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 ArticLife
Joined: 2/25/2010
Msg: 1
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I've been on this site for a few years, though not to any serious extent. A relationship is something I want right now, but it's not critical, so I haven't tried "too" hard. Now that said, I did make a few changes to my profile because of my recent conversations fizzling out, which seems somewhat new (to this extent).

I've had a few dates from this site in the years I've been here. Nothing stuck. I never particularly had trouble in receiving messages back after I initiate, but lately it seems that they die off after a couple back and forths. I was wondering mainly if it could be something to do with my profile? Even if you aren't certain about the conversation bit, do let me know if there's any improvements I could make.

Thanks.
 Mark_It_Up
Joined: 3/15/2011
Msg: 2
Been around a while, made some changes.
Posted: 10/31/2014 2:12:54 AM
If you're getting replies then your profile is working fine. You just need to close the deal a bit better. After a few backs and forths, ask for a phone number, give her a call and ask to meet.
 ArticLife
Joined: 2/25/2010
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Been around a while, made some changes.
Posted: 10/31/2014 10:32:16 AM
Honestly it's a bit complicated on that. I feel it's almost rude not to mention it, since most women have normal libidos, right? It's not really something I think I should spring further in. But I don't know. It's rather hard to navigate around well. That is something I just added to my profile... so many that is the issue?

Still, if that is the problem, I'm not sure I'd remove it. It's a matter of manners imo.

It doesn't mean I can't ever have sex though, it's just not a common thought for me. But I do try to explain this as best I can.
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