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 gcdeb
Joined: 4/1/2015
Msg: 2
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It all depends how much dignity you have. If you have no self-worth, sure, let her "trial" you for three months. Dating, but it's very nature, is "trialling" the relationship, I'm not sure why she felt the need to put a time limit on it.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 4
Want to give me a 3 month trail
Posted: 9/1/2016 5:37:02 AM
You are defending her and making excuses on her behafe, sounds to me like you are considering the 3 month trail. I'd be so insulted I'd block her but that's me.
Sounds like you are filler. Don't be.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 5
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Posted: 9/1/2016 5:55:19 AM
It all sounds like whackjob central to me
 Maleman999
Joined: 2/14/2010
Msg: 6
Want to give me a 3 month trail
Posted: 9/1/2016 6:51:18 AM
Does this come with a 90 day money back guarantee-so you get back any money you spent on her if she dumps you again?
 InnerGorilla2
Joined: 8/1/2016
Msg: 7
Want to give me a 3 month trail
Posted: 9/1/2016 7:40:56 AM

I,m not sure that I want see her again .


This should be your answer.

Have the balls to tell her.

Point is. There are people that use abandonment and rejections as a weapon. She will be dumping you over and over again, for the most ridiculous of reasons. So tell her that you are interested in the trial. If you say yes, I can put money that she will dump you at least two times before the three months are over.
 Scaretale
Joined: 1/9/2016
Msg: 8
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Want to give me a 3 month trail
Posted: 9/1/2016 7:55:26 AM
She's definitely not into you...twice.

If you want to repeat this a third time, have at it. lol
 hemingway234
Joined: 6/6/2015
Msg: 9
Want to give me a 3 month trail
Posted: 9/1/2016 8:03:42 AM

I did find out that that she had problems with her ex husband and I think this it causing the problem.



I don't think its my fault that we keep spliting up. I think she letting the past get the better of her.



I have kept this short and don't want to get in more details about her past but I do know her ex husband eneded in jail for what he did.



- Emotional baggage can be a problem...... some people have excess and are not a good catch.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 10
must be a great (magazine) rack
Posted: 9/1/2016 8:07:21 AM
A 3 month trial? But you've already had enough of her issues, why get the whole subscription?
 ThatGirlNamedAlli
Joined: 12/28/2013
Msg: 11
must be a great (magazine) rack
Posted: 9/1/2016 8:28:57 AM
Does she do a performance review after 3 months?
Those words she said alone should insult and annoy you. What an ass she is.
 PlutoLover68
Joined: 7/28/2016
Msg: 12
Want to give me a 3 month trail
Posted: 9/1/2016 9:19:16 AM
I find it weird that she wants to put a time limit on it. Dating is trial and error. Its learning about a person and deciding if you want to spend time with them. Its not something you set a time limit on to start with.
 FullMoonGuy
Joined: 3/7/2014
Msg: 14
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Posted: 9/1/2016 12:04:52 PM

Do you think she will keep her word.?


Yes.
About as well as the the average politician does.
 InnerGorilla2
Joined: 8/1/2016
Msg: 15
Want to give me a 3 month trail
Posted: 9/1/2016 1:18:59 PM

I won't be seeing again.


Shocks. I would derive great pleasure in telling her.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 16
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Posted: 9/1/2016 1:21:40 PM
^^^^^


Eckart Tolle asked me to tell you that the above post reveals you're still controlled by your ego
 InnerGorilla2
Joined: 8/1/2016
Msg: 17
Want to give me a 3 month trail
Posted: 9/1/2016 1:31:07 PM

Eckart Tolle asked me to tell you that the above post reveals you're still controlled by your ego


So damn true. But while I am a Buddhist, I am a horrible Buddhist.

Post too short.

Post too short.

Post too short.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 18
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Posted: 9/1/2016 1:33:19 PM
An ego is a very hard thing to shed.....unless what happened to Tolle happens to you.
 aintnodeal
Joined: 4/10/2016
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Want to give me a 3 month trail
Posted: 9/1/2016 2:56:14 PM
Sign up for the trial, knock those boots daily for 90 days, then go to the clinic for your penicillin and other meds. Good deal!!!
 ThroatLozenge
Joined: 3/2/2016
Msg: 20
Won't give me tail for 3 months
Posted: 9/1/2016 3:24:25 PM
What a load of crap.



Nothing happened that night.


This is where you blew it the 1st time.

You keep respecting her and she keeps disrespecting you.

Her little rationalization hamster is spinning you in place on her back burner.

You've been chosen as her emotional tampon for all that drama she's bringing.

Give you a trial?? Fvck that. Tell her you're seeing someone else but you're not sure where it's going.



She is bored at home


Awww. Poor thang. She just needs an entertainment director, huh? Keep your wallet close dude.

You're coming across as too desperate for her attention and she's loving that pedestal you placed her on.

Keep rationalizing her bad behavior while she's shaggin' the pool boy behind your back.
 Butterchickenchuck
Joined: 9/18/2015
Msg: 21
Happy 3 month trails
Posted: 9/1/2016 4:42:18 PM
Bottom line....

Happy 3 month trails to you, until you meet again.
Happy 3 month trails to you, keep smilin' until then.
Who cares about the clouds when you're together?
Just sing a song and bring the sunny weather.
Happy 3 month trails to you, 'till you meet ( and she dumps you ), again.
 Heffelump
Joined: 8/27/2016
Msg: 22
Happy 3 month trails
Posted: 9/1/2016 4:54:36 PM
Generally when you take a 3 month trial you get some sort of prize as well. Maybe it comes with a cool phone like the girl in Juno has. Or a twin sister. Ask for details before making a decision.
 norwegianguy456
Joined: 6/11/2015
Msg: 23
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Want to give me a 3 month trail
Posted: 9/1/2016 5:47:10 PM

Now out of the blue I get a text massage via Facebook. She is bored at home and want to give me a 3 month trail, saying she won't get cold feet this time. I,m not sure that I want see her again . I don't think its my fault that we keep spliting up.

I don't think you're at fault, as in the person carrying all or most the weight as to the reason it never really took off on those two separate occasions. As she says, she had cold feet, so anything would set it off. Also though, you can at least say she's on-the-surface attracted to you pretty good. Otherwise there wouldn't be the second time. She may be hitting you up out of loneliness as her main motivator, who knows.

If I were you, I'd say "...let's not make a big thing of it -- just day by day with a casual approach... no reason to make it some "big deal" which could only give someone "cold feet", ya know? But yeah, let's go out on some dates, and just see what happens and take a laid-back approach."

But I would have zero expectations or desires to run off in the sunset with her. And I certainly wouldn't cancel any important plans for her, and would cancel plans with her if something good was coming my way. But at the end, just see her a bit for fun, and fooling around, but quickly end it after you got your physical fill, and say "Sorry, got got cold feet. Good luck in your search." :)
 cookymaker
Joined: 6/28/2014
Msg: 24
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Happy 3 month trails
Posted: 9/1/2016 5:49:51 PM
Some 3 trials, once the time is up - stick you with a full blown membership at an insanely high price that are almost impossible to cancel
just saying...
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 25
Happy 3 month trails
Posted: 9/1/2016 6:14:40 PM
Hmm... If I were this woman I'd offer you weekly reviews so you would have the opportunity to improve your performance.
 Heffelump
Joined: 8/27/2016
Msg: 26
Happy 3 month trails
Posted: 9/1/2016 6:58:33 PM
^^^This is clearly a woman who saw the movie Secretary recently. And she's got her red pens lined up in a row.
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 27
Happy 3 month trails
Posted: 9/1/2016 7:08:18 PM
^ I don't watch Hollywood movies. Sigh... The ways in which I could improve you...
 Heffelump
Joined: 8/27/2016
Msg: 28
Happy 3 month trails
Posted: 9/1/2016 7:12:18 PM
Hush you. I'm busy checking to see if there is any news about trouble in Maggie Gyllenhaal 's marriage

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