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 Jerald32
Joined: 10/19/2013
Msg: 1
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After alot of weekly conversations seems plans aremail made and discussed but nobody is really serious when it comes to the weekend, plans change or there still shopping for the same kinda guy that hurt them I'm done.
 Che216
Joined: 12/24/2014
Msg: 2
tired of the game
Posted: 1/27/2015 7:40:50 PM
I can relate. Internet dating is so random. You don't know who you're really going to meet, because a profile doesn't reveal a lot. I get disappointed after dating someone I met on here or from another dating site and it doesn't work out, and I have vowed to stop doing it before. However, it usually only takes about a week to completely forget about the last person I was dating and move on. I usually go on about 3-6 dates with each person, but in the end they are still strangers. So don't let it get to you. Just try and live in the moment and don't expect anything. After a while it starts bothering you less and less. At least from my perspective. Finding lasting relationships isn't easy. Everyone deals with this stuff. At least I had fun on those dates.
 GreenThumbz18
Joined: 4/25/2012
Msg: 3
tired of the game
Posted: 1/27/2015 10:08:43 PM
"At least I had fun on those dates."
This is the most important thing you can possibly learn about dating. The smartest approach to dating is this: You go on that date to enjoy yourself, if the woman doesn't show up or doesn't like you, that's HER problem. You have fun anyway.
You can go to a place where there's music and dancing, and there's always plenty of women to dance with. Your date doesn't show? Oh, well, shame on her, but the music still plays, doesn't it?
Gerald, you should have more photos. Good clear ones that show you off in different clothes, different settings.
Good luck.
 SHS24
Joined: 7/9/2014
Msg: 4
tired of the game
Posted: 1/28/2015 3:55:53 AM

Perhaps they gave you very simple directions that you were nevertheless incapable of following.


Perhaps you shall not assume things.
 CuriousInDB
Joined: 7/12/2014
Msg: 5
tired of the game
Posted: 1/28/2015 6:14:45 AM
Hi, Gerald. (Spelled your name two different ways, I see.)

This is profile review. People are hesitant to take their time to help with your profile if you're jumping ship here. If you want to complain about women, there are other threads for that.

Are you staying or leaving POF?

Either way, good luck. I hope you stay.
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