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 alone3168
Joined: 11/8/2017
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Any ladies here into a Female Led Relationship? I have been reading about for a few months now and I would like to try one. Has any body here had any experience with one. If so did you like the experience? What was it like? Did it involve pegging and male chastity? Was cuckolding involved? Would any ladies be interested in starting one?
 Whisky_River
Joined: 10/14/2017
Msg: 2
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Posted: 5/21/2018 9:40:21 AM
Oh Boy...there is a Sex and Dating Forum...there may be already several threads on it.
https://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingForum8.aspx
 Kissfromarose77
Joined: 4/2/2018
Msg: 3
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Posted: 5/21/2018 10:42:01 AM
Trust me, you don’t want a woman to tell you what to do all the time. I’ve been there, and now I value my freedom more than ever. Why does somebody have to lead a relationship? Can’t things be equal?
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 5/21/2018 10:57:51 AM

Trust me, you don’t want a woman to tell you what to do all the time. I’ve been there, and now I value my freedom more than ever. Why does somebody have to lead a relationship? Can’t things be equal?


outside of your small little world....people have all kinds of different relationships and sexual desires...
 alone3168
Joined: 11/8/2017
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Posted: 5/21/2018 11:36:33 AM
Yes Thank You I would like to try it.
 feirene
Joined: 1/3/2017
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Posted: 5/21/2018 1:36:53 PM
Oh dear. You want a relationship that empowers women yet revolves around what you want sexually? Think again.
 MsMicki
Joined: 10/2/2006
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Posted: 5/21/2018 2:02:32 PM

Oh dear. You want a relationship that empowers women yet revolves around what you want sexually? Think again.

in the type of relationship he is wanting....it is what the woman also wants sexually...

Why is not ok for someone to have a different lifestyle than what others consider "normal"???
 BLONDE_ANGEL_1
Joined: 4/27/2018
Msg: 8
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Posted: 5/21/2018 2:10:03 PM

Oh dear. You want a relationship that empowers women yet revolves around what you want sexually? Think again.



In D/s world they would call this trying to "top from the bottom"

Sorry, it's all about what The Mistress wants if you go that route!
 alone3168
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Posted: 5/21/2018 2:13:08 PM
Yes I understand
 BLONDE_ANGEL_1
Joined: 4/27/2018
Msg: 10
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Posted: 5/21/2018 3:33:23 PM
you are not properly schooled!

Google Elise Sutton, find Her site & start there!

Also learn the proper salutations/punctuation for D/s etiquette!

the best place 4 you to place an ad would be collar me dot com IMO
 flowersinthelake
Joined: 5/11/2018
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Posted: 5/21/2018 4:18:19 PM
That's hot. I'm game...

But, does this means I'll have to pay for the dates?
 spot4username
Joined: 12/15/2015
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Posted: 5/21/2018 6:56:46 PM

the best place 4 you to place an ad would be collar me dot com IMO

It is now collar space dot com

......

is what I heard

.....

you know, from a friend
 jco415
Joined: 1/4/2017
Msg: 13
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Posted: 5/21/2018 7:11:39 PM
I'm not a submissive of any sort. I've had women try that Domme schtick on me before and it just makes me laugh...it's so cheesy!

On the other hand, I've met women that were so sexy/sensual and feminine and a bit devious but in a seductive way, they could bring me to my knees!

One had me in a chastity device for a time. It was crazy hot! I felt like I was in high school again...the desire was very intense and so was the sex when she unlocked me. She never cuckolded or pegged me or anything else. I normally wouldn't go for that but had she initiated that stuff at the height of my ( ...I don't know what to call it...desire?) I may have done just about anything for her to earn a release. The device kept me from even becoming erect yet rarely would it allow me to go completely flaccid either....it was a constant reminder of her...I couldn't get her out of my mind or wait to see her again. It drove me crazy! Then again, she was crazy hot too so...even without the device I may have felt the same...maybe not quite as intense though.

I have had a few open relationships, so kinda-sorta cuckolded...but different in dynamic. I did find it hotter when they played than when I played. The rush of every emotion possible simultaneously was like a high.....very intoxicating.

It would have to be just the right woman to pull any of that off again though, but, it's not impossible.

Most women these days have no idea how to seduce a man and drive him wild with their feminine wiles.
 feirene
Joined: 1/3/2017
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Posted: 5/21/2018 7:15:37 PM

in the type of relationship he is wanting....it is what the woman also wants sexually...

Why is not ok for someone to have a different lifestyle than what others consider "normal"???


I don't think you understood what i said. A FLR is about the woman being empowered.

I only see mention of his sexual wants and nothing else -which of course should be compatible with whoever wants to be with him but there's nothing to even hint at a relationship at all either, which is usual from men 'into' BDSM who don't get it and don't get anywhere. It's highly unlikely he will find someone to service him for free, so if that's all he's after he could try atuff out with a Pro.

Collarspace is not great, they got rid of the forums ages ago and last time i went on i couldn't even edit my profile (which was last week). Dunno if anyone even has success with that site because i just get foreign people wanting to dominate me or married guys trying to have an affair (when they should go to a Pro also).
 feirene
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Posted: 5/21/2018 7:20:22 PM

In D/s world they would call this trying to "top from the bottom"

Sorry, it's all about what The Mistress wants if you go that route!


Lol, i didn't mean that either (although it did make me smile as i can't stand people who try to top from the bottom). I get off on what the guy gets off on too, it's just FLR means everything about the relationship is led by the female (to the degree both are happy with) and i always see guys focus only on the sex side of it.
 purplerider1200
Joined: 9/10/2011
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Posted: 5/21/2018 8:31:55 PM
Ahh, isn't that called being married?

Last I checked, it meant coughing up your paycheck, waving bye-bye to your friends, being nagged about how you don't date your mate anymore, doing more housework. Since when was this changed to being in a female led relationship? Does that mean that the man might be allowed to get off once in a while? If it is, then it might be a step up from being married. Or is it that the man relinquishes his last right, called arguing?

I went there once. Never again.
 Kissfromarose77
Joined: 4/2/2018
Msg: 17
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Posted: 5/21/2018 9:18:55 PM

Most women these days have no idea how to seduce a man and drive him wild with their feminine wiles.


Apparently that doesn’t stop them from lamenting, “Where have all the real men gone?” and, “What happened to chivalry?”
 jco415
Joined: 1/4/2017
Msg: 18
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Posted: 5/21/2018 9:32:39 PM
^^^ True! When they ask what happened to chivalry I respond: radical feminism.
Women find men, ladies find gentlemen.
 reverendswine
Joined: 4/14/2018
Msg: 19
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Posted: 5/22/2018 3:49:08 AM
Uh, being a Dom, male or female, is about a hell of a lot more than *claiming* to be a "Dom" and attempting to find someone to obey your every command.

It is not *all* about what the Dom wants. It's about both the Dom *and* the sub. All boundaries and protocol are discussed beforehand, then decisions are made from there. People can *believe* whatever the hell they want, but the fact of the matter is, a D/s relationship is about symbiosis, not hierarchy.

In your case, OP, try a site like Fetlife. Search for groups centered around your interests and try to work your way toward attending a social gathering known as a "munch". Should you attend one, it would serve you well to be outgoing, but not overbearing, and do as much listening as you do talking. Don't walk in there thinking you know everything because you've seen some porn. You're there to learn. Another thing to keep in mind is, *usually*, sub males greatly outnumber female Doms, so it might take some patience.

However, with your living in Imokalee, I can't say I'm optimistic about there being a booming scene in that area.
 BLONDE_ANGEL_1
Joined: 4/27/2018
Msg: 20
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Posted: 5/22/2018 5:01:56 AM

But, does this means I'll have to pay for the dates?


Many Mistresses get Financial Tribute from their subs, just for the honor of Her telling them what nasty lil worms they are!


Most women these days have no idea how to seduce a man and drive him wild with their feminine wiles.


Most men these days are too concerned w/ being middle aged cheapskates, (only on POF FORUMS) so therefore they miss out on all the fun, then come there to lament their lack of success, or some of the over the hill men come in & post fantasy (not you jco, you appear young enough & open enough to have had some fun times)


is what I heard

.....

you know, from a friend


A friend told me she once dated from that site, the men took her out on great dates, paid & were hoping to NOT have sex!

Another friend was a limo driver that took a couple to the Eulenspiegel Society in NYC & she was invited in...she told me what she saw!

Then there was the upstate NY party where a man was roasted over an open pit, they took precautions & had medical staff on hand just in case.

My T friend belongs to various Meetup Groups, one is a Poly group, plus s/he belongs to a few "alt" groups...I get to hear some interesting stories from time to time...
 PennyAnte
Joined: 4/17/2016
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Posted: 5/22/2018 9:46:17 AM
"Many Mistresses get Financial Tribute from their subs, just for the honor of Her telling them what nasty lil worms they are!"

I know a 23 year old girl in college who does guarded sessions with various men as a dominatrix. She pulls $1500.00 per session.

There are woman that like both domination and submission. SAFE WORDS are key.
 purplerider1200
Joined: 9/10/2011
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Posted: 5/22/2018 2:33:49 PM
$1500 per session? Those guys have WAAAY too much money and time on their hands.
 JGL209
Joined: 5/1/2018
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Posted: 5/22/2018 2:36:55 PM

$1500 per session? Those guys have WAAAY too much money and time on their hands.


That's what I thought. You know the old saying 'a fool and his money are soon departed.'
 fullmoonguy2
Joined: 6/14/2017
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Posted: 5/22/2018 2:40:04 PM

$1500.00 per session.




SAFE WORDS are key.


My safe words:

NO....WAY....IN....HELL
 Kissfromarose77
Joined: 4/2/2018
Msg: 25
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Posted: 5/22/2018 5:25:13 PM
$1500.00 for paying some dom to slap them?! These guys are nuts.
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