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 SilverWings2017
Joined: 12/14/2016
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I have noticed there are a lot of men on this site who are felons or have multiple DUI/OWI on their record. Personally, I think it's a bad idea, but I would like to hear your thoughts and opinions. Thanks.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
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Would you date a felon or someone on probation?
Posted: 3/20/2017 4:37:18 PM
what could possibly go wrong? :)

in reality, people will avoid red flags that either look like their own...or get in the way of getting the hottie they want. As for everyone else...they do what comes naturally, which is avoid what is unnatural to them.
 leon714
Joined: 1/22/2015
Msg: 3
Would you date a felon or someone on probation?
Posted: 3/20/2017 4:43:50 PM
If you want to risk your personal safety by all means do so, after all it's your choice...buy a rape alarm before you do though...if indeed you do?
 swedishtextiles
Joined: 2/2/2017
Msg: 4
Would you date a felon or someone on probation?
Posted: 3/20/2017 4:52:22 PM

Would you date a felon or someone on probation?


Unless I was looking for trouble, NO<
I've found trouble finds ME enough, so why court it?
 leon714
Joined: 1/22/2015
Msg: 5
Would you date a felon or someone on probation?
Posted: 3/20/2017 5:35:19 PM
Feel like I'm being followed on the forums by some creepy woman ha, ha...I'm creeped out
 swedishtextiles
Joined: 2/2/2017
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Would you date a felon or someone on probation?
Posted: 3/20/2017 5:57:30 PM
I only stalk felons.

Creepy ones.

hahaha

In your dreams~

;-)
 leon714
Joined: 1/22/2015
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Posted: 3/20/2017 6:08:14 PM
I my nightmares...Trust me on that...Miss creepy
 __TEXASCHICK__
Joined: 11/9/2011
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Would you date a felon or someone on probation?
Posted: 3/20/2017 6:30:27 PM
Nope,, no how, no way.
 forumslady
Joined: 12/7/2016
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Would you date a felon or someone on probation?
Posted: 3/20/2017 6:48:42 PM
SilverWings2017- A felony conviction is today's version of the scarlet letter.
It's VERY hard to get a job with a felony conviction.
Most concerning, what did they do?
I'm a mom, no ONE is getting around my family that could be dangerous and I don't want to get hurt (or worse) either.
Multiple DUI'S?! Um, no.
That speaks of alcoholism, immaturity and selfishness, so no to that too.
 FullMoonGuy
Joined: 3/7/2014
Msg: 10
Would you date a felon or someone on probation?
Posted: 3/20/2017 6:59:08 PM

Bad boys, bad boys
What'cha gonna do?
What'cha gonna do when they come for you?
Bad boys, bad boys
What'cha gonna do?
What'cha gonna do when they come for you?



Bad boys, bad boys
What'cha gonna do?
What'cha gonna do when they come for you?
Bad boys, bad boys
What'cha gonna do?
What'cha gonna do when they come for you?




Personally, I think it's a bad idea,


I do, too.
And yet, plenty of women still go for them.

SMH.
 Hank7865
Joined: 3/2/2016
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Posted: 3/20/2017 7:17:00 PM
What if they're attractive?
 forumslady
Joined: 12/7/2016
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Posted: 3/20/2017 7:22:15 PM
fullmoonguy- To be fair, it isn't just women.
I know someone who was engaged to a woman who got drunk on the 4th of July and assaulted him.
She called him from jail, turned manipulation up to the level of 10 and talked him into getting her out.
The kicker, she was arrested in Alabama, but had been transferred to Florida on a warrant for identity theft.
Think it can't get worse? He found out the person she defrauded was one of her OWN family members.
Last, but not least........despite ALL this, he married her within 6 weeks.
Don't ask me to explain why people do this sort of thing.
It's beyond me. (((SHRUGS)))
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
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Would you date a felon or someone on probation?
Posted: 3/20/2017 8:27:23 PM
No, but I probably have in the past, and probably mostly pot smokers, used to be a big deal when I was young to catch pot smokers. I haven't smoked pot in years & years so I don't hang around them anymore. But a felon for a serious crime, someone who might beat you, steal from you, hurt your children, kill you or someone you know, etc., oh hell no.

Something I pay attention to also, even just an acquaintance, is someone who gets all pissy about people who won't date them for whatever reason, that's a huge red flag, someone who blames others for the way they've behaved in their life. It's a huge sign of a manipulator who does not take any responsibility.
 gtomustang
Joined: 6/16/2007
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damn, check out the felons on her!
Posted: 3/20/2017 9:49:41 PM
what better way to find a bad boy than to look for an actual one? I'm sure there are socio-economic etc groups that tend to fall prey to drug offenses, etc and its difficult to find a partner from that group that is squeaky clean. But for the most part, there's probably better choices out there to make. But now I flash back to a hottie in college, she was a roomie for a woman I knew, dating a drug dealer on probation. Likely to annoy the single mom, who sent her to this out of state college just to avoid said bf, who would cross the state line to pick up the roommate for the weekend and return her on Monday. she flunked out within a semester, wasting mom's money.

BF was also uber jealous, told my friend only two men could ever be in the dorm room when his girl was there--either my friend's bf, or me. Jealous felonious bf had met me once or twice, and either thought I was super nice or could tell I had no chance around his fine lady. not the first time a jealous bf thought he could trust me around his girl, either. I must have a vibe.
 Sweet_Danimal
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Posted: 3/20/2017 10:18:25 PM

... that's a huge red flag, someone who blames others for the way they've behaved in their life. It's a huge sign of a manipulator who does not take any responsibility.


Ditto on the behavior monitoring. Some people get caught in a bad spot once, learn their lesson, and move on. Most like that are usually the sober drivers. The ones that don't change, but claim they do - loudly - are the worst violators.

I tried doing the photo matching search to find out about a few ladies online with vague profiles. Facebook and Linked In would usually show up. Occasionally a name search got a DWI or low-degree assault to show up. One that really snapped me to attention was a lady who posed online as a professional career-minded woman, complete with the studio photos used for realtors and that kind of stuff -- but had a RECENT string of convictions including "Theft by Swindle" within the last six months. A Con Artist if there ever was one.

We get married in July.
(Just kidding)
 Devilsfan58
Joined: 3/19/2009
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Posted: 3/20/2017 10:24:05 PM
It depends on what the felony was. In my area in one college town every arrest where MJ is found results in them being booked for a 5 degree felony for possession. In most other places it is a misdemeanor possessions charge. I think the town funds something based on every college student in possession they book. And we're one of the legalized MJ states.
 Cowgirlwannabe1
Joined: 8/21/2015
Msg: 17
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Posted: 3/21/2017 3:52:22 AM
woud I date a felon or someone on probation? haahahahaaaaaaaaaaahahahaahahaaaaaaaaahaha
oh hell to the no on that one
 Seki1949
Joined: 9/4/2013
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Posted: 3/21/2017 7:08:46 AM

We get married in July.


Dang! Our wedding is scheduled for late June.
 Seki1949
Joined: 9/4/2013
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Posted: 3/21/2017 7:10:04 AM

Don't ask me to explain why people do this sort of thing.


Jellyroll will drive you so mad . . .
 SilverWings2017
Joined: 12/14/2016
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Posted: 3/21/2017 8:22:43 AM
I'm talking about people our age that are still in the system. They don't bother to mention this on their profiles, or in their messages. I have been on this site for about a year now. It doesn't happen often, but it does happen. One was on house arrest for multiple OWI. The other was on supervised release from prison, probably living in a halfway house. I had to find out using our Wisconsin (statewide) court access website.
 hemingway234
Joined: 6/6/2015
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Posted: 3/21/2017 9:57:27 AM
Perhaps that's why they are single.
 forumslady
Joined: 12/7/2016
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Posted: 3/21/2017 12:02:54 PM
Seki1949- Ok. I'll bite...........
WHAT does jellyroll mean?
 browneyesboo
Joined: 7/1/2016
Msg: 23
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Posted: 3/21/2017 12:06:52 PM
There are a lot of things I might have done 20 years ago...maybe
even 10.
But now...no.
I don't expect smooth sailing...but I'm all done being in a basket
wondering what the heck I'm doing or where I'm going.
I don't care how good looking the basket is.
 aintnodeal
Joined: 4/10/2016
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Posted: 3/21/2017 12:12:27 PM
I need it, I eat it, JELLY ROLL
Good for the heart, body & SOUL
 forumslady
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Posted: 3/21/2017 12:41:19 PM
aintnodeal- Ahhhh, so THAT'S what it is.
I learn some interesting terms on the forums. :D
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