This kind of thing happens all the time
Yes, this kind of thing has always happened since POF was created. You just have to roll with it.
Either get rid of it, or give us an option to stop people asking to meet us...
They won't get rid of it, it's a revenue generator for POF. Every time someone clicks "yes" or "maybe" it fires off an email which users often click and are shown ad impressions. Why would they remove it? Why would they allow you to pot out??
The simple way to "opt out" is to make an email rule which sends all notifications to trash. Or I think you can turn off email notifications of meet me's. Same thing, really.