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 Hostess68
Joined: 8/25/2015
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Seriously guys! This isn't the way to approach nice 'normal' women like me! Why do you do that? I am not sexy! I am a woman. I have a brain. I want intelligence and conversation. It isn't just about the sack for me. I don't know how to state that more clearly in my obvious profile. Guy why bother? Girls, how do you reply when unwanted attention is adamant but you don't want to offend?
 wonky1968
Joined: 5/29/2016
Msg: 2
How do you reply to 'you are sexy'
Posted: 6/20/2016 4:08:58 PM
Take it as a compliment or just delete and block

It could be worse, you could be a bloke and getting a load of those crappy"Hey there ;)" Messages every day from people who are too lazy to type!
 winter_hyacinth
Joined: 11/14/2015
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Posted: 6/20/2016 5:55:48 PM
Ignore. Not the type I'm looking for.

Aren't the 'hey there' messages automatically generated from the flirt button?
 skiptalker
Joined: 11/25/2007
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How do you reply to 'you are sexy'
Posted: 6/20/2016 9:16:48 PM
"Hey there ;)" .......not just me then its every time i receive a message but we must be lucky some guys on here get nowt
 TucsonPug
Joined: 6/17/2015
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Posted: 6/20/2016 11:57:53 PM
I just reply with "I know, but thanks anyway" which seems to leave them dumb founded.
Personally I prefer You're sexy to how big are your t!ts?
Tbh they're not worth a reply but hey I'm still polite.
 Hostess68
Joined: 8/25/2015
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Posted: 6/21/2016 3:23:59 PM
TucsonPug you have a lovely attitude I admire but I am sadly losing faith in this website. Not met any good ones
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 7
How do you reply to 'you are sexy'
Posted: 6/21/2016 3:30:47 PM

It could be worse, you could be a bloke and getting a load of those crappy"Hey there ;)" Messages every day from people who are too lazy to type!



I'd rather get a " hey there " from someone I'm not interested vs the story of their life and why they love caramel sundaes so much, etc
 flossiescratchwood
Joined: 11/28/2015
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Posted: 6/21/2016 3:35:41 PM
I'd rather have that than 'sort ya hair out love'.
 Hostess68
Joined: 8/25/2015
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Posted: 6/21/2016 3:43:58 PM
Flossiescratchwood! I actually lolled at that one! And you hair is lovely! Sod those orrible men ha ha
 Aggers
Joined: 10/26/2012
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Posted: 6/22/2016 5:49:54 AM

I am sadly losing faith in this website.


What? only "just" and "losing"?????

As for the Sexy comments, speaks volumes about the sender! As Wonky said.

"Hey There" - me too and all from older, a lot older, ladies. My alter-ego is a superhero named "Nana Magnetman" it has never changed in the last 7 years.
 Justanotherchap
Joined: 12/4/2013
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Posted: 6/22/2016 7:47:34 AM
Only had that once and it was from a woman 35 years younger than me. I wasn't interested but got the conversation going anyway out of interest. She said she was only really interested in someone who would take her out and sex, she said the rest she was managing well thanks.
 gemini_lady_uk
Joined: 7/16/2008
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Posted: 6/26/2016 9:49:48 AM
I'd just say thanks for taking time to message and for the compliment, goodbye and good luck. Short but polite. tota; waste of time message but maybe they find your smile sexy (who knows what men think)
 Suzanne_999
Joined: 6/3/2016
Msg: 13
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Posted: 6/26/2016 5:37:03 PM
It used to annoy me at first but then I had a rethink on it. Some men just arent comfortable with opening lines and perhaps I made a judgement on them when I didnt wait to see if they had anymore conversation. I began thinking to just take it as a compliment because at the end of the day in a way it is, say thank you very much and see what else they had to say afterwards. When they follow it up with " youre hot!!" then I wont bother, but quite a few have followed it up with decent conversation and while we have found that some things we might not be compatible about ., Im glad that Ive waited for just more than one opening line. Its like social awkwardness when you meet someone and they blurb out nonsense. Well... thats how I see it.
 Jo van
Joined: 5/23/2009
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Posted: 6/28/2016 1:01:19 PM
I normally say:

"No dear, that was last year.
I'm sixty-one now.


Pardon...?

 Goddess_Arnemetia
Joined: 12/1/2014
Msg: 15
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Posted: 7/2/2016 1:34:58 AM

Aren't the 'hey there' messages automatically generated from the flirt button?

winter_hyacinth is right: only women have the feature where we can send a 'flirt' to men. This is the first time I've seen what it looks like on the receivers' side, though...

This site is now sodden with memberships. It's free in that it's free to do what most are here to do: send messages. Anything after that is 'fluff' anyway, no matter how free or cheap it might be.
The deluge of memberships went up as soon as that magic thing was installed: android app. If it was rife with fake profiles before, it's a 100 times worse now.

Still: if you have time to sift, good; it's still free.
 *buzz*
Joined: 6/1/2006
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Posted: 7/2/2016 1:54:40 PM
Hmm... you know what's on their mind
How to reply? Either play their game & reply or just ignore it.
 Hostess68
Joined: 8/25/2015
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Posted: 7/5/2016 4:09:11 PM
So this is number one lesson of 'filter out the creeps' right?
 Macfifty
Joined: 6/27/2016
Msg: 18
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Posted: 7/6/2016 11:37:35 AM
I think my subtle approach of ' Wow ....Tidy rack' encourages stimulus for an Intelligent chat.
 imanorangetiger
Joined: 12/29/2011
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Posted: 7/7/2016 5:45:05 AM
It's a salutary reminder to those who need it that drinking and the internet don't mix well.
 Macfifty
Joined: 6/27/2016
Msg: 20
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Posted: 7/7/2016 6:46:11 AM

It's a salutary reminder to those who need it that drinking and the internet don't mix well.

I agree, although as an extension of this reminder this should Include the use of drugs.
 Hostess68
Joined: 8/25/2015
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Posted: 7/7/2016 2:48:27 PM
Wow! Sexual deviants, alcoholics and drug users! I cant wait to date from this website! NOT!
 gimllog
Joined: 1/15/2016
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Posted: 7/7/2016 11:58:17 PM
-----How do you reply to 'you are sexy'-----
with honesty ,is always the best policy , why waste time ? If you find him sexy or not then tell him so .
Not sure what you are expecting from the dating game , but most that will be getting in contact with you, will find you attractive/sexy and a good percentage will be prepared to/want to get naked with you eventually.
Sex is part of being in/forming a relationship , hes not contacting you to find out what the weather is like

if you can't take compliments or rejections then maybe online dating is not for you.
 Fabreezey
Joined: 1/4/2014
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Posted: 7/8/2016 3:47:11 PM
---- you are sexy ---

Well that's one word more than the message I responded to and which led to me meeting the man I've happily been in a relationship with for the past 4 years.
 Hostess68
Joined: 8/25/2015
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Posted: 7/8/2016 3:58:41 PM
Nah sorry - I don't agree... I am old fashioned maybe but I expect to be taken out and if the conversation or spark is there. then we can talk sexy. It a matter of self respect and about being respected. I aint a piece of meat. I am a person with feelings and values. Companionship is more or well, equally important to me but it comes first. I don't just jump in the sack. I find it disrespectful to say on the first message 'you are sexy'. Hey man! There is more to me than that
 fatface68
Joined: 7/5/2016
Msg: 25
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Posted: 7/9/2016 3:23:47 PM
I laugh. It's so cliche and unimaginative.
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