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Joined: 6/6/2015
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Heartbroken & Wanting Advice
So I met my ex in 2014, he has been coming and going from my life for the past 3 years. When I met him his dad had just committed suicide and he was drinking alot and suicidal at times himself. We broke up in March 2015, he wanted to work it out till he ditched me in June 2015 for another girl. Then he came back in July and we stayed in contact till November 2015 then he blocked me and changed his number and we had no contact for 6 months then in May 2016 we got back in contact and started hanging out again and got really close we hung out the whole summer then his mom found out and he said we couldn't hang out anymore. During this time he even went as far as asking me to move to a new town with him. However even though his mom wouldn't approve he kept seeing me then the mom wrote me in Christmas threatening me with the police. I asked him about it and he said to ignore her.

In January he started school, and moved out of town and I thought for sure ok he would move on. Being at college, however he didn't, he kept coming home on weekends and spending time with me. We even got so close again, about a month back he wanted me to admit I was in love with him and he told me we are not together yet but will be. He wanted to get his life together. He said it gives him an ego boost though that I love him.
Anyway we have been continually hanging out till this past week, Friday night rolls around and I never heard from him but he went away camping. Then he messages me Saturday asking if I had a new boyfriend because he seen a pic of a guy on my profile and then said whatever he doesn't care.
Then yesterday he messaged me asking me if I wanted to see him and have sex and I agree then he asks for porn to be sent(he is addicted to porn) and so I start too then he says never mind, I can't go too your house anymore I am seeing someone, and I said since when and he goes now and I shouldn't sleep with you. We can't ever speak or see each other again but if you do speak to me I will call the cops on you or if you destroy my relationship. I then said well good luck to you and your girlfriend then he said she is not my *ucking girlfriend and I t hink you will do everything in your power to get me back and prevent me from being happy.

Do you think I will ever hear from him again? He has gone from my life like 5 times now, he acts like a narcissist. I am so heartbroken that he met a new girlfriend.
Joined: 9/18/2015
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Posted: 6/14/2017 9:18:21 AM
Ay caramba !

Is it possible for a DATING SITE to get a restraining order ?

Joined: 4/20/2017
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Posted: 6/14/2017 11:32:15 AM
Joined: 4/17/2011
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Posted: 7/2/2018 9:45:28 AM
you should have learned from the old saying------once burnt twice learned. Sorry sweetie but no he just played you. But good luck in the future.
Joined: 6/11/2013
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Posted: 7/24/2018 1:44:13 PM
I didn't need to read more than the first few sentences. Is this the only single guy in town? Why cling to him? He's obviously not interested. And he's a mess.
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