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I am good looking, just want to put this in perspective...

I get often told I look like George Clooney, and/or someone they know... plus I have dark facial features ie: thick eye brows, dark hair...

That being said, I have been single for about a year. Not by lack of trying, but I cant seem to find that lady that fits into my lifestyle.

So, now that I your attention here is my question.

I have recently attended a few "meet" parties and I have no issue saying hi... are there any ladies out there that like to make the first move?
I guess this long winded question is more of a rant than anything else.
 Robyn143
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Posted: 9/10/2018 3:13:20 PM
How old are you? you dont seem 40..and putting well endowed is just ****ing trashy, dude. No one cares. No one will also cared about your profile because you dont have any pics. Call yourself George Clooney all you want, Cletus.
 cooldog65
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Posted: 9/10/2018 9:18:41 PM

are there any ladies out there that like to make the first move?


We have 27 pages to answer your question...

https://forums.plentyoffish.com/datingPosts593614.aspx
 whiterose0
Joined: 2/3/2009
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Posted: 9/11/2018 8:21:13 AM
There are women who will make the first move, but the fact that you don't have pictures up will discourage many of them from contacting you in here, because they will think you have something to hide.
 hemingway234
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Posted: 9/12/2018 4:05:56 AM
Some will make the first move on dating sites.

Meet me parties, what's that? In person, women will make the first move, but mostly after they get to know you and develop a crush.......for that to happen you would have to see them regularly, like in a class, club, or group.

But if you really look like George Clooney, just go hang out at the beach, bar or mall and say hi and joke around with the ladies, you won't be single for long.
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Posted: 9/12/2018 9:46:57 AM
LOL @ Cletus while waiting on hurricane Florence.
 mahwahgirl339114
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Posted: 9/13/2018 12:13:22 PM
A very feminine posting... Advertising your physical assets and waiting for bidders.
 Clytemnestra
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Posted: 9/13/2018 1:27:27 PM
^^^msg#7: A very feminine posting?
Hardly.

More like an advertisement for shopping oneself out as a 'rent boy'!
hahahaha
 mahwahgirl339114
Joined: 10/31/2017
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Posted: 9/13/2018 4:47:28 PM
^^^True, that's a better analogy.
 whiterose0
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Posted: 9/13/2018 8:39:28 PM
Personally, I wouldn't rent at any place where I couldn't view the merchandise.
 cooldog65
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Posted: 9/13/2018 8:47:54 PM

I guess this long winded question is more of a rant than anything else.


You haven't seen long winded until you have seen a Hawking post...
 Iredurbio2
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Posted: 9/16/2018 8:41:29 AM
Dating silhouettes takes way too much back lighting!
 MeramecRiverRat
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Posted: 9/16/2018 9:31:04 AM
If you look so great, why no photo?

Have heard that dudes who put up a main photo of a guy considered especially good looking get many unsolicited first contact messages from female profiles, including women who claim they're not looking.

Women have to make the first move on Bumble. From what I've seen, most of them don't send a message within the 24 hour window they have before the match expires. Many women on Bumble and Tinder seem to be there just for validation, getting off on the number of people who swipe yes on their photo, but they don't actually send messages or reply to many of the men on Tinder who messaged her first. Bumble consumes a lot of data, so if you have a data limit on your phone plan, use sparingly.

I hope you're not foolish enough to think anyone in your area reads forums and will make a first move on you after reading your post!

Some gals on POF (and OKC before the site because a ghost town) message me first, and are not spammers, and I don't proclaim myself good looking and I have blond eyebrows and I now have nothing in common with George Clooney (he and I had one thing in common until recently: no kids, then the son of a gun became a dad). So some do make the first move.

Do they like to do so, probably not. Some gals I've encountered in real life over the years seemed to wait patiently for me to make the first move, then after a certain amount of time, they went ahead and initiated things. I believe they would have preferred I initiated things.
 mahwahgirl339114
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Posted: 9/16/2018 10:47:04 AM

I hope you're not foolish enough to think anyone in your area reads forums and will make a first move on you after reading your post!

OP's town is close to me. In fact, I know it well, it is an old Italian American town, that's why it makes sense that OP is Italian. No, I wouldn't make the first move, there are enough men who have pictures up and are handsome.
 flowersinthelake
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Posted: 9/20/2018 3:42:27 AM

Dating silhouettes takes way too much back lighting!


LOL!
 bearcat44
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Posted: 10/19/2018 10:23:34 AM
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=npBKT6ZV9Xg
 ontheotherhand
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Posted: 10/22/2018 8:25:13 PM
OP, pictures really do improve your chances.
 Tech30
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Posted: 10/30/2018 6:54:53 AM
Thinks hes goerge clooney....Wants women to make the first move.... What a lady killer!
 spot4username
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Posted: 10/30/2018 7:36:07 AM
I do thank the OP for his profile. I needed a giggle today.

Bless his heart.
 whiterose0
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Posted: 10/30/2018 8:02:52 AM
If you're looking for women for hookups, as you state in your profile, I'm afraid you're not going to have any luck - especially without an attractive headshot. Showing only your body and blocking out your face sends women the message that you're facially unattractive.
 cooldog65
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Posted: 10/30/2018 9:15:08 AM
OP...You need to work on the biceps. Mine are bigger.

And that's a wrap on this thread.
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