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 dannmann92
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So my girlfriend at the time said that wasn't sure if she wanted to stay with me or not. I asked her what she wanted, she stalled, so I broke it off. She sent me a message explaining that she was just scared and tried to push me away. I told her I would decide on what I wanted to do about our relationship. I told her I would call the next day but didn't. Then a few days later I told her the same thing and didn't call. I guess she finally got fed up so I told her I would definitely let her know on Monday if I still wanted to be with her or not. Well I didn't call on Monday. Tuesday night I sent her text saying I was sorry for not having texted her that day and that I would call her tomorrow after work. I go check on Instagram and she unfollowed me smh.

I sent her a message saying to scratch what I had just said. She put the nail in the coffin and she's childish. I said some other stuff but told her that I swear on everything I wont respond to any texts or phone calls so don't even try and then wished her good luck in life.

10 minutes later I get a text from her saying she was sorry and she took my silence as being done so she unfollowed me. Then I get another text saying she's just been freaked out because she's been worried that she's preggo and believing it was over, having to see me constantly on social media would just hurt so unfollowing me was self preservation. She apologized again. Called a few times. Sent another text saying she was sorry and she wasn't trying to be childish and I didn't understand her thought process-"to think things are over, to think you're pregnant, and having a constant reminder would just hurt. Since I didn't hear from you I took that as as I sign that I needed to move on." She said she had tried to hint as this to me weeks ago but because we weren't talking it didn't seem like an appropriate time to bring it up and it would've looked weird if she had. Then she said that her friend had been pushing her to get a test done and then sent me a screenshot of her friend asking the day before if she got the test. She said how she's been freaked out that she thought she would have to go through the abortion alone and unfollowing me would make it easier if she didn't see me since she thought it was over. She kept texting begging me to just talk to her and she called a few more times. Her last messaged said please call me back talking about pregnancy over text isn't appropriate. I never picked up or responded to her.

The next day she sends me a picture of the positive pregnancy test. She's holding the positive test in front of her toothbrush holder in her bathroom. She sent a message saying she had wanted to talk about it on Monday when I was supposed to call and said again how she wasn't being childish, and this (the pregnancy) is the reason why she was freaked out. I didn't respond to her message. That was a week ago. She hasn't said anything else so I blocked her.

I'm not wrong here, don't give into crazy right?
 RoxyMoronic
Joined: 6/7/2016
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Posted: 10/21/2018 12:49:13 PM
It’s not very interesting, is it a play?
I mean some people like drama but I’m more a thriller/suspense type.
Your role is duped ex boyfriend or dead beat dad?
Better than playing a zombie I suppose, I have a friend who played one, make-up took hours.
Good luck
 Spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
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Ex told me she's pregnant. I blocked her.
Posted: 10/21/2018 12:57:20 PM
I'd be changing. Do you have children to yes on your profile soon.

Better man up either way as Roxy Pointed out Duped or Dead Beat.
 dannmann92
Joined: 3/23/2016
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Posted: 10/21/2018 12:59:56 PM

I'd be changing. Do you have children to yes on your profile soon.

Better man up either way as Roxy Pointed out Duped or Dead Beat.


I KNOW she's duping me
 Spectrallight
Joined: 9/14/2018
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Posted: 10/21/2018 1:11:13 PM
You need to be having conversation with this woman face to face.
 oldwxman
Joined: 7/22/2018
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Posted: 10/21/2018 1:11:28 PM
*I KNOW she's duping me

Get a lawyer ASAP.

DO NOT have a conversation with her EVER AGAIN. That is your lawyer's job. You may not think that you can afford to get a lawyer but you can't afford not to get one.
 dannmann92
Joined: 3/23/2016
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Posted: 10/21/2018 1:13:01 PM
quote]*I KNOW she's duping me

Get a lawyer ASAP.

For what? She's not really pregnant
 Spectrallight
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Posted: 10/21/2018 1:15:53 PM

For what? She's not really pregnant


I think you're in for an awakening unless this is just all fabricated bullsh*t?
 Spectrallight
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Posted: 10/21/2018 1:20:23 PM

DO NOT have a conversation with her EVER AGAIN. That is your lawyer's job. You may not think that you can afford to get a lawyer but you can't afford not to get one.


Can we also assume that's she actually pregnant with is child? People aren't exactly great when scared.

Not like she can defend herself in this thread . Is it?

Presumed guilty right away.
 oldwxman
Joined: 7/22/2018
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Posted: 10/21/2018 1:21:41 PM
For what? She's not really pregnant

Doesn't matter. She might go out and get pregnant just to stick it to you. This one sounds like the type that will do exactly that. You will get blamed. You need help just to get things badly stacked against you instead of completely hopeless.
 RoxyMoronic
Joined: 6/7/2016
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Posted: 10/21/2018 1:31:52 PM

For what? She's not really pregnant

You should have added ........ between ? and She’s to build up the suspense
 ontheotherhand
Joined: 6/24/2018
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Posted: 10/21/2018 1:51:28 PM
Heaven help the kid if your ex is pregnant. Both of you need to grow up.

Listen to those telling you to contact a lawyer. If she's pregnant with your child you need to know your rights and responsibilities. Putting it off is foolish.
 RoxyMoronic
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Posted: 10/21/2018 2:52:13 PM
Actually on reflection I think ....... would be better placed between really and pregnant
Damn I can’t make up my mind.
This is why I don’t write.
 spot4username
Joined: 12/15/2015
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Posted: 10/21/2018 3:45:49 PM

Actually on reflection I think ....... would be better placed between really and pregnant
Damn I can’t make up my mind.
This is why I don’t write.

I was hoping for some sort of plot twist. So far it is very predictable.
 Chastirin
Joined: 10/3/2018
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Posted: 10/21/2018 4:01:19 PM
^^^ well,


The next day she sends me a picture of the positive pregnancy test. She's holding the positive test in front of her toothbrush holder in her bathroom. She sent a message saying she had wanted to talk about it on Monday when I was supposed to call and said again how she wasn't being childish, and this (the pregnancy)

so not the toothbrush holder, hmmm, the toothbrush holder is evidently significant though - maybe the twist has something to do with that

is the reason why she was freaked out. I didn't respond to her message. That was a week ago. She hasn't said anything else so I blocked her.
 TheEvolutionOfJessi
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Posted: 10/21/2018 5:55:08 PM

Heaven help the kid if your ex is pregnant. Both of you need to grow up.

Listen to those telling you to contact a lawyer. If she's pregnant with your child you need to know your rights and responsibilities. Putting it off is foolish.


Ditto from down under...
No point playing ostrich on this one... lawyer.. DNA test and fer fricks sake, thank you for reminding me of why I'm offering my boy $40k to not make me a grandmother...
 dannmann92
Joined: 3/23/2016
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Posted: 10/21/2018 7:01:16 PM

Ditto from down under...
No point playing ostrich on this one... lawyer.. DNA test and fer fricks sake, thank you for reminding me of why I'm offering my boy $40k to not make me a grandmother...



she sent me this the next day after telling me she's pregnant https://imgur.com/a/qAlV5EY
 ontheotherhand
Joined: 6/24/2018
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Posted: 10/21/2018 7:24:57 PM
She sent you a picture of a positive pregnancy test. If she's pregnant with your kid blocking her isn't gonna make your problems go away. Stop being a fool.
 SiennaBear2
Joined: 12/2/2017
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Posted: 10/21/2018 9:16:59 PM
You constantly broke promises of what you said you'd do and treated her badly. I feel bad for this woman who is chasing after you when you are obviously lazy and self centered.
You have a child now, I hope she makes you pay child support.
 Tech30
Joined: 8/11/2017
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Posted: 10/22/2018 7:22:21 AM
You're both far too immature to have kids. If she is pregnant, She should give it up for adoption, then you two should never speak to each other and stop having unprotected sex until youre a mature reasonable person.
 PennyAnte
Joined: 4/17/2016
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Posted: 10/22/2018 8:09:08 AM
The picture looks like a positive test. If it could be yours....start saving your pennies. You'r'e in for 18 years. Child support and medical insurance. Like it or not. You need a DNA test when that baby is born. Call Maury.
 dannmann92
Joined: 3/23/2016
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Posted: 10/22/2018 8:33:36 AM
IF she's really pregnant I know the kid is mine. She would never cheat.

Either way she's just doing this for sympathy and attention. --saying we need to talk. If you're not going to keep it what is there to talk about? Sounds like she's trying to trap me into speaking to her
 Tech30
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Posted: 10/22/2018 8:44:12 AM
Trap you into speaking to her? Wow can you imagine having to actually talk to someone and work things out? Absurd!!
 dannmann92
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Posted: 10/22/2018 8:49:25 AM

Trap you into speaking to her? Wow can you imagine having to actually talk to someone and work things out? Absurd!!


Well yea, because I had ended things with her. She wanted to trap me into speaking about us.
 RoxyMoronic
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Posted: 10/22/2018 10:35:31 AM

Wow can you imagine having to actually talk to someone and work things out? Absurd!!

An awful lot of storylines (esp love ones) are based on this premise. Absurd I know.
When is the plot twist coming in.....is chastirin right? Is the toothbrush holder really hers?
Baited breath.......
(I’m creating my own suspense)
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