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Work like you don't need the money. Love like you've never been hurt. Dance like nobody's watching.
How to make peoples eyes roll on a dating site- Open with an over used cliche.
Pro Tip: write your about me in word/notepad and then copy/paste. I kept trying to do it on the website and it kept logging me out after a certain amount of time, writing this 4ish times was no fun lol.
fyi NO ONE CARES! Get on with it. A huge number of readers will have clicked away at this point, you have said nothing interesting or useful.
So where do I start?
Funny, thought you already had.
I work full time, almost 50 hours a week, which doesn’t give me a lot of time to meet new people. When I’m not at work I’ve been spending a few hours a day at the gym, it is a great way for me to release any negative energy I may have accumulated throughout the day.
Here is how women will read this opening.
60+ hours of my time is taken up with other things, so I'm probably not going to have much time to date, you will never be a priority in my life.
What poor way to start. Why is the first think you think to mention how many hours a week you work.
Start bold, get the persons interest
"Hi, I'm a fun loving, passionate, adventurous, creative and witty guy" doesn't that sound a better way to start than
"I work 50 hours a week"
Ditch all this stuff at the start and think about SELLING YOURSELF
-What makes you special and unique?
- Why should a women date you over the millions of others on this site?
- What are you passionate about?
- What does romance mean to you?
Open with these things.
Also as others have said, new pictures are needed.
A clear bright well lit SMILING headshot for your main.
A full body photo
a few photos of you out enjoying life, tell the story of you in 5-8 photos
(Any photos that don't have you in are both against site rules and pretty much useless)