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 grinsiro
Joined: 12/12/2015
Msg: 1
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That's the type of women that leeches on these forums waiting for any posts by men who tells the truth or disagree with certain views about how women conduct themselves, that keeps crying like little ****es because we keep hitting a nerve.

Cencorship is a great tool to help them remove painful memories of what they've been through, their own doing. I knew that was always the case and why some of my posts gets deleted but yesterday, one of them took the cake, lol. This woman who replied to my posts and wished me dead could have served as the perfect poster board to what an Old, Angry, Bitter and Damaged Goods woman on here looks like. hopefully she replies to this posts so i can point her out. It was too funny. The woman seriously looked like she's been ran over quite a few times, angry, bitter, left on the side of the road like roadkill and this is how she revenges her hurt. Quick advice for ya, whatever shit you have with men, you brought it onto yourself. Don't take it out on me. I didn't tell you to go sleep around and be a slut your life away.

Let men be men and discuss our topics, i don't need you to come chime in your negativity. I see plenty of men bashing posts on here and the leeches all chime in with glee, rave and joy. But when a man has an opinion on here, here comes the rats like a filthy piece of cheese was dropped in the sewer for them all to come take a bite on. Its scary.
 kj521
Joined: 9/20/2015
Msg: 2
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Posted: 12/21/2015 9:11:05 AM
Hold up Mr. Grinsiro. I may be old but I am certainly not any of the other three. :)


Just an fyi....when you come out on the offensive...it automatically puts people in a defensive mode. It just does.

So the only thing you accomplish is a venting which will remain on this forum for about 5 minutes.

I won't vote to delete your thread because I prefer to look beyond the anger to the issue but others will.
 HalftimeDad
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 3
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Posted: 12/21/2015 9:13:42 AM
Just to put this in perspective:

You name your thread, "Old, Angry, Bitter and Damaged Goods", then go off on people who chime in with negativity.

You demand the right to say anything you want, yet seem to want to prevent anyone from disagreeing with you.

I'm not sure you get how this thing called "discussion" works.
 Lasthookbringsme
Joined: 11/8/2015
Msg: 4
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Posted: 12/21/2015 9:21:52 AM

That's the type of women that leeches on these forums waiting for any posts by men who tells the truth or disagree with certain views about how women conduct themselves, that keeps crying like little ****es because we keep hitting a nerve.


That's rich, coming from a whiny cheapskate who wants a free hooker.
 2ufo
Joined: 2/28/2015
Msg: 5
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Posted: 12/21/2015 9:28:56 AM
Why do men like you call their rants opinions and worthy of posting, but a woman's opinion is considered a rant and worthy only of name-calling?
 chameleonf
Joined: 12/22/2008
Msg: 6
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Posted: 12/21/2015 9:32:45 AM
I think one word will kind of sum the OP up...pissant!
 grinsiro
Joined: 12/12/2015
Msg: 7
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Posted: 12/21/2015 9:33:06 AM
"Lasthookbringsme"

what a profile name uh. This gold digging trick is everything i talk about. She's on here leeching on men to buy her dinner date, knowing thats her practice in life, running men for their hard earned money with nothing else to give in return but leading them on. And don't think for a second, this Fraud is not using her sex card to get what she wants, she knows it but admitting, of course, is never a reality. So you keep coming up with the same replies, that i want a free hooker. That alone tells you who she is, she is just professing her true habits, maybe you're the hooker, after all, your profile name says, "Hook" brings me in, right.


You Fraud
 patchjoker13
Joined: 8/24/2014
Msg: 8
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Posted: 12/21/2015 9:42:06 AM
I may not agree with the OPs approach but a lot of what he is saying is true. My biggest problem is the hypocrisy.

Awhile back on a different thread a female posted a story about her boyfriend being a D-bag and said he does not take her out, wants her to cook dinner for him while he lays on her couch, and does not walk beside her in public....

A certain female who posts a lot on these forums response post was- " The problem is that you are dating a *typical American man apparently*, someone who wows you in the beginning, then becomes your friend. He was only interested in getting you, and once he got you, all the charm melted away, all he wants to do is "hang out" while you do most of everything on top of "keeping" his d*ck from acquiring blue balls."

The funny thing was,...the couple was not even from the USA....but that is another story. This person stood by her statement as just being about preferences and not about unfairly judging all American men. Now if I would have made a statement about all American women being worthless, people on here would verbally beat me down...right? Well, many female and white knight male posters supported her statements. That my friends tells it all. There is an ongoing theme on here that men can never be at a disadvantage and women are never at fault.
 HalftimeDad
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 9
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Posted: 12/21/2015 9:44:28 AM
Wow. The "Old, Angry , Bitter and Damaged Goods" moniker has seldom seemed so appropriate.

You do get that the site is called Plenty of Fish right? You are going to find names and headlines that play on the whole fishing theme from time to time.

Maybe you shouldn't date for a while. Or interact with human beings. You've got some issues dude.

edit: Sorry, this was directed at the last post of the OP.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 10
Old, Angry, Bitter and Damaged Goods buy one get one free
Posted: 12/21/2015 9:45:04 AM
ah, but what type of fellow keeps feeding the quarters into a casino slot machine that never pays off? Is it a fool looking for that payoff, too blinded to see he's being used? Take such a woman out on a cheap date, where conversation rules the day, where you get only her company to make the date fun. Golddiggers likely know they can't make that boat float. Of course, such a date might not allow us guys to be seen with such eyecandy. so maybe we don't want such a date, either.

in other words, we might be trying to get something out of it, too. maybe we are birds of a feather, dating to get something rather than dating to enjoy someone's company.

A great dating tool, is to let the other person talk. If they spout such platitudes as "The typical American man" being some stereotype, she's letting me know she's not a great match for me. just like taking a salesman to lunch and finding out his product sucks, its a little money spent up front to learn to avoid a lot of trouble later.
 lazurm
Joined: 4/26/2015
Msg: 11
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Posted: 12/21/2015 9:46:36 AM
How do you explain the many healthy, growth filled relationships I've personally witnessed in my life? Note, too, that both parties to the relationship gave and took from it and found it a great bargain? :)
 grinsiro
Joined: 12/12/2015
Msg: 12
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Posted: 12/21/2015 9:51:59 AM
DESERVES A REPOST FOR THE OLD ANGRY BITTER AND DAMAGED GOOD LEECHES TO SEE.

AND TO ALL YOU GIRLIE MEN WHO TAKES SIDES WITH THESE WOMEN THAT BASHES AND BELITTLES YOU, F-YOU. PLEASE FORWARD ME YOUR ADDRESS SO I CAN SEND YOU A BOX ON TAMPAX, ON ME.

I may not agree with the OPs approach but a lot of what he is saying is true. My biggest problem is the hypocrisy.

Awhile back on a different thread a female posted a story about her boyfriend being a D-bag and said he does not take her out, wants her to cook dinner for him while he lays on her couch, and does not walk beside her in public....

A certain female who posts a lot on these forums response post was- " The problem is that you are dating a *typical American man apparently*, someone who wows you in the beginning, then becomes your friend. He was only interested in getting you, and once he got you, all the charm melted away, all he wants to do is "hang out" while you do most of everything on top of "keeping" his d*ck from acquiring blue balls."

The funny thing was,...the couple was not even from the USA....but that is another story. This person stood by her statement as just being about preferences and not about unfairly judging all American men. Now if I would have made a statement about all American women being worthless, people on here would verbally beat me down...right? Well, many female and white knight male posters supported her statements. That my friends tells it all. There is an ongoing theme on here that men can never be at a disadvantage and women are never at fault.
 2ufo
Joined: 2/28/2015
Msg: 13
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Posted: 12/21/2015 9:59:03 AM
So, someone complains about her boyfriend...
Another woman says this is typical American male behavior...

And you take offense?

Are you the boyfriend?
Is this your behavior?
How does this woman's opinion on another person's post in a totally different thread affect you?
I just don't get it.

The funny thing is, using your posts here on this thread as evidence, you don't seem to have any charm to melt away.
 hemingway234
Joined: 6/6/2015
Msg: 14
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Posted: 12/21/2015 10:01:21 AM
It is true that there are plenty of singles who have excess emotional baggage, and others with poor attitudes...... there are plenty who are not exactly the catch of the day or the pick of the litter. It's important to point this out.
 Sweetness_and_Light
Joined: 11/10/2015
Msg: 15
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Posted: 12/21/2015 10:02:39 AM
This is completely the wrong venue for your ugly rants, grinsiro.

There are numerous threads on reddit where this kind of bashing and rhetoric are welcome. How about you stop coming here and busting OUR chops like we are the ones who have been delivering your experiences to you? We are, mostly all of us here, just trying to love and be loved, just as you. But we aren't railing and insulting other forum posters because we have not found what we want yet, for whatever reason.

Methinks you are just getting back what you give out. And Dad is right, you have no sense of forum etiquette and give and take.

Go away.
 Lasthookbringsme
Joined: 11/8/2015
Msg: 16
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Posted: 12/21/2015 10:11:50 AM
I don't expect you to understand it in its original context. It's not like you actually read anything literary.

As far as your disgusting rants are concerned, you should be ashamed of yourself. You deserve every ounce of acrimony hurled your way for the shit you post.
 grinsiro
Joined: 12/12/2015
Msg: 17
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Posted: 12/21/2015 10:27:11 AM
Lasthookbringsme on 12/21/2015 150 PM
Subject: Old, Angry, Bitter and Damaged Goods
Message: I don't expect you to understand it in its original context. It's not like you actually read anything literary.

As far as your disgusting rants are concerned, you should be ashamed of yourself. You deserve every ounce of acrimony hurled your way for the shit you post.
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I don't need to understand your stupidity

you sit there waiting on every post people post, like a loser with nothing better to do and come in to throw your insults with your filthy hate fill rants.

I wasn't talking to you, did i call your name out. you are so stupid, you fall into this thread and look every bit the piece of crap that i described that you have actually become the poster board ugly broad that i described, seriously.

I mean look at you, let's see your posts, what have you contributed on these forums here besides sit on your ass and browse through and wait to see what a guy posts and if it hit a nerve on your life, you come bargain in, uninvited and let them know how you feel. NO ONE GIVES A SHIT ABOUT YOUR LIFE WOMAN. YOU ARE ONE OF MANY EXAMPLES OF WHY WOMEN ARE LOOKED DOWN UPON IN TODAY'S SOCIETY. You're freakin 45 years of age or so, had you had a decent husband or man to keep you busy at home, you wouldn't be on the freakin internet letting out your bitterness, angry feelings to young people. Go woman, go take a shower, i seriously don't think you've gotten off your fat, bloated puss and wash yourself besides sitting on the internet gazing at the forum. let us know about a thread that you started and o'll return the favor
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 18
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Posted: 12/21/2015 10:31:28 AM
A Holly Jolly Christmas

Have a holly, jolly Christmas;
It's the best time of the year
I don't know if there'll be snow
but have a cup of cheer
Have a holly, jolly Christmas;
And when you walk down the street
Say Hello to friends you know
and everyone you meet

Oh ho
the mistletoe
hung where you can see;
Somebody waits for you;
Kiss her once for me
Have a holly jolly Christmas
and in case you didn't hear
Oh by golly
have a holly
jolly Christmas this year
 Sweetness_and_Light
Joined: 11/10/2015
Msg: 19
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Posted: 12/21/2015 10:39:59 AM
Oh dear, I missed all the signs.

After reading the nasty piece of work directed at lasthook, and seeing as how the OP has vanished, I think he was a reincarnation of one of the various troublemakers run amok in here. Should have run a google search on his pic. And he had a recent join date, which I know in and of itself means nothing. But he did not know how to quote properly.....

Live and learn.

Tks for the good cheer BChuck! I love Burl Ives' jolly voice this time of year. It's on all the Christmas stations.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 20
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Posted: 12/21/2015 10:42:57 AM
^^^^ Yeah, Burl Ives always reminds of xmas as a child....sigh....ah, the good ol' days.....xmas in the early 70s - when it still snowed even !
 rennips1949
Joined: 3/6/2015
Msg: 21
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Posted: 12/21/2015 11:07:26 AM
It seems we have a few desperate people with no other outlet except to whip up batches of profiles on PoF, with which to dog the forums. One profile gets nuked, just use another one from the batch.
Could be a near-homeless person in possession of a smart phone, nursing a cup of coffee in various free WiFi locations, so as to avoid being identified by a static IP address.

Recently I've been asking single female friends of my age group what they think about trying some of the new dting sites that are advertising on TV so much(think Our Time and Farmers Only).
The largest portion of this group wouldn't touch online dating with a rented 10 foot pole. Too afraid of meeting scammers, cheaters exploiters, abusers,men seeking vengence on women,etc. (And apparently that would be the cream of the crop!)

I begin to wonder if the online dating industry has truly reached the state of normalcy and mainstream acceptance
that it tries to represent.
 carolann0308
Joined: 12/9/2006
Msg: 22
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Posted: 12/21/2015 11:13:28 AM
Too bad the OP is gone, what a catch he must be.
 HalftimeDad
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 23
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Posted: 12/21/2015 11:30:27 AM
I'm pissed that he's gone.

I love reading the hypocritical rants of these guys. They just show such a lack of self awareness that they're hilarious.
 Michejay
Joined: 11/11/2015
Msg: 24
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Posted: 12/21/2015 11:32:02 AM
I do find that old and angry should ignore the women who are annoying. Why waste time. I myself have met a number of women who I have messaged and found to be rude and nothing like what they write on their profiles which kind of surprised me as they are aged between 44 and 52. It seems age has not taught them manners. What I believe is that most of the women on this site are not only abusive and uneducated but don't seem to want to put any effort in conversation maybe its the nature of online dating sites. I have never met so many women who are totally unrealistic in what they are looking for. But back to my point don't get offended or angry just move on. Its so easy to insult and be insulted in the comfort of your home which just goes to show why so many are single. I have a rule if someone is looking to meet after a few messages then she's only looking for a freebie. I prefer to message for an average of two weeks where I can better gauge her personality. I hope that one day I will meet someone to love again but refuse to be rushed by anyone. Good luck all and keep 😊
 Chromis1
Joined: 9/9/2015
Msg: 25
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Posted: 12/21/2015 11:33:32 AM

I begin to wonder if the online dating industry has truly reached the state of normalcy and mainstream acceptance
that it tries to represent.


I don't believe it has. Most of the folks I've met despise OLD, more or less, but for a variety of reasons, most of which just come with the territory and some of which shouldn't.
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