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Joined: 7/20/2014
Msg: 2
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No need for the link, we just click 'view profile' under your photo and voila! There you are.

The main photo can be deleted. Obvious selfies are silly and really, the one with the big smile and the takeout food is actually your money shot. If you want to claim 'athletic' as a body type, you can add a photo of you in a tight white t-shirt doing something casual like hanging off a monkey bar in a park so the guns are showing. Subtle, yet point gets across without one of those gym douche photos. Do you know how to work the timer in your camera? If not, find a cute girl nearby and tell her it's for your Mom. Whatever, she won't know....

Your occupation should be Business Student/Host. "Host" could be anything and at least 'student' gives your viewer the implied impression you have a goal.

Your Interests field could use a couple more specifics - favourite comedian? Music group or artist? Vacation spot? Dessert?

The additional information goes fully in the TMI zone. Seriously, all your viewer needs to know from that section is a bit about what you're studying and you can cover that off if you fill in the occupation field correctly.

Keep in mind most girls in your age range will judge by photos first, then skim the stats, view the Interests and maybe then read the profile. If there is nothing that sends up any red flags for her, she may then open the message and respond. Even with all that, you will find this is a marathon, not a sprint and you will need patience and a big ol' sense of humour.

Good luck!

ps - you have just the right mix of information on the gaming for a smart girl to figure it out now. No more needed.
Joined: 7/20/2014
Msg: 6
Advice for a young and struggling fish? (profile review)
Posted: 5/5/2016 7:20:20 PM
Is there any way you could crop the current photo so it's closer and not so obvious you're holding takeout food? The smile is the key.
Joined: 9/9/2015
Msg: 10
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Advice for a young and struggling fish? (profile review)
Posted: 5/21/2016 9:36:38 AM
A little tweak ...

Two of your pictures, including your main, appear a bit too dark, at least to my eye. I've enhanced both without washing out either:

Do a "save as" and insert them into your profile if you like 'em any better.
Joined: 12/30/2014
Msg: 13
Advice for a young and struggling fish? (profile review)
Posted: 7/11/2016 12:27:57 PM

Since you seem to be a die hard gamer, are you concentrating your searches on gamer girls?
Any other woman is going to be turned off by the attention to gaming and won't respond.
I'm not suggesting that you hide it, especially if it's the focus of your life.
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