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 nba24
Joined: 4/11/2013
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I am not sure how long I have been on hear but am I the only one that fells like POF doesn't really work? I have lost track of the amount of girls I have messed on POF and like 99% of the time I get no response at all. I have found several girls to that looked like we had a lot in common who I messed and nothing. I have tried doing different types of messages to see what works and still mostly nothing. I have tried asking about one of there photos if it looks like it may be at a interesting location, or just saying high, or asking about how long they have lived were they live, or about something that they say they enjoy to do on there profile and again nothing. I think I have most likely tried to message like 100 girls and had like 2 that messed me back and the 2 that did it was like 1 message and that was it. It has gotten to the point where most girls that I have not messaged yet either I can tell we have nothing in common or I just don't find there attractive or they are to old or to young for me.
 U_KnowThatGuy
Joined: 8/26/2016
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Posted: 6/30/2017 1:29:05 AM
Have you done all the test?
Have you answered the questions that the woman you are trying to talk to answered ?
How many questions have you answered yourself? The more you answer the better chance you'll match with someone.
Do you go to the POF events? I've meet so many woman at these events that say that they don't answer IM's because they're scared to, but rather meet the guys at the events instead.
Plus, POF does have that feature you can pay for that will spruce up your profile for you.
 nba24
Joined: 4/11/2013
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Posted: 6/30/2017 11:25:12 PM
How can I answer a question if someone doesn't message me back? What questions are you talking about when you say answered yourself? No I have never went to a pof event. That sounds odd would think someone would want to talk to you before they meet you even if it is at a event. No I have not tried the feature that spruce up your profile. I have tried other online dating sites though and it is the same thing. When it comes to online dating I would say about .01% of women we message you back.
 fullmoonguy2
Joined: 6/14/2017
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Posted: 7/1/2017 2:55:39 PM

I've meet so many woman at these events that say that they don't answer IM's because they're scared to,


And there's the heart of the problem.

Fear leading to lack of participation, leading to nothing happening, leading to guaranteed failure.
 U_KnowThatGuy
Joined: 8/26/2016
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Posted: 7/12/2017 9:50:19 PM
Got to the Chemistry Page and do those, these will tell you who might answer you back.
http://www.pof.com/poftest.aspx
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