| wow Page 1 of 2 (1, 2) | my ex-girlfriend wants me to come by her new apartment and see it ?? I don't think this is probably a good idea why do you guys think about it. then she said I can come over almost any time's up on Friday when she's with a boyfriend house. | |
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| wow Posted: 1/10/2019 5:45:25 AM | Did you ask her why she wants you to see it.............especially if she now has a boyfriend......also, why is she still calling you. | |
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| wow Posted: 1/10/2019 7:12:17 AM | I would not bother seeing her or her house, but then I make choices that don't cause drama in my life wherever possible. | |
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| wow Posted: 1/10/2019 9:25:51 AM | I would have laughed as I was hanging up. | |
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| wow Posted: 1/10/2019 11:58:57 AM | OP, stop by with a nice house-warming gift. Maybe a nice bottle of wine or an InstaPot >>
She'll love ya for it,probably give you a big old kiss! | |
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| wow Posted: 1/10/2019 12:34:29 PM | She wants you to see her nice, new apartment so you know how good she's doing without you. | |
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| wow Posted: 1/10/2019 12:37:58 PM |
Maybe a nice bottle of wine or an InstaPot ...or maybe even better - a Neti Pot - to help her get rid of the snot. | |
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| wow Posted: 1/10/2019 1:17:03 PM | msg#7:
Maybe a nice bottle of wine or an InstaPot
...or maybe even better - a Neti Pot - to help her get rid of the snot.
Good one~
hahahahaha | |
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| wow Posted: 1/10/2019 1:26:21 PM | buh-bye...
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| wow Posted: 1/10/2019 4:33:37 PM | If you meet in public at least that buys you half an hour to figure out what's really going on.
Like, five miles away, public, from either of your apartments, public.
Maybe ten. | |
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| wow Posted: 1/10/2019 8:53:35 PM | She is your ex for a reason. Why would you have any interest in being her "friend" and going over to her new place for any reason? First thought... She might be extending the invitation just to make her new bf jealous. I wouldn't risk that kind of drama. Politely decline her invitation if she calls you again. Go with your gut instinct... "I don't think this is probably a good idea" Do not initiate any form of contact with her again. She is swinging back to you on her monkey branch. Her new bf may be boring or not giving her the attention she wants so she is trying to stir the pot. Don't be the spoon. | |
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| wow Posted: 1/11/2019 2:54:12 AM |
She wants you to see her nice, new apartment so you know how good she's doing without you.
bingo think this is what is going on. | |
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| wow Posted: 1/11/2019 3:00:40 AM |
OP, stop by with a nice house-warming gift. Maybe a nice bottle of wine or an InstaPot >>
She'll love ya for it,probably give you a big old kiss! /quote] when she moved into the place I got crockpot and microwavehow. | |
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| wow Posted: 1/11/2019 9:49:18 AM | She wants to keep you around as Plan B. I wouldn't be surprised if the boyfriend was Plan B when you were with her.
Don't get caught up in this potential drama. | |
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| wow Posted: 1/11/2019 11:13:28 AM | No, I don't think that's a good idea. You need to keep your distance from her. She's playing games.
Why would you have the key to her apartment, anyway? | |
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| wow Posted: 1/11/2019 3:35:41 PM | Steer clear,,,,Your ex is a hot mess, and prob not good idea to get caught up in it. | |
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| wow Posted: 1/12/2019 10:13:37 AM |
my ex-girlfriend wants me to come by her new apartment and see it ?? Tell her Yes. Book a time. Don't go tho. Keep texting her that you're there, but she can't see you. Stay at home. Give her the run-around. Then say "Oh, sorry, I met this cute gal outside your place and I'm at hers. She wants me to spend the night!" | |
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| wow Posted: 1/12/2019 12:36:19 PM | That's funny! Do what your mind tells you to do. Why would she want you hanging around? And why would you want to? She is probably hoping her new boyfriend will show up while you are there, and that would make him jealous. | |
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| wow Posted: 1/13/2019 5:29:52 PM | I believe that some people can and do remain friends, but there has to have been a real friendship to begin with. Because she wasn't a friend is probably why you don't think it's a good idea. Go with your gut on this one. It's telling you this is a bad idea for a reason. | |
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| wow Posted: 1/14/2019 10:04:33 AM |
my ex-girlfriend wants me to come by her new apartment and see it ?? I don't think this is probably a good idea why do you guys think about it. then she said I can come over almost any time's up on Friday when she's with a boyfriend house.
There are only three possibilities and they should be super obvious to anyone. She either wants to get laid, wants to get back with you because her new boyfriend sucks or she wants money from you. | |
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| wow Posted: 1/14/2019 12:07:37 PM | Maybe she wants you to meet her new boyfriend. | |
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| wow Posted: 1/14/2019 1:55:50 PM | . . ... She is acting / thinking like a 15 year old might ~ playing childish games with your heart. If this turns out not to be the case, could be her intellectual level > is hovering somewhere under, the age mentioned above .
... heart / sun | |
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| wow Posted: 1/14/2019 3:52:49 PM | "Maybe she wants you to meet her new boyfriend" Lol the only problem is she actually doesn't have a boyfriend. She just got done telling me that over the phone cell lol lol | |
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| wow Posted: 1/14/2019 8:31:29 PM | ^^^ Your opening statement is a bit tough to completely comprehend due to the numerous grammatical errors. The word "boyfriend" is in it.
We may need a more thorough explanation. | |
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| wow Posted: 1/15/2019 3:56:02 AM | Based on your posting history and social media that you linked for the forum to see you come across as very immature and drama loving. Water seeks its own level. | |
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