BTW it's: WHETHER and SEEM
Well, maybe he wants to weather the seams of a shemale's panty line! ;)
we have been in a endless struggle to find the elusive transgender / shemale
Okay... I've lost some bets with a GF, but Man! ;)
all we seam to find is mostly men that sneak their wives panties behind closed doors
As the guy above me pointed out, they are very few and far between. Basically, you're getting cross-dressers, you're saying? Here's the thing though: Many are just one step up from that. They'll still be a guy (penis), MAY have fake b00bs, but the main difference is they always dress what cross dressers do and are on female hormones (which helps shape them like a woman over time).
So I take it you want a guy with fake b00bs + on hormones, looking much like a woman? Yeah... I'd say take a vacation to Honolulu. You'll find some there. Otherwise, you're more likely to just run into guys on female hormones (shemales) who aren't going to tickle your Elmo in taste all that much if a cross-dressing guy doesn't cut it for ya.