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 gotahubcapdiamondstarhalo
Joined: 9/21/2016
Msg: 1
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Got an incoming pof message that said:

Blah, blah, I'm great, blah blah, would you like to meet, etc?

So, I replied:
gotahubcapdiamondstarhalo11/5/2016 857 AM
No, thanks. Too far away.

Two WEEKS later, I get:
[Redacted]11/19/2016 138 PM
Okay, Well, I'm sorry to have bothered you but I need to tell you that I've met someone who lives here locally and goes to the same church I do that I'm interested in pursuing a long term relationship with. We have found we have alot in common and I want to see where this goes. Thank you for your time but I see no reason for ANY further communication between us. Sorry, Good bye.
[Redacted]

Maybe I should have posted this in Broken Hearts, because I'm gutted!

Why would he treat me like this? I gave him the best 30 seconds of my life ...

Seriously, if I didn't want to hear from anyone again, I'd just block.
Did I not make it clear enough I was not interested?

O.K. I honestly DGAF, but it's a rainy day, here.
 gotahubcapdiamondstarhalo
Joined: 9/21/2016
Msg: 2
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Posted: 11/19/2016 2:37:51 PM
O.k. I even strarted the "Delete" petition, since I am obviously wallowing in self pity.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 3
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Posted: 11/19/2016 3:15:08 PM
Here as well, last couple of days. So in a moment of dampness I replied to a short not so nice looking semi bald guy..
I said no thanks and bye when he asked if I wanted to chat
Got back "I suppose a Blowjob out of the question"'

I mean, I wouldn't spit on him for practice - glad he manned up tho
 BBEisBack
Joined: 9/16/2015
Msg: 4
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Posted: 11/19/2016 3:30:37 PM
OMG..... LOL....

Everyone knows you have to swap spit, before you go there....
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 5
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Posted: 11/19/2016 3:36:19 PM
^ I dunno... Kissing is awful personal.

Anyway, over the past day and a half I've read every profile of every man in my city between the ages of 43 and 55. Not one compatible person. Now what?
 Walts
Joined: 5/7/2005
Msg: 6
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Posted: 11/19/2016 3:41:08 PM

Anyway, over the past day and a half I've read every profile of every man in my city between the ages of 43 and 55. Not one compatible person. Now what?


Okay, here we go again. I really don't know how many times I have to tell you guys/girls but, all of this is very simple.

When it comes right down to it, it's,,,,,



Whiskey!!!!!


:]
 Seki1949
Joined: 9/4/2013
Msg: 7
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Posted: 11/19/2016 3:50:51 PM

Anyway, over the past day and a half I've read every profile of every man in my city between the ages of 43 and 55. Not one compatible person.


Start with the women . . .
 BBEisBack
Joined: 9/16/2015
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Posted: 11/19/2016 3:51:36 PM
^^^^^^^ Post #6

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vnvMcX95G20
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 9
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Posted: 11/19/2016 5:50:18 PM
Women, hey... I could use some nurturing. There must be some way I can condition myself to be attracted to them. 'Cause I didn't kiss a girl and I wouldn't have liked it :(
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 10
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Posted: 11/19/2016 6:06:04 PM
IDK Baby - at this point anyone who can make those soft ginger cookies
Can sleep in my bed
Time to see what the other team offers
I am guessing cookies
 halforhalfnot
Joined: 9/13/2016
Msg: 11
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Posted: 11/19/2016 6:08:29 PM
You want cookies? I make cookies. And I never use margarine either. Though I don't know how to make ginger cookies.
 Whatsamattababy
Joined: 5/3/2016
Msg: 12
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Posted: 11/19/2016 6:16:36 PM
Ouija: My Ma makes the soft ginger kind. But I'm not sure you want me for your stepchild.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 13
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Posted: 11/20/2016 6:13:06 AM
What ginger cookie making a lost Art? I have a friend makes me them for Christmas... I'm like get with the programme Gina and make them monthly.
Sniffle.. I guess I could try baking. Nah
 cindi_rella
Joined: 7/25/2016
Msg: 14
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Posted: 11/20/2016 8:46:12 AM
OP, I suspect he was making the stuff up about meeting someone else in church just to get a reaction from you. Why would he think you would care or would even remember him? Smh, sad really.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 11/20/2016 8:48:44 AM
I'm thinking about chocolate chick cookies...
 IgottaName
Joined: 3/29/2014
Msg: 16
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Posted: 11/20/2016 11:27:56 AM
Why do you care so much? You had already rejected him, so what difference does it make. Maybe it's time to start collecting cats.
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 17
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Posted: 11/20/2016 11:58:24 AM
er, she was goofing on a rainy day. I doubt she is sobbing her heart out
Just sometimes we women need to cleanse
The new message I had waiting this morning - shudder
I mean it
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
Msg: 18
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Posted: 11/20/2016 12:39:57 PM
So if telling women to collect cats is the ultimate insult, does telling men it's time to start collecting dogs have the same tired old edge to it as an insult?
 DivineBovine
Joined: 5/13/2005
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Posted: 11/20/2016 12:45:27 PM
I concur with Walts!
 IgottaName
Joined: 3/29/2014
Msg: 20
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Posted: 11/20/2016 6:10:23 PM

So if telling women to collect cats is the ultimate insult, does telling men it's time to start collecting dogs have the same tired old edge to it as an insult?


Nah. We collect younger women...
 Ouija2025
Joined: 6/11/2014
Msg: 21
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Posted: 11/20/2016 7:11:22 PM
What bait you suing Terrance Stamp?
Please not another older dude thinks he still can stay in the game :)
Mirror mirror on the wall
 loveisatemple
Joined: 3/28/2014
Msg: 22
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Posted: 11/20/2016 7:13:02 PM
So devastating to be called catlady. I have been so accused after saying no to a date, though I have never had cats or dogs due to allergies and only know "catmen", one with more than 2...but it still seems to be a satisfying retort. Come up with a new one.
 LetitiaLeGrande
Joined: 3/22/2015
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Posted: 11/20/2016 7:44:35 PM
why would he write a diatribe to you once you said he was too far away. His ego was stung even though you never met and he wanted you, even as a stranger, to know he found someone. Perhaps he did or perhaps he didnt. Whatever, why would you care?
 Abby156
Joined: 4/1/2010
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Posted: 11/20/2016 7:59:33 PM
Don't feel like the lone ranger. I received a heated pm because I love President Obama and Michelle. This election has revealed how ugly people can be.
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 11/20/2016 8:04:31 PM
No, that would correlate with women who collect younger men, you would need to stay in the non-human but alive realm, not plants either.
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