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 AventuraExotica
Joined: 7/30/2015
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I'm just curious as to how many men would actually consider dating a woman who is pregnant. Someone who may be single or is in process of ending a relationship. Remember she wants to date a man and not wanting or looking for a father for the baby. I ask because I am currently in this situation. 6 years ago with my pregnancy I dated at that time and everything actually went pretty well. What would you do?
 Canandaigua_Momma
Joined: 12/16/2015
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 1/2/2016 12:08:35 AM
Simply utilize the same technique with your current pregnancy as you did six years ago with your earlier pregnancy.
 HereComesYourSun
Joined: 9/7/2015
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 1/2/2016 11:41:07 PM
Can I ask, why are you not looking for a father for the baby? Not that you SHOULD be, but
I mean, do you really want someone temporary?
You may. I'm just wondering. Cause, if it were me, and it isn't, I'd be SO done with temporary. With 2 kids and no dad around. I'd be so done with temporary. Maybe you should expect more? Look for more?

I also wonder, if young guys really want to bite off more than they can chew.
In my terribly humble opinion, I think you should find a nice guy at your church. Forget this POF place. It's not a good arena to be looking for someone to bring into your home.

In any regard, I hope you find ever-lasting happiness.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 1/3/2016 2:02:30 AM
Absolutely no way no how would I even consider dating a woman who is pregnant. I get that people have sex, but I don't need an obvious reminder that she may have had unprotected sex with somebody else recently.

Baby daddy drama is a strong possibility here. No thanks!

OP...how come these guys don't stick around after knocking you up? I'm puzzled...
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 12/24/2015
Msg: 5
Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 1/3/2016 12:08:19 PM
I had a suspicion, so I googled it. Here's what Wikipedia had to say:

Pregnancy fetishism (also known as maiesiophilia or maieusophoria[1]) is a context where pregnancy is seen by individuals or cultures as an erotic phenomenon.[2] It may involve sexual attraction to women who are pregnant or appear pregnant, attraction to lactation, or attraction to particular stages of pregnancy such as impregnation or childbirth.[3]

There are no particular or preferred elements within maiesiophilia that are common to all maiesiophiliacs. Some may pursue fantasies that are concerned with the circumstances in which a subject may give birth, or to the conditions to which the pregnant subject may find themselves acting upon, such as approaches to mobility, sleeping, and dressing. Particular areas and processes of the body that change during pregnancy may also become the focus of psychological investment, but nudity or sexual activity is not always essential, and in some cases actual pregnancy is not necessary to invoke arousal. In these cases, the appearance of an enlarged abdomen caused by obesity or overeating may be sufficient, or simply the suggestion of a protruding navel.
 caballerosiempre
Joined: 12/5/2015
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 1/4/2016 11:52:26 AM
BTW OP's profiles says she is " not single/not looking"//WTF ?
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 1/5/2016 9:24:16 AM
^^^I guess the baby daddy showed up.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 1/5/2016 9:27:32 AM
I ONLY date pregnant women because I'm DYING to be burdened with a child that isn't mine for the rest of my life !
 bamagrl68
Joined: 11/14/2010
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 1/5/2016 4:46:07 PM
Aventuraexotica- I got pregnant, unwed, at 18 and had my son at 19.
So, I am struggling with my feelings about this thread.
I know it happens, obviously, and anyone can make a mistake, once.
This is the second time this has happened to you, so I'm just going to go ahead and say it...........
I'm thinking you have some maturity/responsibility issues that you need to address before anything else, that and to become familiar with the concept of birth control.
 NBATipoff2015
Joined: 10/30/2015
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 1/21/2016 11:58:43 PM
I would not go out of my way to date one. But I could always develop feelings for one and if I do, than I would make an exception. You might attract even more undesirables because of the "cant get pregnant twice" mentality.
 want to travel
Joined: 7/29/2006
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 1/22/2016 1:59:27 AM
I would not have a problem with it,....and what on earth is wrong with a woman,that gets pregnant,and wants a father for her baby?being a single mom,has to be one of the hardest things a woman would have to do in life
 revoskeepnus
Joined: 8/4/2015
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 2/2/2016 6:28:41 PM
i had a lesbo dream about breastfeeding last night........

glad i'm not really pregnant, even though it was pretty freaking hawt.
 coffeetogo127
Joined: 5/16/2015
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 2/2/2016 6:55:33 PM
When I was pregnant ( and married, AND wore my ring) men were actually following me home- one guy followed me all the way to my apartment door where I then rang the bell and waited till my husband opened it. He let me in, shook the guys hand and closed the door without batting an eye.

I have never apparently been more attractive!
 PennyAnte
Joined: 11/9/2014
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 2/4/2016 8:07:52 AM
Meh. I would say it was not the best timing to bring a man into your world. Focus on the baby and what you need to take care of him or her. You don't need romance right now and if you are craving a man that should go away soon after that baby rips up your insides and shreds up your vag being born.
 Peter_Hungus
Joined: 11/3/2012
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 2/9/2016 4:45:59 PM

I think you should find a nice guy at your church.


She is 31, has one fatherless child, one on the way and still interested in men's ding-a-lings.

I don't know what church or Zeus can do to help.
 BizzaroLand
Joined: 8/18/2015
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 2/14/2016 5:12:07 PM
I would date someone prego. I actually have before. The circumstances were a bit different, she was carrying the baby for another mother.
But, however, if I fell in love with the girl, and didn't mind taking on the responsibility as, at least, a father figure, then I see no issue at all.
Prego girls need love too!
I have kids, been divorced 5yrs, kids live with me. If I met the right woman and she happened to be prego, I would def date her!
If she seems like a good person and mom to be, or if she has kids already and you like her mommy skills, I'd totally be willing for my family to grow. A big family is a blessing, that includes a "blended family". And if you find a guy who's willing, go for it!!
 caballerosiempre
Joined: 12/5/2015
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 2/14/2016 5:47:43 PM
They also have bigger boobs with no need to stuff a bra..

^^^

Rather than say something kissass just because you'd like to tap sumthin'...anythin'.?

VVVV..
 BizzaroLand
Joined: 8/18/2015
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 2/14/2016 5:56:42 PM
Great Point!! Well done, sir!
I was going for sincere and heartfelt...but, you...you really just made everything that I said, look like a heaping pile of Clown Dung compared to your much superior, profound statement...and in so few words, too.
Brilliant! Genius!
I bow down to you, sir.
 caballerosiempre
Joined: 12/5/2015
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 2/15/2016 8:02:16 AM
Dude even with your suck-up post here, people can still see your other childish rant about bras..
 BizzaroLand
Joined: 8/18/2015
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 2/15/2016 8:53:38 PM
You and "Buffet Lady" must be the ones that follow a poster around the forum just to bash him or her at every turn.
So what if we had a spat in another thread...doesn't it seem a bit childish to just follow me around and have something to say about my every post, even if it has nothing to do with what was going on in the other thread?
Is this how this forum is? Are you and hungry hippo a team...the "Forum Fools"?
Get over it man...let it go...count to 10...grow up...take a nap...get a girlfriend...you beat off way too much.
 Donny_1975
Joined: 10/3/2014
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 2/24/2016 7:41:29 AM
sounds like a legit question, why the need for childish bickering? ANYWAY, I am a single father of 3 and I would love to have 3 more but it's not like I can do that myself, so yes I would date a pregnant woman. it's not like you dated for a time and decided to make a baby, you know she's pregnant to start with and even if it's not my kid I can still be a positive roll model and I happen to love babies and I think I'm a pretty good dad even if I am tooting my own horn. If at some point the relationship turns into something more and marriage is a possibility then the baby already thinks of him as dad. On the other hand after a long relationship and it goes south it could feel as if your trapped because he's the only dad the baby has ever known. in the end I think you should seek a man who want to be with you because of the person you are and he will accept the responsibility of a blended family as a faithful friend and partner.
For those of you who would say I'm "sucking up" I say this goes for anyone wishing to blend 2 families together!
 _DamselFish_
Joined: 4/20/2014
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 2/24/2016 9:51:56 AM
{I would love to have 3 more}

Yes because the world needs more gluttonous consumers littering the planet and having screaming fits in the malls. Lol.

Seriously, this is exactly why people should need a license to breed. Or a limit.

I bet if the Government was to take away all the child benefits people would think twice before having kids let alone a litter of them. But hey I look at these over breeders and can't help feeling a bit of smug satisfaction that I'm not the one dealing with entitled brats that will suck you dry and good luck putting them all through college. No thanks!!

I know a blended family of 6 kids and they can barely pay any of their bills, depend on the tax payer's money and have nothing much going for them. Not a wise lifestyle choice.

Why would a man with dating options want the burden of someone else's child?
Heck he might not want the burden of a child at all.

Might sound harsh but it's the truth. Some life choices are just better than others =)
 Asereco
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 2/24/2016 12:22:39 PM

{I would love to have 3 more}
Yes because the world needs more gluttonous consumers littering the planet and having screaming fits in the malls. Lol.
Seriously, this is exactly why people should need a license to breed. Or a limit.
I bet if the Government was to take away all the child benefits people would think twice before having kids let alone a litter of them.


I wouldn’t be so sure about that. It is precisely in poor countries without any child benefit where people breed the most. For them breeding may be a matter of survival. The more they breed, the more chances they have to survive as a family. Mortality rates in infants are high and life expectancy in some countries is low (compare to rich countries).

A license to breed might seem a good a idea but look, people have driver’s licence and still act irresponsibly by texting while driving or driving under the influence.

People have licence to carry weapons, guns, firearms and still act irresponsibly. What exactly makes you think people who, in your opinion, shouldn’t breed wouldn’t still breed irresponsibly?

Still wanna bet?

A limit to breed may seem more rational. Many people think the planet is overpopulated, however, enough food and material goods are produced to satisfy the needs of 10 billion people. The Earth’s population is around 7 billion so we can still accommodate about 3 billion newborns. The problem is that material goods are inequitably distributed and billions of people have little to no access to food and drinking water. The top 1% is richer than the bottom 50%.

People still strive to survive and breed. Mother Nature’s call.

YOLO: You only live once

Back to the question, I wouldn’t date a pregnant woman. I woud avoid her as if she had ebola (or zika virus)
 _DamselFish_
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 2/24/2016 12:42:54 PM
{It is precisely in poor countries without any child benefit where people breed the most}
Because they cannot afford birth control. Their children are suffering.

{The more they breed, the more chances they have to survive as a family}
Well in America and Canada families that breed more than they can afford struggle.
This is where the tax payer's money/ child benefits comes into play.

{A license to breed might seem a good a idea but look, people have driver’s licence and still act irresponsibly by texting while driving or driving under the influence}
I didn't mean it literally. But hey, if needing a license did exist it sure would slow down the breeders somewhat hah hah.

{Many people think the planet is overpopulated}
Fact that it is. I am so glad that these days less and less people are wanting to breed or feeling the need to breed.
The world can do without their dna being spread al over the map and they realize this.

Too many countries are struggling to support the homeless, sick or elderly and all these families that are living off the system or even just benefiting from it are part of the reason why. They're a drain.

Anyways that's what it is. The more intelligent people I know have chosen to not have children or to only have one or two tops. It seems that the more kids a person has the less intelligent they become. I have an acquaintance that has 4 kids and she'd be the first to admit this as being true.


Cheers =)
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
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Men, would you date a woman who is pregnant? Why or why not?
Posted: 2/24/2016 12:49:38 PM
^^^^^^ I believe the main reason people in poor countries breed so often is due to RELIGION and birth control being a SIN, yadda yadda
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