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Joined: 4/19/2015
Msg: 1
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I just had an experience with my first online scam on here! It was pretty funny, to me anyway! Lol, the purported girl and I messaged back and forth a few times, and that's where my inner alerts first started going off. "She" was responding to my messages, but it was like she wasn't reading everything I'd said, and only replying to some of what I'd written every time she'd reply. I tried to brush it off though because most of my experience with dating site or app scammers has been that they don't respond at all to what I say and just push right through to there agenda, saying things like "I'm so bored right now" Or jumping right into saying things like "I'm so horny"! (People have no decency anymore! lol)

So, I let the conversation go on, and then she asked if I wanted to video chat. I said sure, to which she replied that she tried to invite me, but that it wasn't letting her. She said I needed to turn on the setting, so I looked for a setting that allowed chat and could not find one. Then she said that you had to write the POF admin to get them to activate video capabilities. I couldn't find that either, so she said she'd do it for me and asked for my email address. I gave her my email figuring, hell, let's see where this goes! I then immediately got an email from POF "admin" regarding activating my video chat capabilities. Yet, the site link I had to follow, was on Which to those of you who don't know, is a website that lets you build your own webpage. I immediately knew it was an attempt at a scam, so, being who I am, I messaged the person I'd been communicating with that they'd been outed, and gave them some helpful advice. That if they hoped to scam people and steal their credit card info, they needed to up their game, and at least create a believable card info stealing webpage! I was about to send a follow up message with the advice to not just copy and paste pictures and logos that are small and then blow them up larger because it looks pixilated and unprofessional hahaha, but when I hit send, I was informed that the account of the "girl" I'd been talking to had been deleted. Score one for me for not being born yesterday! lol
Joined: 4/20/2017
Msg: 2
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Posted: 5/1/2017 3:44:28 AM
Never heard of the webcam scam before, but have had a few scammers get in touch with me before and I just report and block them. The chances are the person you were talking to was a Nigerian male scammer and not a woman at all. The scammers know that some people on dating sites are lonely and have mental health issues, so they think they are easy targets and it's very sad people take advantage of the vulnerable. You need to delete that email address you gave to the scammer and create a new one, because you never know?
Joined: 10/17/2016
Msg: 4
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Posted: 5/17/2017 4:59:32 PM
chuckaway emails are easy.... hotmail is the prime one... I reckon the OP is savvy to that
Joined: 8/7/2009
Msg: 5
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Posted: 8/6/2017 12:25:45 AM
>> gave her my email figuring,
risky. but I assume you are using things like

>> gave them some helpful advice
Please don't give scammers and spammers hints. Candidly, I don't think most of them care to spend the time to learn. However, the better they get the worse it gets for the rest of us.
Joined: 10/16/2017
Msg: 6
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Posted: 10/20/2017 9:14:48 AM
Thanks for the info on this! I just received the same request for the same site. I knew it was fishy (no pun intended) so I decided to call POF. I saw this before reaching anyone so many thanks for the tip. I don’t give cc info easily.
Joined: 7/1/2017
Msg: 7
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Posted: 11/18/2017 6:26:16 PM
I just had that happen today with that scam I gave my email address and then she deleted her account I didn’t put in my credit card information will I be all right
Joined: 3/4/2018
Msg: 8
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Posted: 3/19/2018 11:16:47 AM
Just had _pretty_gurrrrrr a lady from Wrexham try the same scam, but the give away was she provided a g mail r mail for pof admin. Was I born yesterday NO asked if she had Kik which is safe. She blocked me then reported her hopefully be gone soon
Joined: 1/1/2017
Msg: 9
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Posted: 3/26/2018 7:19:19 PM
Happened to me too.. just now.. reported her PrettyOlivia02612_
Joined: 3/10/2014
Msg: 10
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Posted: 4/28/2018 10:55:39 AM
That's a unique scam attempt. I've never had that one before.

Thanks for the heads up! I posted a thread trying to warn others about a smart-phone scam where you get billed for calling a number apparently... check it out.
Joined: 9/29/2017
Msg: 11
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Posted: 5/1/2018 8:26:32 PM
I just had the same thing happen to me the person was very opinionated about only using this website and wont deviate in the least from there plan also call you Baby and Honey a Lot this was a new one for me. I just reported them they have the opening line canyouhealmybrokenheart and claim to have been catfished and want you to do this to prove yoou are who you say you are they where, they where very convincing at first until they asked for my email. Short answer its a SCAM
Joined: 3/19/2006
Msg: 12
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Posted: 7/24/2018 10:01:23 AM
had something like it, used a yahoo email address, it has a couple of thousand of unread emails in it

not sure of the site, but it was free one, gave them card numbers off a credit generation site

would never offer advice to a scammer or spammer, but did have one who was using their isp to host their site and sent email, they lost that ability :)
Joined: 8/21/2018
Msg: 13
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Posted: 8/26/2018 6:07:41 PM
People are still doing it. I had TWO on the same night at the same time trying the exact same thing. I’m guessing it was probably one person with two fake profiles. Tried to get me to agree to a video chat because they wanted to make sure I was who I said I was cause they had been catfished lol.

What I thought was unique about this was, it was long after conversation! We had been talking for about 10mins. You can usually tell by asking some weird question like “what’s your favourite colour?” But this time they had actually answered you bring in a totally weird “do you believe in Aliens?” Or “how old is your mom?” And you’ll see they won’t answer.

Anyway, keep your eyes open!
Joined: 10/3/2014
Msg: 14
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Posted: 11/23/2018 1:32:35 PM

Please don't give scammers and spammers hints. Candidly, I don't think most of them care to spend the time to learn. However, the better they get the worse it gets for the rest of us.

It's not that they don't care to learn, they're willing to adapt and adopt new tactics from "hints".

Best thing to do is report them, block them, move along.
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