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 Kevin116
Joined: 8/7/2018
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my ex-girlfriend wants me to come by her new apartment and see it ?? I don't think this is probably a good idea why do you guys think about it. then she said I can come over almost any time's up on Friday when she's with a boyfriend house.
 LeFouGamboj
Joined: 11/17/2018
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Posted: 1/10/2019 5:45:25 AM
Did you ask her why she wants you to see it.............especially if she now has a boyfriend......also, why is she still calling you.
 Inner_circle
Joined: 7/11/2015
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Posted: 1/10/2019 7:12:17 AM
I would not bother seeing her or her house, but then I make choices that don't cause drama in my life wherever possible.
 daynadaze
Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 1/10/2019 9:25:51 AM
I would have laughed as I was hanging up.
 Clytemnestra
Joined: 6/6/2018
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Posted: 1/10/2019 11:58:57 AM
OP, stop by with a nice house-warming gift.
Maybe a nice bottle of wine or an InstaPot >>

She'll love ya for it,probably give you a big old kiss!
 jerseynative7
Joined: 10/26/2018
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Posted: 1/10/2019 12:34:29 PM
She wants you to see her nice, new apartment so you know how good she's doing without you.
 Noftheborder
Joined: 10/4/2018
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Posted: 1/10/2019 12:37:58 PM

Maybe a nice bottle of wine or an InstaPot

...or maybe even better - a Neti Pot - to help her get rid of the snot.
 Clytemnestra
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Posted: 1/10/2019 1:17:03 PM
msg#7:
Maybe a nice bottle of wine or an InstaPot

...or maybe even better - a Neti Pot - to help her get rid of the snot.


Good one~

hahahahaha
 MyTrueCompanion
Joined: 9/20/2018
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Posted: 1/10/2019 1:26:21 PM
buh-bye...
















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 pfif
Joined: 8/25/2013
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Posted: 1/10/2019 4:33:37 PM
If you meet in public at least that buys you half
an hour to figure out what's really going on.

Like, five miles away, public, from either of your
apartments, public.

Maybe ten.
 PennyAnte
Joined: 4/17/2016
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Posted: 1/10/2019 8:53:35 PM
She is your ex for a reason. Why would you have any interest in being her "friend" and going over to her new place for any reason? First thought...
She might be extending the invitation just to make her new bf jealous. I wouldn't risk that kind of drama.
Politely decline her invitation if she calls you again. Go with your gut instinct...
"I don't think this is probably a good idea"
Do not initiate any form of contact with her again. She is swinging back to you on her monkey branch. Her new bf
may be boring or not giving her the attention she wants so she is trying to stir the pot. Don't be the spoon.
 Kevin116
Joined: 8/7/2018
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Posted: 1/11/2019 2:54:12 AM

She wants you to see her nice, new apartment so you know how good she's doing without you.


bingo think this is what is going on.
 Kevin116
Joined: 8/7/2018
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Posted: 1/11/2019 3:00:40 AM

OP, stop by with a nice house-warming gift.
Maybe a nice bottle of wine or an InstaPot >>

She'll love ya for it,probably give you a big old kiss! /quote]
when she moved into the place I got crockpot and microwavehow.
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 1/11/2019 9:49:18 AM
She wants to keep you around as Plan B. I wouldn't be surprised if the boyfriend was Plan B when you were with her.

Don't get caught up in this potential drama.
 whiterose0
Joined: 2/3/2009
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Posted: 1/11/2019 11:13:28 AM
No, I don't think that's a good idea. You need to keep your distance from her. She's playing games.

Why would you have the key to her apartment, anyway?
 __TEXASCHICK__
Joined: 11/9/2011
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Posted: 1/11/2019 3:35:41 PM
Steer clear,,,,Your ex is a hot mess, and prob not good idea to get caught up in it.
 norwegianguy456
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Posted: 1/12/2019 10:13:37 AM

my ex-girlfriend wants me to come by her new apartment and see it ??

Tell her Yes. Book a time. Don't go tho. Keep texting her that you're there, but she can't see you. Stay at home. Give her the run-around. Then say "Oh, sorry, I met this cute gal outside your place and I'm at hers. She wants me to spend the night!"
 DawnNuSun
Joined: 10/29/2018
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Posted: 1/12/2019 12:36:19 PM
That's funny! Do what your mind tells you to do. Why would she want you hanging around? And why would you want to? She is probably hoping her new boyfriend will show up while you are there, and that would make him jealous.
 ontheotherhand
Joined: 6/24/2018
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Posted: 1/13/2019 5:29:52 PM
I believe that some people can and do remain friends, but there has to have been a real friendship to begin with. Because she wasn't a friend is probably why you don't think it's a good idea. Go with your gut on this one. It's telling you this is a bad idea for a reason.
 Coma_White
Joined: 9/15/2013
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Posted: 1/14/2019 10:04:33 AM

my ex-girlfriend wants me to come by her new apartment and see it ?? I don't think this is probably a good idea why do you guys think about it. then she said I can come over almost any time's up on Friday when she's with a boyfriend house.


There are only three possibilities and they should be super obvious to anyone. She either wants to get laid, wants to get back with you because her new boyfriend sucks or she wants money from you.
 dinno76
Joined: 7/13/2018
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Posted: 1/14/2019 12:07:37 PM
Maybe she wants you to meet her new boyfriend.
 backcreek7
Joined: 12/2/2014
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Posted: 1/14/2019 1:55:50 PM
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... She is acting / thinking like a 15 year old might ~ playing childish games with your heart. If this turns out not to be the case, could be her intellectual level > is hovering somewhere under, the age mentioned above .

... heart / sun
 Kevin116
Joined: 8/7/2018
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Posted: 1/14/2019 3:52:49 PM
"Maybe she wants you to meet her new boyfriend"
Lol the only problem is she actually doesn't have a boyfriend. She just got done telling me that over the phone cell lol lol
 cooldog65
Joined: 6/27/2011
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Posted: 1/14/2019 8:31:29 PM
^^^ Your opening statement is a bit tough to completely comprehend due to the numerous grammatical errors. The word "boyfriend" is in it.

We may need a more thorough explanation.
 spot4username
Joined: 12/15/2015
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Posted: 1/15/2019 3:56:02 AM
Based on your posting history and social media that you linked for the forum to see you come across as very immature and drama loving. Water seeks its own level.
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