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 HalftimeDad
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 2
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I'd recommend looking for a polyamorous interested woman. She could sleep around and you'd both get what you need.
 AlphaCuck
Joined: 5/20/2015
Msg: 3
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Posted: 3/16/2016 7:37:40 AM
Cuckolding and poly-amorous aren't necessarily the same thing...common mistake among the vanilla folk.

Poly-amorous means you LOVE multiple people.

Cuckolding us USUALLY between a couple in love and extra men for the female in which it is just sexual, not love.

It's actually gaining popularity or at least coming out of the shadows more and more...it is also called the intellectuals kink.
 HalftimeDad
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 4
So I have a Question Cuckolding Do woman like it??
Posted: 3/16/2016 8:20:28 AM
Read my post again buddy.

Obviously the OP is more likely to find a woman who likes to have sex with more than one partner than one who is motivated to do that in order to humiliate her partner. And I'm not passing judgement, but come on. It's a kink. It's not the equivalent of a thesis on Being and Nothingness.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 5
So I have a Question Cuckolding Do woman like it??
Posted: 3/16/2016 8:55:47 AM
" it is also called the intellectuals kink. "




Is this suggesting only people with a high IQ could possibly be turned on by this particular kink ?
 AlphaCuck
Joined: 5/20/2015
Msg: 6
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Posted: 3/16/2016 9:09:56 AM
^^^ No but they tend to be...at least according to the researchers.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 7
So I have a Question Cuckolding Do woman like it??
Posted: 3/16/2016 9:14:07 AM
^^^^^ I suppose it makes sense that the dumber guys would have more of a caveman mentality, as in, she's MY woman, no one gets to touch her but ME ! MINE ! MINE ! MINE !
 AlphaCuck
Joined: 5/20/2015
Msg: 8
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Posted: 3/16/2016 11:04:18 AM
It's also due to the whole kink in it has more to to with the emotional rush/overload in seeing the woman you love taken by another man...and enjoying it.

Let me tell you, the first time is so overwhelming that you really do not know if you love it or hate it. It takes a strong relationship to do also. It will break a shaky relationship for sure.

Now, there are all kinds of people with different motivations, but what I'm talking about is the core of the people involved. I am not only involved but also get info from researchers and others involved on sites such as Fetlife where I actually host a group into this. Often some horny guy filled with porn fueled fantasies finds us and has all kinds of weird desires and expectations developed from the porn industry. These tend to be the ones who are looking for a woman to cuckold them so they can explore their bisexual side. They are easy to spot because of what they concentrate on...which rarely involves cultivating a true and real relationship with a woman, way before the games begin.
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 12/24/2015
Msg: 9
So I have a Question Cuckolding Do woman like it??
Posted: 3/16/2016 4:59:35 PM
"Cuckolding"... I wasn't even aware such a fetish existed until these forums. I do not think I should be allowed to play with you people.
 HalftimeDad
Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 10
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Posted: 3/16/2016 5:30:09 PM
You and I should meet in the potato salad hot tub and talk about it.

 caballerosiempre
Joined: 12/5/2015
Msg: 11
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Posted: 3/16/2016 5:31:22 PM
"Vanillas"..the new all-purpose putdown? LOL everybody's got to feel superior somehow..even those who enjoy their woman being f**ked by other guys..and look down on guys who don't want that..Einstein must have been into it, right?
 NJgirl116
Joined: 7/3/2015
Msg: 12
So I have a Question Cuckolding Do woman like it??
Posted: 3/16/2016 8:26:00 PM
Not a single woman responded... Except one who didn't know what the title meant.
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 12/24/2015
Msg: 13
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Posted: 3/16/2016 8:30:59 PM
^ Well, she knows now. And the world suddenly seems like a much better place ;)
 NJgirl116
Joined: 7/3/2015
Msg: 14
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Posted: 3/16/2016 11:03:28 PM

the dumber guys would have more of a caveman mentality, as in, she's MY woman, no one gets to touch her but ME ! MINE ! MINE ! MINE !

I like this mentality.
 IgottaName
Joined: 3/29/2014
Msg: 15
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Posted: 3/17/2016 3:46:28 AM

"Vanillas"..the new all-purpose putdown?

With all the things vanillas come up with to call kinky folk, Like sick or perverted or freak, and you think being called vanilla is a put down? It simply refers to being "plain", as in not kinky.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 3/17/2016 6:46:39 AM

So my question is very simple, do woman like cuckholding?

Yes...there are women interested in, and seeking this kind of relationship.

There are also women who are NOT interested in or seeking this kind of relationship.
 BelleAtlantic
Joined: 11/7/2012
Msg: 17
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Posted: 3/17/2016 7:08:08 AM
When I was younger I'd fantasize being watched from a distance, you know, like leaving the blinds/windows open and someone casually peeking in from across the other building, etc. But that's because that would be a stranger I'd likely never interact with.

Having my SO watch me while I f*ck someone else? nah, not my cup of tea. I've never been one to want to sleep with more than one person at a time, let alone be watched. The same way that I wouldn't want to watch him f*ck someone else, no! hell to the no!
 caballerosiempre
Joined: 12/5/2015
Msg: 18
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Posted: 3/17/2016 8:13:34 AM
"Alpha cuck" ..is sort of an oxymoron, no?

how would an alpha man, be a cuck?

or in which way would a cuck, be "alpha"?
 AlphaCuck
Joined: 5/20/2015
Msg: 19
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Posted: 3/18/2016 2:48:59 PM
^^^ I'm not going to explain it to you...you're just looking for a fight...it's obvious in your postings.

Fact remains and pretty good percentage of cuckolded men are actually very successful alpha types in the world...
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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Posted: 3/18/2016 6:21:54 PM
Personally I had a hard time understanding what the title of this thread meant.
Cuckolding is just something some people are into. Basically, this is a rule 34 question.
There are some women who get off to doing it in front of their man. It is the naughty factor I suppose.
I don't think being an alpha or beta male has anything to do with it. Indeed, it can be played to both personality types.
 no_1_bby
Joined: 5/3/2006
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Posted: 3/21/2016 3:41:11 PM


Fact remains and pretty good percentage of cuckolded men are actually very successful alpha types in the world...

That doesn't surprise me too much. There does seem to be a correlation between bosses who have lousy sexual / romantic relationships at home and being an over bearing boss at work...

While I don't doubt that, don't feed into a stereotype. Judge people based on who they are, not what group they fall into.

There are a lot of men interested in cuckolding that are strong, passionate, dedicated lovers who happen to get off on the idea of their woman being with another man...either in front of them, or without them being present. They also aren't d*ckheads at work.
 ndm147
Joined: 8/1/2013
Msg: 23
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Posted: 3/21/2016 6:11:53 PM
There are actual private clubs with membership dues in my city where couples go to find another male to watch the woman have sex with. Single men are not allowed into the clubs; they have to attend with another woman.

Thus, the male who allows his woman to have sex with another man is a cuckold. I was told by a friend who attended with a woman that the couples are professionals, who can't tarnish their reputations and are discreet. I almost attended this club with my male friend, but the idea lost luster with me after a point.
 vgotx
Joined: 8/7/2015
Msg: 24
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Posted: 6/15/2016 6:39:16 AM
I get approached by men wanting this all the time. Is a huge turnoff for me. For one thing, that makes you a submissive man, and in my opinion, a submissive man is basically a girl with a**** It just really turns me off, because men like this have very low self-esteem. They will send me a ton of messages talking about how they are unworthy, and they just want to pay for all of my things but let me have sex with whoever I want. That's just stupid to me, I don't need a middle man in my relationships.
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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Posted: 6/15/2016 7:59:39 AM
^^^^
It's not stupid, but just a kink. You would be surprised by the type of people who are into this. Are you not just being judgemental about a fetish you don't understand?
 hearton64
Joined: 6/9/2016
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Posted: 6/15/2016 12:04:41 PM
Just look for a chick who likes to cheat
and tell her you want to watch and that you're more
than fine with it.

I'd only need other guys if my main man wasn't
fulfilling my sexual needs.

I tend to enjoy being "owned" by my man
so no cuckolding isn't for me.
Im not into sharing or being shared.

But to each their own.
 basilisk123
Joined: 12/17/2011
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Posted: 6/15/2016 12:55:48 PM
I do know of the kink of "Reverse-NTR" (not sure what it's actually called)

This is the setup according to what I read.
Basically, it starts with a cuckold.
A woman will have sex with a stranger in front of her husband.
In the middle of it, her man will join in to "show the newcomer how it is really done"
Then the woman will totally ignore the cuckold and have sex with her husband while the other guy is left to jack-off in the corner.
Hence, the husband reasserts his dominance as alpha and gets an ego-high from the whole affair.

As I said, the whole cuckold experience can be for Dominant and submissive types.

Still not my cup of tea however.
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