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 takeiteasyonme
Joined: 1/5/2017
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Hey all.

This is kind of weird and first time I'm posting in forums about this.
I do get messages on here, but I feel like I should be getting a better response rate.
I notice people I message looking at my profile, but they don't message back. I've looked over any obvious problem I could be having with my profile and still trying to figure out if there's something I'm missing.
The only reason I am asking this question is because if you carry yourself in a certain way you get better interaction with people. I try my best to be polite and believe people should at least try out a conversation before not messaging.

What do you guys think?
 gingerosity
Joined: 12/10/2011
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Ladies, what is wrong with my profile?
Posted: 1/13/2017 3:28:14 AM

What do you guys think?

I think you worry too much about what other people think.

"We will gradually become indifferent to what goes on in the minds of other people when we acquire a knowledge of the superficial nature of their thoughts, the narrowness of their views and of the number of their errors. Whoever attaches a lot of value to the opinions of others pays them too much honour." - Arthur Schopenhauer

The only reason I am asking this question is because if you carry yourself in a certain way you get better interaction with people.

If that's your only reason it begs the question: Why do you want better interaction with people?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eVSlE28hOgI

But seriously, how are you defining 'better'? More superficial? Less genuine?

I try my best to be polite and believe people should at least try out a conversation before not messaging.

Um... maybe you should revisit your reasoning here in consideration of the starting condition of the prospective conversation participants, which is the state of not messaging.

I do get messages on here, but I feel like I should be getting a better response rate.

Try not messaging. Then you'll always receive at least as many messages as you send out.
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