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 belezura
Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 1
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Is there many guys who cant cum inside a woman??? My last b/f couldnt cum inside me and I always had to finish the job with my hands...Once in a while would be ok...But all the time,,,I got sick about it,,,,but he wouldnt talk to me saying I was trying to press him....Is there many guys like that???
 couchboy
Joined: 2/17/2005
Msg: 2
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Posted: 8/8/2005 3:42:20 PM
Not a problem for me, in most cases I have to fight to keep from NOT cumming in her! II love to cum inside, but sometimes it just can't happen!
 shandogy
Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 3
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Posted: 8/8/2005 3:42:25 PM
havnt heard that one yet were you using protection.condoms sometimes make it diffacult but that just means longer periods of sex.good thing for me im an athlete stamina aint an issue.maybe he had intamacy issues he was imbarassed to talk about?well at least hes your ex and you dont have to worry about that any more
 gitarman94520
Joined: 7/31/2005
Msg: 4
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Posted: 8/8/2005 3:42:39 PM
Did you try different positions, Bele? Perhaps all he needed was a little more time inside you. It's never happened to me and I've never heard of that kind of physical problem.

Keep on Rockin'!

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 Chatpilot
Joined: 9/5/2004
Msg: 5
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Posted: 8/8/2005 3:44:00 PM
You know, when I was a teenager I had that problem. I dont know if it was that I was subconsciously afraid of getting her pregnant or what... but I just couldnt.

All the way through college, the only way I could get off was with a hand-job.

Wish I could give you any suggestions, but I think you'll just have to let him work it out in his own mind.
 girlnextdoor4you
Joined: 9/4/2004
Msg: 6
Cant cum inside...
Posted: 8/8/2005 3:48:49 PM
I've had this happen... from fear of pregnancy and fear of intimacy.. the guy was just so uptight and couldn't relax enough.

He couldn't cum inside me or from a blow job... because inside he was fearful of pregnancy, even with condoms and me being on the pill because you 'just never know'... and not from a blow job because he thought it disrespectful to cum in a woman's mouth (there was also this past traumatic experience with an ex he had).
 belezura
Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 7
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Posted: 8/8/2005 3:49:50 PM
condoms....We wouldnt not even go there....He couldnt do with condoms...would take all the sensibility....I thought it was a lot more comum that what it shows in this forum....
 shandogy
Joined: 6/27/2005
Msg: 8
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Posted: 8/8/2005 3:57:48 PM
maybe he has a problem with sensitivity if he cant do it with a condom on.sometimes it does cut off the feeling when there to tight but get him a bigger brand magnums work well when thats a problem, also less chance of breakage.
 hot_monkey_sex
Joined: 8/4/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 8/8/2005 4:19:54 PM
i hate the feeling of cum in my pu$$Y.......now cum in my a$$....
 countryboy27A695
Joined: 5/10/2005
Msg: 10
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Posted: 8/8/2005 5:56:11 PM
Well, I can say, that no matter what the first one is the fast one, and it comes quick, but, the second one, don't know about that. It seems like I loose all sensitivity after the first one, and it could turn into an all nighter. Never have had a problem there though, in fact, have a hard time not doing that! I have great self control, but thank god for protection!!
 sum1reel
Joined: 6/5/2005
Msg: 11
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Posted: 8/8/2005 8:51:29 PM
@bel

heard it gets kinda chilly up there in albany.........you know, sometimes the pipelines freeze up!....you might wanna take the train down to NYC once in a while.......that won't happen this far south........i'll guarantee you that!
 redemption25
Joined: 12/22/2004
Msg: 12
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Posted: 8/8/2005 9:24:09 PM
I wouldn't feel totally secure about doing it inside either nowadays..shit happens lol..especially unprotected....doesn't mean I can't but.....would also love to give a beauty ass filling someday too lol...(ladies only)
 fishbill
Joined: 3/19/2005
Msg: 13
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Posted: 8/9/2005 12:50:44 AM
I am 45 and lately have found it difficult to cum inside my new GF. Maybe I'm getting old, maybe masturbated to too much porn over the past 30 years.....When I visit her a couple nites a week I make sure she gets off until she has to go to work in the morning, then, I use my hand.
 waitrya
Joined: 5/13/2005
Msg: 14
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Posted: 8/9/2005 1:02:36 AM
I defintely think its because of being too nervous and not relaxed. Happened to be because of it but think i've become more confident thus much more relaxed so no probs anymore
 Bailey Rayne
Joined: 6/29/2005
Msg: 15
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Posted: 8/9/2005 1:33:47 AM

i hate the feeling of cum in my pu$$Y.......now cum in my a$$....




^^^^^^ and Ya'll say Im bad...........
 RDHIII
Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 16
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Posted: 8/9/2005 2:01:23 AM
never had that problem

@ Bailey never thought you were bad just the opposite LMAO
 belezura
Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 17
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Posted: 8/9/2005 5:02:37 AM
What does LMAO means???
 CMeStandingHere
Joined: 8/5/2004
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Posted: 8/9/2005 5:20:04 AM
What the hell was his problem. See I have a good reason why I can't. Seems like everytime I do it 9 months later I have a little one running around calling me dad and F^#k that
 jamesxxx71
Joined: 4/6/2005
Msg: 19
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Posted: 8/9/2005 5:58:54 AM
I like hot sex monkey and saucey's response.... miammmmm
 belezura
Joined: 7/9/2005
Msg: 20
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Posted: 8/9/2005 6:06:58 PM
He would have problem in using protection too....
 Noirobsidian
Joined: 4/25/2004
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Posted: 8/9/2005 6:33:27 PM
LMAO = Laughing My Ass Off

ROFLMAO = Rolling on the Floor Laughing My Ass Off


As for not cumming inside, it was probably the lack of sensation due to the condom, or fear of getting the woman pregnant (especially if he was going raw).

Depending on the situation, if he drinks before having sex, or depending on what drugs one is on, it can impair the ability to cum as well.
 brawny33810
Joined: 2/20/2005
Msg: 22
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Posted: 8/9/2005 7:00:39 PM
He just likes getting jacked off. Try doing it with him in your mouth. That's known as a blowjob.
 bigcats
Joined: 5/31/2005
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Posted: 8/9/2005 7:51:48 PM
Well, I can TOTALLY relate. I have this exact problem. I have tried dif positions, dif women, and other things. Masturbation is the only way to release and it is VERY unfulfilling. I REALLY do enjoy women and because of my issue, I concentrate totally on fulfilling my partners needs. This is why I really enjoy providing oral satisfaction. When given oral stimulation still does not for me. Honesly, I am in counseling for this and not getting anywhere. Hopefully over time this will be fixed for me, though I have coped with it for MANY years now.
 yourbrowneyedgirl?
Joined: 7/3/2005
Msg: 24
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Posted: 8/9/2005 9:10:46 PM
i hate the feeling of cum in my pu$$Y.......now cum in my a$$....


I love the feeling of cum ANYWHERE my man wants to put it - especially love it in my a$$. I have had a complete hysterectomy so no fear of getting pregnant for me.

sorry u and ur b/f have the problem of not being able to be completely satisfied from the feeling.
 mattboy05
Joined: 6/1/2005
Msg: 25
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Posted: 8/10/2005 10:19:26 AM
Who cares if he cums in your pusy or not? Just be glad he gets off at all.
If it's so important to you then tell him that you won't jerk him off. He'll get pent up enough to eventually cum inside you.
If he can't cum inside you let me know. I'll see if I can!
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