets what they want and need.


Communication is key in bed!

Ohhhh...is different than Owwwww!

What she said.


Umm...our g-spots are about 2 inches in and up on the top wall of our vaginas so not sure how deep penetration is gonna work.

{speaking for myself and how it works for me}
Deep penetration does not mean there isn't stimulation of the g-spot. The penis HAS to move past and over the g-spot for all penetration. That slow deep penetration for me triggers things. That grinding into my g-spot... oh yeah. It's not a poking sensation to the g-spot, but more like a violin bow sliding over the strings of a violin. Some women respond better to the poking, some won't. Poking, or that come-hither motion they tell you to use? Yeah, that's so damned painful for me. But take a big blunt-ended object and rub it against and over my g-spot? Oh yeah... that will work.

I so don't like my cervix being pounded. It's a hard limit for me. I've had an ovary hit too, and gentlemen, I can really sympathize with you all getting hit in a testicle.

I do, however, enjoy a little bit of stimulation to my cervix. There's kind of a "flicking" past it that does work for me. Doesn't happen all the time, usually when I'm on top grinding onto him (with him NOT moving!!).


And there is NOTHING stimulating about my cervix!
being flicked,banged,rammed,or slow stroked.It's nerveless until it get's bruised then you had BETTER stop if I ask you to or else! (that's another thread)

*nod nod* Mine has the added bonus of having pointy things sticking out of it. It bites back. *grins*
 InnerGorilla
Joined: 4/1/2014
Msg: 23
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Posted: 10/27/2014 12:02:45 PM

Deep penetration does not mean there isn't stimulation of the g-spot. The penis HAS to move past and over the g-spot for all penetration. That slow deep penetration for me triggers things. That grinding into my g-spot... oh yeah. It's not a poking sensation to the g-spot, but more like a violin bow sliding over the strings of a violin.


Bingo!!!
 salty_blumist
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Posted: 10/27/2014 7:12:47 PM
Does this mean he wasn't wearing a rubber? Lol, I can't recall ever having felt anything like that even though I've been told I go very deep lol. In fact once a chick nearly jumped right off my Mr happy and through the wall when she said after that I had reached her cervix. She asked me afterwards "can't you feel that"? I said back "feel what"? And that's when she said I hit her cervix.
 no_1_bby
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Posted: 10/28/2014 11:13:33 AM

Bingo!!!

Lol.. so while I'm laughing at this, I just need to say that every woman will feel things differently. The mechanics are the same though, what the woman feels can vary soooooo much and I do not want any woman who does not feel the same things I do to feel like they are somehow not normal/broken/something is wrong with them. Nope. Nothing wrong with you.


Does this mean he wasn't wearing a rubber? Lol, I can't recall ever having felt anything like that even though I've been told I go very deep lol. In fact once a chick nearly jumped right off my Mr happy and through the wall when she said after that I had reached her cervix. She asked me afterwards "can't you feel that"? I said back "feel what"? And that's when she said I hit her cervix.

I do not use condoms with my current partner, who is about average in length, so him hitting my cervix is a very rare occurrence. The partner that hit my ovary was well above average in length, and we probably were using condoms at that time, I'm not sure he felt it but I certainly did!
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